Namhlanje lusuku lwehlabathi lokulwa ubundlobongela kwaye eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kulo mlo kukwazisa. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa abazali ukuba Ayithethi ngemidlalo yabantwana, nangokhuphiswano olusempilweni.
Ukuxhaphaza kuchaphazela amaxhoba ukuya kwinqanaba lokuba akwazi ukushiya ukulandelelana kobomi. Ngokwenyani, ikwenzakalisa umhlaseli, kuba usetyenziselwa ukugcina amandla akhe ngogonyamelo kunye nokuhlukumeza.
Amanani aphambili okuxhatshazwa
Abazali kufuneka bawazi amanani abandakanyekayo ekuxhatshazweni okanye ekuxhatshazweni. Oku kubalulekile ukuze sikwazi ukubona ukuba umntwana wethu uyinxalenye ebandakanyekayo okanye umbukeli, kwimeko yokuhlukunyezwa.
Ukuba sibona nayiphi na indlela yokuziphatha engaqhelekanga, yeyona ndlela ifanelekileyo esinokuthi sazi ngayo ukuba umntwana wethu ulixhoba, ungumhlaseli okanye ungumbukeli nje olula. Ngayiphi na imeko, imeko iya kufuneka ixelwe, kodwa ngaleyo ndlela siya kuyazi eyona ndlela yokujongana nayo ngokubhekisele kunyana wethu.
- Umhlaseli: Inokuba yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana kwaye nangona amanani-manani ebonisa ukuba amakhwenkwe athambekele ekuxhatshazweni ngogonyamelo kwaye amantombazana athambekele ekuhlukumezeni ngokwasemoyeni, omabini amaqabane anezimpawu zilandelayo ngokufanayo:
- Ubundlongondlongo kwabanye.
- Ukunqongophala kovelwano nabona babuthathaka okanye abo bahlukileyo kuye.
- Isizathu sokuziphatha gwenxa nabanye abantu, koluhlobo "ukulifanele kuba ...".
- Uyaphindezela okanye ajike ukukhathazeka kwakhe komnye xa esilela ukufezekisa iminqweno yakhe.
- Ixhoba: Inokuba yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana, inezi zinto zilandelayo:
- Babonisa ukuba neentloni, ukungazithembi kunye noxinzelelo.
- Batyekele ekubeni babe nenkuselo egqithileyo yomzali.
- Bahlala bomelele ngokwasemzimbeni.
- Abathathi abahlobo basekhaya
- Abona bantu bathandwayo.
- Abazibonakalisi benogonyamelo okanye ubundlongondlongo.
- Batyekele ekuhlaleni kakuhle nootitshala.
- Ababukeli: ngabo bonke amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana abona ukungcungcuthekiswa kunye nokuthula imeko ngenxa yokoyika ukuba ngamaxhoba. Zizo zonke iiprofayili, nangona enyanisweni, zingaphakathi komndilili phakathi kwezona zidumileyo kunye nabo bangamaxhoba okuphathwa gadalala, ahlala engawona athandwayo.
Iindidi zokuxhatshazwa
Akukho ludidi lunye, ukuxhatshazwa kwahlulwe kwaba ziindlela ezimbini, kuxhomekeke kwindlela esetyenziswa ngayo kwixhoba:
- Ngokuthe ngqo: leyo yenzekayo xa ixhoba lisongelwa okanye liphathwa kakubi emzimbeni.
- Ngqo: Yiyo ehambelana nokubekwa ecaleni kwexhoba nakwizithuko okanye izoyikiso ngokusebenzisa abalamli abasebenzisa umhlaseli njengeziqwenga zomdlalo wakhe.
Ababukeli, oyena mntu ubalulekileyo
Nokuba kukuhlukumeza ngokuthe ngqo okanye ngokungathanga ngqo, abantu ababukeleyo ngabona banika amandla umhlaseli. Kuba Okukhona beqhwaba izandla okanye bethula le meko, kokukhona kuya kuhlala ixesha elide. Oku kwenza ukuba ulwazi ngabazali ngengxaki lubaluleke. Awunakho ukufundisa umntwana wakho kwisifundo ongasaziyo, akunakwenzeka ukuba umkhombe kwindlela elungileyo.
Kucacile ukuba kuya kuthatha ixesha ukuyazi le meko. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba uyazi kwaye uyayazi ingxaki, kuya kuba lula ukuba isihloko sivele kwaye ungacebisa ukuba wenzeni umntwana wakho ukuze enze isigqibo esifanelekileyo. Kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungathethi okanye uxhase imeko yokuxhaphaza.
Ukuba uthetha ukuba yintoni ukungcungcuthekiswa, kuyingozi kangakanani nokuba kuyingozi kangakanani kumhlaseli, kulula ukuba imeko ithintelwe, okanye iyeke ukwenzeka ukuba sele iqale.
Amaphulo okwazisa noomasifundisane
Namhlanje zikho amaphulo okwazisa apho amakhwenkwe namantombazana angamaxhoba oxhatshazo athabatha inxaxheba. Nkqu nabaxhaphazi abaye balungisa indlela abaziphethe ngayo. Aba bantu Bazinikezele ekuphakamiseni ulwazi malunga nengxaki echaphazela ngoku uninzi lwabantwana besikolo.
Nakumaziko amaninzi kukho iindibano zocweyo zabazali. Iingcali ezahlukeneyo kwisayikholoji nakwimfundo, zidibanisa ukuze zichaze imeko ngendlela yokuba ziyiqonde kakuhle. Ke banokujongana nengxaki enokubakho kwaye bayiphuze kwi-bud, ngaphambi kokubangela umonakalo ongenakulungiswa.
Ngayiphi na imeko, ungaya kwi-Intanethi ukufumana malunga nesihloko. Iibhloko kunye namaphepha akhethekileyo ezenzululwazi ngawona mthombo wolwazi malunga nokuxhatshazwa. Kule bhlogi inye unokufumana amanqaku ahlukeneyo ngokuxhatshazwa, anokuba luncedo kakhulu. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba umntwana wakho unjalo lixhoba, Umhlaseli okanye umbukeli.
Umyalezo waba masifundisane kukuba Ukuxhaphaza ayingomdlalo kwaye kubalulekile ukufundisa nokwazisa abantu ukuze abantwana bethu bazi ukuba ayisiyondlela echanekileyo yokufezekisa iinjongo zabo.