Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ngothando nangentlonipho

Indlela yokufundisa umntwana.

Fundisa usana kuthando nentlonipho Yindlela echanekileyo yokukhulisa abantwana abanovelwano, abanenkathalo, abanentlonipho. kwaye ilungele ukusebenza kuyo nayiphi na imeko. Iintsapho ezininzi zenza impazamo yokulinda ukuba abantwana babe badala ukuze baqalise ukuphumeza imfundo. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukubuya umva okusisiseko, kuba kumntwana ukuba akukho mithetho kwiminyaka yokuqala, kunzima kakhulu ukuyicinga kamva.

Ngenxa yokuba ukususela ekuzalweni, abantwana bayafunda, ukujonga, ukuqaphela, ukuthetha, ukushukuma, ukudlala, yonke into kukufunda rhoqo. Kwaye kuyo, okulungileyo kokubi kufuneka kuqukwe ukuze abantwana bakhule besazi ukuba isenzo ngasinye sinesiphumo. Ukuba kukho abanye abantu kwihlabathi abahlala kulo kunye nendlela abafanele baziphathe ngayo kuluntu abakulo.

Ngaba unokumfundisa umntwana?

Mfundise kwaye ukhulise umntwana.

Nangona bebancinci kwaye ukuqonda kwabo kulinganiselwe, Iintsana ziyakwazi ukuqonda imithetho ukuba zinengqiqo kunye nokuqhubeka. Ngoko ke, bafanele bavisisane namandla abo okuqonda baze basoloko benikela ingqalelo kwintlonelo nothando ngokukhuliswa ngentlonelo. Ngaba uyafuna ukufumana amaqhinga okufundisa umntwana wakho? Nazi ezinye izikhokelo zendlela fundisa abantwana ngokusekelwe kwiminyaka yabo.

Izikhokelo zokukhulisa umntwana

  • Lawula iimvakalelo zakho phambi komntwana wakho kwaye uhlale uzolile xa ujongene nehambo engafanelekanga. Ungaze ucaphuke, hayi ngabantwana bakho okanye nabanye abantu, kodwa nangakumbi ngosana olungayiqondiyo into eyenzekileyo.
  • Sebenzisa uqeqesho olwakhayo, ukuze umntwana ufunda ngokusekelwe kwinto ayenzayo kakuhle endaweni yokohlwaywa okanye ukoyikiswa xa usenza into engeyiyo.
  • Useka imigaqo yokuhlalisana ifanele iminyaka yomntwana ngamaxesha onke.
  • Thetha nosana lwakho kwaye mcacisele izinto nokuba akakuqondi, sebenzisa ulwimi olulula olunokuqalisa ukuluqonda usana.
  • Yihloniphe imithetho ngokwakho ukuba umisele ukwenza ucwangco ekhaya. Akuncedi nganto ukubekela umntwana umthetho ngenye imini, uze uwaphule ngokwakho.

Fundisa abantwana bakho ngokubandakanywa ukusuka kwiintsana

Imfundo yabantwana.

Ihlabathi liya lisiba ngumntu wonke kwaye kuzo zonke iindawo, izenzo zenziwe ukuze bonke abantwana babe namathuba afanayo okanye afanayo. Ukuze uluntu lubandakanyeke ngakumbi, kubalulekile ukufundisa abantwana ukususela kwiintsana ukuze bazi indlela yokunxulumana ngokuchanekileyo nazo zonke iintlobo zabantwana, ngaphandle kokungafani kwabo. Ungayenza njani loo nto? Ngeyona ndlela isisiseko, enxulumene nosana lwakho nabanye abantwana, ukukhuthaza ubudlelwane kunye noontanga babo kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo.

Luthathele ingqalelo ulwimi olisebenzisayo ekhaya xa uthetha nabanye abantu, ngaphandle kokwahluka okusebenzayo. Sisoloko sisebenzisa intetho ekhubekisayo nendlongondlongo kwabanye abantu imihla ngemihla, ngaphandle kokuthathela ingqalelo ukuba abantwana bangaphambili babambe yonke into. Oku kuba yipatheni abaphinda bayiphinda, kwaye kukho ithuba elihle lokufundisa abantwana kwihlabathi elibandakanyayo elilahlekileyo.

Ungalibali ukufundisa umntwana wakho ukuba anakekele izinto zakhe kwaye ahlule into yabanye. Ngokwendalo, abantwana bayazingca, bakholelwa ukuba yonke into yeyabo kuba akukho mntu ubaxelela ukuba izinto zabiwa phakathi kwabantu. Khuthaza isisa ngokudlala, dala iimeko apho umntwana wakho kufuneka abelane ngazo ukuze uqonde ukuba yonke into ingcono ukuba uyonwabela kwinkampani.

Ngamafutshane, akukho nto ifana nomzekelo wokufundisa nokukhulisa abantwana kwindawo enentlonipho nothando. Ngale ndlela, abantwana bakho baya kuba ngabantu abadala abaxhasayo nabanovelwano, baya kukulungela ukujamelana nayo nayiphi na imeko kunye nabani na onokwahluka okusebenzayo. Kwaye ngaloo ndlela, ihlabathi liya kuba nentlonelo ngakumbi kubo bonke abantu.


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