Ukuze umntwana afunde ukunxiba, kuyacetyiswa ukuba umnike ixesha kwaye ungamcinezeli. Ukuhamba ngengubo kuya kuba lula kuwe.
Kwasebuncinaneni, abantwana bafundiswa inani elingenasiphelo lemisebenzi kunye neendlela zokuziphatha. Kubazali, umsebenzi obalulekileyo kukufundisa umntwana ukuba azinxibe. Makhe sijonge eminye imiyalelo elula enokusetyenziswa.
Ukufunda kwabantwana
Abantwana banokwenza izinto ezithile ngcono, kwaye ngokukhawuleza, kunabanye. Ukufunda ukutya wedwa, uchame, uxukuxe amazinyo abo ... zezinye zeendlela zokufunda abazifunda kwiminyaka eyi-3. Umntwana akufuneki azive enyanzelekile ukuba ayenze kwangoko kwaye angcono kunabanye. Xa umntwana ekwazi ukwenza kakuhle, kwaye ngaphandle koncedo lwabanye, uziva ekwazi ukuzimela kwaye ekwazi ukusebenza.
Umntwana ngamnye ufikelela usukelo lwakhe ngexesha, xa sele ukulungele kwaye ukhuthazekile ukwenza njalo, ke akukho mfuneko yakuxhalaba okanye umnyanzele ukuba enze nantoni na. Ngexesha lokunxiba, umntwana uya kuqala ukuthatha ixesha lokukhawulezisa ibhatyi, ubopha imitya, ucofe iqhosha kwihempe ..., kodwa isiseko kukuba awudimazeki, kwaye ngentsebenziswano, ugqibe ukwenza wedwa.
Imiyalelo yokunxiba ngokwakho
Ukuze ungenzi yonke into ibe sesikweni, ungadlala nomntwana, umyeke azame iimpahla zabazali, unxibe eyona nto ayithandayo okanye unxibe.
- Ukunxiba kuyo: Umntwana unokubona omnye wabazali bakhe enxiba iimpahla zakhe esiya emsebenzini. Unokwazi, ungagcini ngokujonga nokulungisa, kodwa ubuze imibuzo. Unokude ungenele kwaye uncede ukubeka izihlangu okanye enye ingubo. Ukumvumela, njengomdlalo, anxibe iimpahla zabazali, abahlekise kakhulu, kwaye asebenze njengesiqhelo.
- Mncede: Ekuqaleni umntwana kufuneka ancediswe ngokunxiba, kwaye kancinci kancinci makagqume ngaphezulu kwaye azame. Ekuqaleni, kuyacetyiswa ukuba amvumele anxibe ezona mpahla zilula kunxiba, kwaye ndikuncede nabo banobunzima ngakumbi. Njengoko ulawula ukunxiba ingubo enye kakuhle kangangeentsuku ezininzi, uya kuyalelwa ukuba uye kwelandelayo.
- Iimpahla: Kukhethwa ukuba uqale, musa ukumnxibisa iimpahla ngamaqhosha amaninzi, izibonda…, Izinto ezintsonkothileyo. Iikhola kufuneka zibanzi, isinqe sine-elastic ... Amancedo angaphezulu kokuya kuphelelwa lithemba komntwana.
- Ukubekwa: Kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu ukucacisa ukuba ileyibhile yehempe, isiketi okanye iblukhwe iya ngasemva, nokuba imizobo ngaphambili. Iinzwane zezihlangu kufuneka zijongwe. Iipokotho zeziphu okanye ibhulukhwe kufuneka zijongise phambili.
- Ngaphandle koxinzelelo: Akucetyiswa ukuba usete ixesha lokuba banxibe kwaye makenze ngokukhululeka. Kuyinyani ukuba ngamanye amaxesha iishedyuli zilawula, nangona kunjalo, akukho kungxama ngokubhekisele kuyilo kunye nomdla. Ukuvuka kwangoko kunokwenzeka.
- Amaxesha okonwaba kwaye ngaphandle kwemithetho: Ukuba umntwana angadikwa okanye atyhafiswe kukunxiba nokuzilungisa kakuhle. Ubungqongqo obunjalo bunokukucinezela. Kunokubakho amaxesha apho kungekho mithetho kodwa ukuphumla nokonwaba. Ukuba ngoyena mntu ngamanye amaxesha ukhetha eyona nto ayithandayo, ukuba unxiba ngendlela afuna ngayo, okanye kungenjalo beka loo nto ilokhwe entle oko kukuhlekisa kakhulu.