Usuku lokuqala lwesikolo sabantwana ubukhulu becala, Eyona nto ibenzakalisa ngakumbi abazali kunakubantwana ngokwabo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, oku kukwahlula okokuqala kwaye oku kunjalo, linyathelo elinzima lokuziqhelanisa kwaye kunzima ukuliphatha nokuba umntwana wakho mdala kangakanani kusuku lwakhe lokuqala lokugcina abantwana. Kumntwana wakho, oko kwahlukana kokuqala kunokuba linyathelo eliya kwinqanaba elitsha, ukuba awuguquli uxinzelelo lwakho lube yingxaki yokwenyani.
Ezi mvakalelo zidluliselwa kubantwana babo, abathi kwasekuqaleni babone ubunzima, ukungonwabi, usizi kunye nokubandezeleka kubazali babo, ngakumbi koomama. Ke kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba uququzelele eli nyathelo emntwaneni wakho, umkhulule kuxinzelelo kunye nokubandezeleka kwabanye. Ukwenza oko, kubalulekile ukuba ulungiselele kwangaphambili ukujongana neli nyathelo ibaluleke kakhulu kubomi bomntwana wakho.
Kufika usuku lokuqala lwenkulisa
Kwaye ukusondela komhla, kokukhona usoyika kwaye uziva unetyala ngakumbi ngokushiya umntwana wakho ezandleni zabanye abantu kunawe. Ucinga ukuba umntwana wakho uza kuziva ngathi uyamshiya, kwaye uza kuva ubunzima ngenxa yokungasondeli kuwe kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akazukuyiqonda into eyenzekayo. Unokuchitha ixesha lasehlotyeni ukubandezeleka ekufikeni kwalo mzuzu, okanye ungazilungiselela ngokwasemphefumlweni ukwenza ubomi bulula kumntwana wakho, ixhomekeke kuwe.
Ukuqala, shiya lonto uziva unetyala ngoku. Ukushiya umntwana kukhathalelo lasemini ayisosenzo sokulahla, umama notata ngamnye uneemfuno ezahlukeneyo. Kodwa nokuba injani na imeko yakho, khumbula ukuba uza kumshiya umntwana wakho ezandleni zeengcali eziya kuthi zijongane neemfuno zomntwana wakho ngamaxesha onke.
Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kodwa uya kuyo unike umntwana wakho ithuba lokunxibelelana noontanga bakhe. Uya kufumanisa umhlaba uzele zizigigaba, ukufundwa nolwazi eziza kuvula iingcango zento ezakuba kwinqanaba labo lesikolo. Ke ngoko, khumbula ukuba eli nyathelo sisiqalo se-adventure, egcwele amaxesha amnandi anokunceda umntwana wakho ekukhuleni kwakhe.
Indlela yokujongana nosuku lokuqala kwiziko labantwana
Kubalulekile ukuba uzilungiselele kwangaphambili, ngakumbi ngokweemvakalelo. Ngale ndlela, xa usuku lufikile, ungadlulisela lonke uvakalelo emntwaneni wakho. Nangona ungazukuphepha ukuba nemincili kwaye uzive iintlungu ngokwahlukana. Ziqhelanise neqela kwezi veki zokugqibela phambi kokuba kufike ixesha, Ngale ndlela ukwahlula akuyi kuba nzima kangako.
Zama ukushiya umntwana wakho elugcinweni lwesihlobo kangangeeyure ezimbalwa amaxesha ngamaxesha, kancinci kancinci uyakuqhela ukwahlukana nawe. Ngale ndlela uya kuthi ngokuthe ngcembe ucinge ngokwahlukana, kwaye uya kuzihambela ngokwakho loo mvakalelo yokulahlwa ingenampilo.
Xa usuku lufikile, kuya kufuneka uhlale uzolile, ukuze ukulungelelaniswa komntwana wakho omncinci kuyakhawuleza.
- Kuphephe ukungxama ngeentsuku zokuqala. Vuka kunye nexesha elaneleyo lokutya isidlo sakusasa njengentsapho kwaye ulungiselele yonke into ngokuzolileyo.
- Yenza indlela eya enkulisa ngovuyo. Ungade ucacisele umntwana ukuba uyaphi ukuze kungothusi kuye.
- Xa ufika edolophini, thintela okuhle okungapheliyo. Akukho ukwangana, iinyembezi ezaphukileyo kunye namawaka "Ndiyakuthanda" kunye nemidlalo yesepha opera.
- Yithi ndlela-ntle ngovuyo. Akukho nto inokuzimela ngaphandle ukuze umntwana angaqondi, oko kunokubangela uloyiko kuba uya kuziva elilolo kwaye elahliwe. Yithi ndlela-ntle ngoncumo olukhulu, mange kwaye umange kwaye umkhumbuze ukuba kamva uza kuphinda umlande ukuba niye kunye ekhaya.
Umntwana wakho uya kuziqhelanisa ngokulula nenkulisa, uya kujikelezwa Abanye abantwana abaziva njengaye kwaye bebonke baya kwenza ukufumanisa okuhle. Vuya ngomntwana wakho, inqanaba elimangalisayo ebomini bakhe liyaqala kwaye uya kuba secaleni kwakhe ukonwabela kunye naye.