Ukufundisa umntwana ukumamela abanye kubalulekile ukuze afunde ukunxibelelana. Into ebonakala ibalulekile idla ngokungahoywa. Abantwana bafundiswa ukuba thetha, funda, funda isigama kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zezixhobo yokunxibelelana nayo. Kodwa into ebaluleke njengokuphulaphula abanye ayisoloko ifundiswa kwaye ekuhambeni kwexesha, yonke into iba yingxaki enkulu.
Njengayo yonke into, oku kufunda kufuneka kuqale ebuntwaneni. Abantwana abasakhasayo zizipontshi, ayisosafobe nje, yinyani eqinisekisiweyo. Ingqondo yabantwana igqiba ukwenza malunga ne-6 okanye isi-7 seminyaka ubudala. kwaye kude kube ngoko ithambile kakhulu. Ukususela kuloo minyaka ukuya phambili kuba nzima ngakumbi ukudibanisa iingqiqo, ingqondo kufuneka isebenze nzima ukwenza oko. Ngoko ke kubalulekile ukwenza uninzi lwamandla obuchopho kubantwana abancinci.
Fundisa umntwana ukumamela
Kukho ubunzima obukhulu ekufundeni ukumamela, kwaye ukwenza oko kufuneka ube nomnqweno kunye nexesha. Kubantwana, kusoloko kukho into eyonwabisa ngakumbi kunokuphulaphula abanye, ngaphandle kokuba yinto ebamba umdla wabo ngokwenene. Ingxaki kukuba ukuphulaphula bubuchule obubalulekileyo Ukuphuhliswa kobuchule bokunxibelelana, kunye nokuphulaphula, into ephambili enomdla ayisoloko ikhona.
Ngenxa yesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukufundisa umntwana ukuba aphulaphule abanye ukususela emncinci, kunye nemisebenzi kunye nemidlalo evumela ukuba bahlakulele olo buchule kwasebuncinaneni. umdlalo. Ngeendlela eziya kukunceda ithimbe ingqalelo yomntwana aze athi ngokuthe ngcembe aqeqeshe ingqondo yakhe nesazela sakhe sokwazi ukuphulaphula abanye. Ezi zezinye izitshixo zokufundisa umntwana ukumamela abanye.
amandla amagama
Amagama anamandla okutsala ingqalelo yomntu okanye umntwana kule meko, ngendlela efanayo ukuba ukukhetha igama elingalunganga kunokubenza balahlekelwe ngumdla ngokukhawuleza. Ukuba ngabantwana abancinci kakhulu, kungcono ukusebenzisa izivakalisi ezifutshane, kunye amagama umntwana awaziyo kwaye anokuwaqonda ngokukhawuleza. Sebenzisa amagama avelisa umdla, umbala owuthandayo, ukutya okuthanda kakhulu, isicwangciso ofuna ngokwenene ukusenza, yeminye imizekelo.
Ngaphandle kweziphazamiso
Kusikhathaza kakhulu thina bantu bakhulileyo xa siphazanyiswa xa sithetha, nto leyo eqhelekileyo kuba kukungabikho kwentlonipho emanyumnyezi. Ngoku zibuze okuthile uze uphendule ngokunyanisekileyo, ngaba udla ngokubaphazamisa abantwana bakho xa bethetha? Mhlawumbi uphendule ewe, kuba Yinto eyenziwa ngabazali ngaphandle kokuqaphela. Kodwa, okokuqala, kukungabi nantlonelo emntwaneni yaye okwesibini, kukuchasana ngokupheleleyo ukuba sifuna ukuqinisekisa ukuba akabaphazamisi abanye xa bethetha.
Akukho ziphazamiso
Ukuze uthabathe ingqalelo yomntwana, kubalulekile ukuphelisa nantoni na enokubangela ukuphazamiseka. Nokuba yincoko ebalulekileyo okanye ukufunda nje incwadi, Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana agxininise ngokupheleleyo. Ngaphandle koko, uya kulahlekelwa ngumkhondo kwaye abe nobunzima bokuphulaphula ngelixa uthetha. Yima kwinqanaba lakhe, mjonge emehlweni kwaye ubonise umdla kumagama akhe, njengoko unethemba lokuba umntwana uya kwenza neyakho,
Imidlalo yokufunda ukumamela
Omnye wemidlalo yobomi bonke owawungenakuphoswa kumatheko nakwiimbutho zabahlobo yayiyimfonomfono engenamagingxigingxi. Umsebenzi ogqibeleleyo wokusebenzela ukumamela okusebenzayo kunye nabantwana. Umdlalo umalunga nokumamela umbuzo oza kubuzwa ngomnye wabadlali. Emva koko kufuneka uphendule omnye umdlali, kodwa ngaphandle kokuthetha ukuba yintoni umbuzo. Injongo yomdlalo kukudala isivakalisi esingenantsingiselo ngokupheleleyo, kumnandi kwaye kuphambene. Umsebenzi ogqibeleleyo wokuchitha imva kwemini udlala nabantwana kwaye ubafundise ukumamela abanye.