Indlela yokukhulisa abantwana ngokuzithemba nangokhuseleko

fundisa

Imfundo ibalulekile kwaye ibalulekile ekukhuleni nasekukhuleni kwabantwana. Imeko yeemvakalelo ngamanye amaxesha ayihoywa nangona ibaluleke kakhulu. Ndiyabulela koku, abantwana baya kuyazi indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zabo ngalo lonke ixesha kwaye baya kuba nakho ukonwabela ubomi kubo bonke ububanzi.

Kwimfundo yeemvakalelo, amaxabiso anje ngokuzithemba kunye nokukhuseleka kufuneka athathelwe ingqalelo ngabantu abadala kwaye bafundise abantwana bakho besebancinane.

Ukuzithemba nokuzithemba

Lixabiso elibaluleke ngakumbi kunokuba linokubonakala ekuqaleni. Ukuba umntwana unokuzithemba okuphezulu, kunokwenzeka ukuba uyazi indlela yokuphuhlisa ezinye iintlobo zeemvakalelo ezimnceda ukuba onwabe ebomini. Akukho nto injengokuba nokuzithemba kuwe xa kufikwa ekoyiseni imiqobo eyahlukeneyo kunye nezithintelo ebomini.

Ukongeza koku, ukuzithemba kufanelekile xa kufikwa kumba wokuba nempilo entle ngokweemvakalelo. Namhlanje, abantu abaninzi banengxaki yoxinzelelo okanye yoxinzelelo ngenxa yokungazithembi. Ngenxa yoku, ngumsebenzi wabazali ukukhulisa abantwana babo ngokuzithemba okukhulu kunye nokhuseleko olukhulu.

Ubafundisa njani abantwana ngokuzithemba nokuzithemba

Ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kuya kuthintela abantwana ekuthintelweni ngokupheleleyo ziingxaki nokwazi ukuzisombulula ngokukhawuleza. Ukuzithemba okukhulu, Inokwenza ukuba umntwana afezekise iinjongo ezibekiweyo kwaye abe ngumntu ophuphayo.

Ukhuseleko kunye nokuba nesibindi kubalulekile ukuba umntwana azi ukuba ajonge phambili kwaye vuka amaxesha amaninzi njengoko kufanelekile ukufezekisa oko uphuphe ngako. Ukuba umntwana ufuna ukuba nesibindi, kufuneka azithembe kwaye azithembe kakhulu, ke ezi ziimpawu ezimbini ezinokuthi zihambisane. Emva koko sikunika uthotho lweengcebiso okanye izikhokelo ekufuneka uzilandele ukuze wazi ukuba ungazibethelela njani ezi nqobo kubantwana bakho:

  • Namhlanje baninzi kakhulu abazali abakhusela abantwana babo. Le yimpazamo enkulu ukusuka kwinqanaba lokujonga kuba ukushiya ukuzimela kubenza bazi indlela yokuzikhusela ngokwabo ngokuhamba kwexesha. Ukuba nokuzimela kubalulekile ekwakheni ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwakho.
  • Umntwana ogqibeleleyo akekho, ke yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba bangalunganga. Abazali kufuneka babavumele ukuba benze iimpazamo maxa onke, kuba kungale ndlela kuphela abanokuthi babe nkulu ukuzithemba kubo kwaye bazive bekhuselekile ngawo onke amaxesha.
  • Abazali mabaxhase umntwana xa esenza impazamo kodwa naxa esenza izinto kakuhle kwaye ephumeza iinjongo ezithile okanye iinjongo ezithile. Ngale nto, unokomeleza ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwakho.

bafundise abantwana abangazinzanga

  • Ubomi buzele ziingxaki nobunzima. Ngaphandle koku, abantwana kufuneka bafundiswe ukuba nethemba ngobomi. Umntu oqinisekileyo uyakwazi ukusombulula iingxaki ngcono ukuba umntu osoloko ebona icala elingalunganga lezinto.
  • Umntwana kufuneka azi ukuba unothotho lwezinto ezinokumnceda ukuba aphumelele ebomini. Abazali kufuneka bakhumbuze umntwana wabo ukuba ezi zakhono ziphambili ekoyiseni imiqobo eyahlukeneyo eziswa bubomi mihla le.
  • Baninzi abazali abenza impazamo enkulu yokungabamameli abantwana babo. Kuhle ukwazi ukumamela abantwana kwaye ngale ndlela, ukomeleza umanyano Ukongeza ekomelezeni ukuzithemba nokuzithemba kwabo.
  • Inqaku lokugqibela kukuvumela abantwana bavakalise iimvakalelo zabo. Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baziva bekhathazekile ngokubonisa iimvakalelo zabo kubazali babo. Kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nabantwana kwaye ubenze bacinge ukuba kulungile kakhulu ukuba babonise iimvakalelo zabo xa bekubona kufanelekile.

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