Indlela yokukhulisa umntwana kwinkcubeko yomzamo

Sonke sinenkumbulo yobuntwana bethu apho umntu omdala wasixelela ukuba kobu bomi kuya kufuneka senze umgudu omkhulu ukuze sifezekise yonke into esiyifunayo. Ehlabathini ababephila kulo abazali noomakhulu nootatomkhulu, abantu kwakufuneka basebenze nzima ukuze baxhase iintsapho zabo. Kodwa kule mihla, idini liphantse lingabikho kwaye ingcamango yobuxoki yokuba iinjongo zethu zinokufezekiswa ngaphandle komgudu sele isekiwe.

Siye saqhelana nokucinga ukuba sinokuyifumana into esiyifunayo ngokucofa kanye. Yifune kwaye ube nayo. Yonke into ibonakala ilula, iyafikeleleka, ngoko nangoko, yonke into inokuthengwa ngokulula okanye ifumaneke. Imivuzo ikhawuleza kwaye kulula ukuyizuza. Sifuna into kwaye sijonge indlela ekhawulezayo, entle nexabiso eliphantsi yokuyifumana. Oku kwenza yonke into ilahlekelwe lixabiso, ngoko ke kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana ukuba kufuneka basebenze nzima ukuze bafumane oko bakufunayo. Kungelo xesha kuphela abaya kuthi bazixabise baze bazixabise izinto ngomlinganiselo wabo ofanelekileyo.

Sala kakuhle kwimizamo?

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Siye sakhokelelwa ekubeni sikholelwe ukuba sinokufunda iilwimi, sibe sempilweni, okanye sidume kakhulu ngomsebenzi omncinane nokuzincama. I intanethi Zisisondeza kwimpumelelo yobuxoki, leyo ibhidaniswa nokuba nezinto ezininzi ezithandwayo okanye abalandeli. Basithengisa ukuba sinokonwaba sithembele kuphela kwithamsanqa okanye umsebenzi wabanye. Abazali abaninzi bayabandezeleka xa abantwana babo besebenza nzima baze bangaziphumezi iinjongo zabo.. Bathanda ukubavulela indlela, bacombulule iingxaki zabo, babakhusele ngokugqithisileyo ukuze bangaphoxeki okanye benze iimpazamo.

Abazali batyekele ekubeni bangabaphembeleli ekubandezelekeni okomzuzwana baze banelise ngokukhawuleza iimfuno zabo okanye ukuthanda kwabo ukuze bangabi nomsindo okanye babe lusizi. Kodwa kanye kanye lo mzamo kubalulekile ukufundisa kuba ngaphandle kwawo abayi kukwazi ukonwaba ngokwenene. Kuyimfuneko ukucacisela abantwana ukuba umzamo yindlela abaza kufezekisa ngayo iinjongo zabo ezininzi ebomini babo.

Ukukhulisa umntwana kwinkcubeko yomzamo

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Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bafunde kwasebancinane ukulawula ukuphoxeka. Ukoyiswa, ukusilela, iimpazamo ziyinxalenye yobomi kwaye amaxesha amaninzi kufuneka siqale ekuqaleni kwaye sizame kwakhona. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka ubacacisele ukuba abayi kuhlala befumana oko bebezimisele ukukwenza, kwaye oko into ebalulekileyo kukuba unganikezeli xa ujongene nobunzima obuya kufunyanwa endleleni, kuba loo miqobo iya kubafundisa ukuba nomonde baze bafumane izicombululo zokoyisa nawuphi na umqobo.

Umzamo, ukunyamezela kunye nokuzimisela kufuneka kube yintsika yemfundo yeemvakalelo kubo bonke abantwana. Inkcubeko yomzamo isifundisa ekuzimiseleni ukuthanda kwethu kunye nokunyamezela. Umzamo womeleza ukuzinza kwethu, isifundisa ukuba sinyamezele, ukuthwala uxanduva nokujongana nobunzima ngethemba nangenyaniso. Ukufundisa kwinkcubeko yomzamo kukukhuthaza "ukuba" endaweni "yokuba". Iinzame zisifundisa ukuba siguquke njengabantu kwaye siqole. Kwaye, ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, akukho nto ithuthuzelayo kobu bomi njengokuziva ulwaneliseko lokuzuza iinjongo zethu ngenxa yokunyamezela kunye nokunyamezela.

Izitshixo zokufundisa umntwana kwinkcubeko yomzamo

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  • Nika umntwana wakho imingeni emincinci yemihla ngemihla ukwenza umzamo. Ngale ndlela uyamnceda abone ubuxoki nosukelo lwakhe, afune intshukumisa ngokulawula ukungabi namonde nokungxama. Uya kuqonda ukuba ubunzima ngamnye buyomeleza kwaye impumelelo nganye iyawukhulisa umphefumlo wakho.
  • Menze azi yonke imihla ukuba uthando lwakho kunye nokuthembela kwakho akunamiqathango. Uya kukuphumeza oku ngokumnika umonde nothando lwakho, ukuxabisa konke akuphumezayo, umkhuthaze ngamazwi okhuthazo uze umnike ixesha afanele afunde ngalo. Ngale nto, uya kufunda ukukhetha ngcono abantu onabo ecaleni kwakho, kuba uya kukhetha abantu abakwenza ngcono, ababheqa kwicala elinye nabakukhuthaza ukuba uqhubele phambili.
  • Mcacisele ukuba ukunyamezela luphawu ezinye iimpawu ezintle ezivelisa ngayo isiqhamo.. Ukuziqhelanisa nemihla ngemihla kuba ngoyena titshala ubalaseleyo. Ukufundisa ngentlonipho, umbulelo kunye nokunyaniseka, baya kufezekisa oko ukuzingisa sibe sisixhobo sakho esihle.
  • Mfundise kumzekelo wakho. Mnike amandla akho, ithemba kunye nentando yakho yemihla ngemihla ukuze ufezekise into oyifunayo. Uya kukuphumeza oku ngokuzingisa xa ujongene nemingeni kwaye ushenxise izikhalazo kwisigama sakho.
  • Mfundise ukuba ubunzima kunye nokusilela kuba ngamathuba amahle okufunda. Kufuneka ufunde ukuzibophelela kumaphupha akho ngakumbi xa kunzima. Indlela elula kodwa ephazamisayo kukuphosa itawuli.
  • Mncede akwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zakhe ngokuchanekileyo, ukuze ukwazi ukwenza izigqibo nokuba nomonde, ukwazi ukoyisa amahla ndinyuka eemvakalelo zakho nokuba buhlungu xa izinto zingahambi kakuhle. Oku kuya kufezekiswa ngokuxhomekeke kumsebenzi kunye nokuzibophelela, kwaye kungekhona kwinhlanhla.
  • Ukwandisa ukuzimela kwabo, ukuzazi kwabo kunye nokwenza izigqibo. Mfundise ukuba azijonge ngentlonipho nangenyani, angabinayo imfuneko yokufezeka okanye axhomekeke kuvavanyo lwabanye. Ukwazi omnye nomnye kuya kubeka ukulindela okufanelekileyo kunye nokuqinisa inkqubo ngaphandle kokumfamekiswa kuphela kwiziphumo.

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