Ukuzalwa komntwana kufuna imbopheleleko enkulu. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba sizama kangakanani ukubafundisa ngokuchanekileyo, banokuba ngumntwana owonakeleyo. Imfundo ijolise ekufundiseni okulungileyo kwaye ngaphandle kokuqaphela ukuba sibanika yonke into ngokupheleleyo. Ukunikwa impendulo enjalo, ayiqikeleleki ukuba abantwana basabela ngendlela ebesingayilindelanga, Baba nomsindo kwaye bayacaphuka.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ukuhlazisa esidlangalaleni Unokuqala ukubona iimpawu zomntwana owonakele. Nokuba awumthengeli into ayifunayo, uyakongamela apho afuna ukuya khona kwaye ngaphezulu kwalonto unomsindo ongazenzisiyo, sijongene nobungqina bokuba thatha iindlela ezinokwenzeka zokufundisa ngokuchanekileyo.
Umbona njani umntwana owonakeleyo
Abazali banjalo owokuqala ubukhanyela ubungqina obunjalo, siye saqhelana nokuziphatha kwayo kwaye ngoko asiboni impazamo enokwenzeka. Lungisa kwaye uhlalutye izenzo zakho kwaye uqaphele into engenakwenzeka, inokuba linyathelo elihle lokunceda wonke umntu. Sibona ukuziphatha kakubi xa:
- Isindululo sakhe sokuqala kukulawula abantu abadala, Akukho mntu ubonakala emkhulu kunaye okanye owahlula igunya. Uyakuthanda ukuxhaphaza izigqibo zakhe kwaye Xa engayifumani indlela yakhe uyacaphuka.
- I nyaniso Yiba nokucaphuka rhoqo Sisiphumo sezenzo ezininzi ezicetywayo. Ziye zaphindaphindana kwaye zinjalo Awukhathali ukuba nazo naphi na nangaliphi na ixesha. Apha kufuneka uchonge ipateni ebangela ukuba baqale babone ukuba ngubani onegunya kwaye basombulule ingxabano.
- Indlela oziphatha ngayo kwabanye iyakwenza ukuba ungaze uvumelane noko bakungqongileyo bakuyalelayo, Basenokuba ngabahlobo kwanentsapho. Akaqhelekanga ukwabelana nantoni na, ekubeni kubo kunzima ukufunda nokuphumelela.
- Ezinye izibonakaliso zezo Akonelisekanga nantoni na. Ukuba babona umntu onento engaphezu kwabo, loo nto idala ukudakumba.
- Indlela abaziphatha ngayo kwigunya labazali idla ngokudelela, ngokuqhelekileyo alihoyi igama elithi "hayi", kufuneka umbongoze ukuba enze isigqibo uze umcenge ukuba awugqibezele umsebenzi othile.
- Yiyo ke loo nto bafikelele kwisigqibo sokumnyoba; mhlawumbi ngeethoyi, okanye ngeelekese okanye nayiphi na inyani emanelisayo. Ayisosindululo esihle kwaye kufuneka uthathe amayeza.
Iingcebiso zokumfundisa
Kufuneka sicinge ngonxibelelwano lwethu lokuqala kunye nabo, ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba sibathanda kangakanani, Azingombindi wendalo iphela. Abazimele geqe kuninzi lwezenzo zabo kwaye kufuneka sibancede, kodwa kufuneka siqinisekise ukuba Yabelana ngezinto ezikuxhalabisayo kwaye ufunde ukuhlala eluntwini. Kufuneka baqonde indlela yokuziphatha nabanye kwaye bayazi indlela yokubulela kwaye kufuneka bacele ukuxolelwa. Akuyomfuneko ukuba zinikwe ingqalelo yethu epheleleyo rhoqo.
Kukho oko yimani niqinile kuzo zonke izigqibo kwaye unganikezeli kwiminqweno yakhe. Kuba Kulungile ukubeka imida, ungabavumeli ukuba bathathe ii-apts ezithile ezingavumelekanga, kodwa kufuneka zenziwe ngokuqhubekayo kunye nokuziphatha, ngaphandle kokuphula imithetho.
Basoloko benyanzelekile sizijonge njengegunya, Kufuneka bazive loo ntlonipho kwaye Ungasiphathi njengabahlobo bakho. Kodwa Ukuba akufuneki kusweleke inkxaso engenamiqathango kubo, Kufuneka bazi ukuba ukhuseleko lwethu lukhona kodwa uninzi lweengxaki eluntwini zinokusonjululwa bebodwa.
Yiyo loo nto nangona sihlala sifuna ukubabona bonwabile, Asinakukwazi ukubavumela yonke iminqweno yabo. Sikwanelungelo lokwala xa kuyimfuneko yaye akuyomfuneko ukuba siyincame indima yomzali.