Ukufundisa abantwana ukuhlonipha abadala babo yenye ye ezona zifundo zibalulekileyo ebomini onokuthi uzinike abantwana bakho. Sonke siyakufikelela ebudaleni ngelinye ixesha, into edla ngokubonakala ngathi ilibalekile njengoko abantu abadala bephathwa rhoqo njengabemi abakwinqanaba lesithathu. Kulo nyaka ngamandla amakhulu ukuba kunokwenzeka, kufanelekile ukumilisela umyalezo omkhulu oza kuzika nzulu kwisazela somntu wonke, kubalulekile ukuphelisa ukuxhatshazwa nokuphathwa gadalala ebudaleni.
Ukufikelela ebudaleni akufani nokunyamalala, akukho mntu unelungelo lokujongela phantsi omnye umntu ngenxa nje yokuba emdala. Njengokuba ukuba mdala kwakuyinto elihlazo ekushiya ungenamalungelo phambi koluntu luphela, le yinto ayamkelekanga. Namhlanje umhla we-15 kweyeSilimela ubhiyozelwa minyaka le njengoSuku lweHlabathi loKwazisa ngokuSetyenziswa gwenxa nokuphathwa gadalala kwabantu abadala.
Injongo yesi sikhumbuzo ayikho enye into, gxeka unyango olufunyanwa zizigidi zabantu abadala yonke imihla naphi na emhlabeni. Imalunga nokwazisa uluntu ekuhlaleni, ukuze wonke umntu azi ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuba ukujonga kwelinye icala kwaye ungenzi nto ayikho enye into ngaphandle kwendlela yokuvumela oku ukuba kwenzeke.
Fundisa abantwana bakho ukuhlonipha abantu abadala
Yonke into oyifaka ebantwaneni bakho, onke amaxabiso obafundisa ngawo namhlanje, Bayakuba nefuthe koko kuya kuba ngomso. Ukuba abantwana bakhule njengabantu abakhathalayo, abahloniphayo, abanovelwano, nabantu abadala abazilelayo ekuhlaleni ngumsebenzi ophambili wootata noomama. Abantwana kufuneka bafunde uku hlonipha abantu abadala Ukuqala kwabo basondeleyo kubo, abazali babo, ootatomkhulu nootatomkhulu babo, ootitshala babo esikolweni, kodwa nangabantu abadala abasenokuba basendleleni.
Ukuhlonipha abanye kubalulekile, kubo bonke abantu. Kodwa abantu abadala kusafanele bahlonitshwe ngakumbi, kuba iminyaka emininzi baye balwela ukushiya ilizwe elingcono kwabo balandelayo. Ngesi sizathu, kufanelekile ukuba baphile kwinqanaba lokugqibela lobomi babo kamnandi, bahlonitshwe kwaye baxatyiswe njengabona baninzi. Nangona kunjalo, oku akunjalo kuzo zonke iimeko kwaye abantu abadala bahlala bephathwa ngokulihlazo kwaye ngokuthoba isidima.
Indlela Yokufundisa Abantwana, Umzekelo Kuqala
Eyona ndlela yokufundisa abantwana kungumzekelo, yonke into abayibonayo kuwe yeyokuba bazokugqibela bephindaphinda. Akuncedi nganto ukuba ujonge iindlela zokufundisa abantwana, nokuba yimbeko yabantu abadala okanye nasiphi na isifundo. Ukuba kamva ababoni ukuba wena ngokwakho wenza ngokwento oyifaka kuboKungekudala baya kuphelisa ukuphinda iimpazamo zakho. Ke ngoko, soloko uzibonisa kwaye naphantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko uhloniphe abantu abadala.
Kunqande ukwenza amagqabantshintshi phambi kwabantwana, izinto ezihlala zisenziwa ngaphandle kokubaluleka kodwa ezingena ebantwaneni. Zama sukutyhola abantu abadala ngokwenza iimpazamo kuba bebadala, ukuba baqhuba belumkile, bayachwechwa emgceni evenkileni okanye benze into engafanelekanga. Ezi ndlela zokuziphatha azingomphumo wokuba mdala, kwaye ngenxa yoko azinakubalwa.
Kuba ukuba usebenzisa phambi kwabantwana bakho ukuba ukuba mdala ngunobangela wabo bonke ububi, baya kudelela bonke abantu abadala. Ukubandakanya abazali bakhe kunye notatomkhulu emva kokuba ityala livele. Yiba mnandi kubantu abadala, ngakumbi xa abantwana bakho bekufutshane. Sukuthetha into ethoba isidima okanye ethoba isidima kubantu abadalaNokuba uyenza ngaphandle kobubi, abantwana bakho banokuyiqonda ngendlela engeyiyo.
Kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu, fundisa abantwana bakho ukuhlonipha bonke abantu ngokulinganayo, kuba linyathelo lokuqala elo. Namhlanje sikhumbula ukubaluleka kokungabaphathi gadalala okanye ukubaphatha gadalala abantu abadala, kodwa naluphi na usuku lusuku olufanelekileyo lokufundisa abantwana ukuba bahloniphe. Ukuhlonipha abanye abantwana, nokuba bahlukile, kufuneka bahloniphe ezinye iinkcubeko, ezinye iindlela zokuphila bazibonakalise, ukuze hlonipha izilwanyana kunye nezinto eziphilayo, ngamafutshane, ukuba zihlonitshwe.
Jonga le ndiyithethayo, olu hlobo lwenqaku lubonakala ngathi lucalucalulo kum, lifundisa ukuzithoba nokuzithoba phambi kwabantu abadala kunye nabantu abadala ngokubanzi, olu hlobo lwempikiswano eneli nqaku luphelele kubantu abadala kwaye luyacalula, luyazikhusela ukuba kukho abantu abadala ukuba kude sibahloniphe ngakumbi kwaye abantwana kunye nabancinci, kuncinci esiya kuko.
Ndiwalahlile amanqaku afundisayo anolwazi ngolu hlobo, anele lucalucalulo oluninzi. Kungenxa yokuba bathi abantu abadala baphathwa namhlanje njengabemi abakudidi lwesithathu kumanqaku afana neli, into ekuzanywa ukuyibamba kukuphatha abantwana kunye nolutsha njengabemi abakudidi lwesithathu, befundisa ukuba nembeko enkulu kwaye nokuzithoba kunye nokuvumela ukuya kwabadala. Kwanele oko siyahamba.