Ukuze unyana okanye intombi yakho qala ukuthetha kufuneka umvuselele. Kukho abantwana abafuna ukhuthazo ngakumbi kunabanye, kodwa bonke kufuneka bathethe nabo. Into eyenziwa ngoomama ngokwendalo. Ukuba uthetha kakhulu emntwaneni, nokuba umncinci kakhulu, uyakube umnceda ekufumaneni ulwimi, ngaphaya kwamagama akhe okuqala.
Ukususela kumncinci kakhulu Iintsana ziyaliqonda ilizwi lomzali, kwaye usana luqala uku bavelise izandi zabo zokuqala, njengendlela yokunxibelelana nawe. Zama ukuphinda ezo zandi, kwaye uya kuseka incoko yokwenyani yokuncwina, ukugcuma nokuhleka. Kancinci kancinci uya kuthetha amazwi akhe okuqala kwaye aqonde intsingiselo yawo.
Iingcebiso ngokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuthetha
I kunye Abanyangi bokuthetha banika uthotho lweengcebiso ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuthetha. Kodwa khumbula ukuba ukufunda ulwimi kuya kuvela ngokwamanqanaba ahlukeneyo okukhula komntwana. Siziphindaphindile, ngakumbi silandela uCristina Municio, kwaye sizidlulisela kuwe. Zezi:
- Ngaphandle kwexesha lokudlala, oomama kufuneka bathethe nabantwana babo kwi ngokucacileyo nanjengomntu omdala.
- Kufuneke Ku hlala uwabiza kwaye uwaphindaphinde amagama ngokuchanekileyo. Umzekelo, umntu omdala kufuneka athethe igama inja hayi i-gua-gua
- Ukuba kufuneka silungise umntwana, Nguwe esifanele silibize igama ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye ungaceli umntwana ukuba ayiphinde ide yenziwe ngokuchanekileyo.
- Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu Yazisa umntwana ukuba siyamqonda. Ke ngoko, kufuneka sinike ingqalelo ukuba kuthetha ntoni, nangona kunjalo kwiimeko ezininzi kuyadina.
Ezinye iingcebiso zokuba kusebenze kunxibelelwano zezi khangela amaxesha asemgangathweni nomntwana wakho. Kufuneka khuthaza abantwana ukuba bathethe ngexesha lokudlala, kwimisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla nakwimisebenzi edibeneyo. Njengoko siphindaphindile kwizihlandlo ezahlukeneyo, ufunda ngakumbi kwiimvakalelo.
Ezinye zezimvo eziphambili ukuvelisa ukufunda intetho
Ngoku sikuxelela ezinye zeengcinga eziphambili ezinokukunceda ufundise umntwana wakho ukuthetha. Nangona kunjalo, gcinani engqondweni ukuba inkwenkwe nentombazana nganye yahlukile kwaye iimeko apho ikhula khona nazo. Ngendlela, kuyintsomi ukuba amantombazana athethe ixesha elide ngaphambili kwaye nangaphezulu kunamakhwenkwe.
Ukuthengwa vumela unyana okanye intombi yakho ibe ngumlinganiswa ophambili. Shiya indawo yokwenza izinto, mnike ixesha lokuchaza into ayifunayo. Akukho sidingo sokunika iiklasi eziphambili apho umntwana emamela kuphela. Unxibelelwano phakathi kwezinto kufuneka zenziwe. Ungasebenzisa amazwi kunye nabalinganiswa abayintsomi abathetha ngabo kwaye babalise amabali. Kufuneka sibandakanye abantwana bethu kwincoko, kokubini ngokumamela nokuthetha izinto.
Ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuthetha Sebenzisa amagama owasebenzisayo kwimini yakho, kwaye oko kumntwana bahlala imihla ngemihla. Kumanqanaba okuqala obuntwana, ukufunda kufuneka kwenziwe ngohlobo lomdlalo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho uyazithanda izilwanyana, ungabenza babe ngabalinganiswa abaphambili bebali abathe bathatha inxaxheba kulo ngokubuza imibuzo nangokucela umngeni kubadlali abaphambili.
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Icebo elinomdla lokufundisa umntwana wakho ukuthetha yile Umkhuthaze kwiimeko eziphathekayo. Kulungile ukubacela ukuba bangathethi nje kuphela, kodwa malunga nezinto abaziqondileyo. Ke uyila indlela yabantwana yokubeka izivamvo ezintlanu kunxibelelwano. Ngale ndlela, inceda abancinci ukuba bamamele, kwaye bathethe kwakhona.
Ungaze ulibale vuyisana nomntwana wakho ngenkqubela yakhe. Bonisa imiqondiso yovuyo ngempumelelo yabo. Kumanqanaba okuqala okuba usana oku kusebenza kakuhle kakhulu, kuba umntwana udala izandi ezinxulumene neemvakalelo ezintle. Ikwaqinisa ukuzithemba kwaye ikhuthaze ukubandakanyeka ekufundeni.
Nangona kunjalo ukuba ufumanisa ukuba into ethile ayisebenzi kakuhle dibana nengcali, kule meko ingcali yokunyanga intetho. Ungazivumeli ukuba uthathwe yinkolelo yokuba umntwana uya kukhula, oku kukuthintela ekujonganeni nobunzima ngendlela yothintelo enokuthi kamva ibe nzima ngokuhamba kwexesha.