Ungamelana njani neengxaki zolutsha njengentsapho

Iingxaki zolutsha

Ngokuqhelekileyo abantu abaselula banomnqweno omkhulu wokukhula, ukukhula ukuze bakwazi benze yonke into abayifunayo ngaphandle kokungena kwisihluzo sabazali okanye umama. Bakholelwa ukuba ukuba ngumntu omdala yeyona nto ilungileyo, kuba banokufumana imali yabo kwaye bayityale ngendlela abakhetha ngayo, ukuhamba ngexesha kunye nalapho bafuna khona, beza baze bahambe ngaphandle kokuzichaza. Ngamafutshane, abantu abaselula abacingi ngenani leengxaki ekufuneka ubani ajamelane nazo xa sele emdala.

Kodwa abasoloko besazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuba ngumntu omdala, Oku akuthethi ukuba akuyomfuneko ukuba bajamelane neengxaki ezahlukahlukeneyo zolutsha.. Imiba ethi, ukuba ayisonjululwanga okanye inganyangwa ngelo xesha, inokuba neziphumo zexesha elide. Ngenxa yokuba ii-complexes, iingxaki zentlalo, ubunzima obungajongwanga nabo, buba yintlungu enokuphawula ubomi bakhe nawuphi na umntu.

Iingxaki zolutsha

Kwibutho labantu apho udumo, ukuqatshelwa kwentlalo, ukuba ngaphezu kwabanye, ukuba ngaphezu komntu ongaphambili, ukuba mhle, ukuphakama, ubutyebi okanye ukuphumelela ngakumbi kubekwe phambili, uninzi lwabantu abatsha luzifumana lusilela. Kodwa ukusilela okungeyonyani, kuba amandla omntu ngamnye ayasilela ukuxatyiswa, kuba utyekelo lokuzithelekisa nomntu owahlukileyo.

Iinethiwekhi zentlalo zingumboniso wobuxoki apho ulutsha lufuna indlela yalo. Ubuxoki kuba kwiimeko ezininzi kubonakaliswa into engeyonene ekunzima ukuyifikelela. Ngoku, endaweni yokukhangela iingcali eziye zathetha ikamva, ngenxa yomzabalazo wokuqhubeka komntu, njengamayeza okanye umthetho, abantu abatsha babeka ikamva labo kwiintanethi zentlalo.

Kwaye kukweli nqanaba apho enye yezona ngxaki zibalulekileyo zolutsha lwanamhlanje ilele. Balushiya bucala uqeqesho lwezemfundo. Ngokuba Bakholelwa ukuba banokuziphilisa ngale misebenzi mitsha eziphuma kwi social networks. Kodwa ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, ukuba yinto engeyonyani yokuba abantu abaninzi abatsha bathengisa kwi-intanethi yimbangela yeengxaki ezininzi zokungazithembi kubantu abatsha.

Indlela yokusingatha ezi ngxaki njengentsapho

Kubalulekile ukuba intsapho imanyane kwezi ntlobo zeemeko. Kuba akukho meko kufuneka ungayihoyi ingxaki enokuthi ibe yinto ebaluleke ngakumbi. Enye yezona mvakalelo zixhaphakileyo kulutsha kukuba lilolo. Abantu abaselula badla ngokuziva bengamalolo, bengaqondwa kakuhle ngabazali nangabantu ababangqongileyo.

Ukuyiphepha kuyimfuneko ukwenzela ukuba umntu osemtsha afunde ukulawula nayiphi na imeko. Ukuba kukho unxibelelwano nokuthembana ngabazali kubalulekile. Ngoko ngaloo ndlela abantwana banokuthembela kwireferensi yabo yabantu abadala xa kukho iingxaki kunzima ukusombulula. Kuba ngelishwa, ulutsha oluninzi olungakwaziyo ukujamelana neengxaki zalo okanye olucela uncedo luphela sele lubhenela kwesona sicombululo sibi.

Njengomama okanye utata, ufanele ulumkele utshintsho olunokwenzeka kwindlela abantwana bakho abaziphatha ngayo. Zezi amanye amacebiso onokuwalandela ebusweni bayo nayiphi na ingxaki yolutsha:

  1. NoNxibelelwano: Nceda umntwana wakho azive ekhululekile xa ekunye nawe, ethetha ngawo nawuphi na umbandela ngengqondo ephangaleleyo nangesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Ukuba uziva ngathi unokuthetha ngayo nantoni na, Xa ibachaphazela ngokuthe ngqo, kuya kubabiza kancinci ukukucela uncedo..
  2. Amalungelo kunye nemisebenzi: Ukumisela imithetho ekhaya kubalulekile. Kuphela kwendlela abantwana abafunda ngayo ukuba ubomi buzele iimbopheleleko ekufuneka zizalisekiswe. Kwaye kungekhona kuphela kwinqanaba lasekhaya.
  3. Fundisa abantwana bakho yinyamekele impilo yakho: Kuyimfuneko ukuba abantu abatsha bafunde ukunyamekela impilo yabo, ngokuqala ngokutya, ucoceko lomntu kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, impilo yengqondo neyesondo. Ulutsha Linqanaba lotshintsho, abantwana kufuneka bakulungele ukujamelana nazo zonke ezi nguqu.
  4. Sebenzela ukuzithemba kwakho: Ukuzithanda kubalulekile, sisitshixo sempumelelo ngandlela zonke. Kule nto kuyimfuneko ukusebenza ngokuzithemba, fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba azithande, ukuxabisa izidima zabo kwaye balungise iingxaki zabo.

Xa ujongene nengxaki enkulu echaphazela ubuntu bomntwana wakho okanye indlela yakhe yokunxibelelana nabantu abamngqongileyo, kufuneka ulumke. Ngenxa yokuba kusenokufuneka wenze njalo ufumane uncedo lwengcali. Ulutsha ludla ngokuba nobunzima ekuthetheni nabazali balo. Ke ngoko, ukuthetha nabantu bangaphandle nabangenamkhethe kudla ngokuba yeyona ndlela ilungileyo kwiimeko ezithile.


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