Nangona abantwana bechitha ixesha labo elininzi belele, Iyahlekisa indlela ekunzima ngayo ukuba balale.. Xa besandul’ ukuzalwa kulula, kuba bancinane kangangokuba amandla abo akabavumeli ukuba benze okungakumbi kunokutya nokulala. Noko ke, bakuba befikelele inyanga enye, iintsana zifumana amandla angakumbi, zifumanisa ukuba ubomi buyolisayo, yaye ziqalisa ukuba nengxaki yokulala.
Ezingalo zikamama kuhle kakhulu, kulapho iintsana ezinenyanga enye ubudala zilala khona ngokulula. Ingxaki ivela xa omnye umntu kufuneka alalise umntwana okanye ukuba umama kufuneka ashiye usana kwibhedi. Iingxaki ezisonjululwa ngokuhamba kwexesha nezifuna umonde othile kuphela. Ukukunceda ukuba ulale umntwana oneminyaka eyi-1 ubudala, sikushiya ezi ngcebiso.
lala umntwana onenyanga enye
Ngokukhawuleza uqhelanisa usana lwakho ukuba nenkqubo yokulala, ngokukhawuleza nobabini niya kunandipha ukuphumla okufunekayo kakhulu, ngakumbi wena. Iindlela zesiqhelo zibalulekile, okokuqala ngenxa yokuba umzimba womntwana uqhelana nocwangciso yaye nguwo othumela imiqondiso ngamaxesha afanelekileyo. Kwelinye icala, ukwenza izinto zesiqhelo kubanceda abantwana bazive benqabisekile, kuba bayayazi into eza kulandela yaye ababandezeleki kuxinezeleko lokungaqiniseki.
Ke ngoko, qalisa ukwenza iindlela zokulala kunye nosana lwakho. Kunokwenzeka ukuba kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ukuba uqaphele inkqubela, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo ngexesha elithile uya kuwonwabela umzamo. Wena Umntwana uya kulala ngcono, ngokulula ngakumbi kwaye oku kuya kuqhubeka kuzo zonke izigaba zobuntwana bakhe, apho iimfuno zakhe zitshintsha. Inkqubo yokulala iquka la manyathelo alandelayo.
- Kwinkqubo yasebusuku uqala ngayo ibhafu yokuphumla.
- Emva koko kufike ixesha lokutya Kwaye kwimeko yomntwana onenyanga enye, kuya kuhlala kuyimfuneko ukuthatha ukutya ngaphambi kokulala. Ngaphambi kokumlalisa kubalulekile ukushiya umntwana kwindawo ethe tye kwisifuba sakho ixesha elithile, ngale ndlela uya kuphepha igesi kunye nokugaya okungahambi kakuhle okumvimbela ukuba aphumle. Ngaloo ntshukumo sele umlungiselela ukulala.
- Ezinye iingoma zokuphumla. Ukuba awuzazi iingoma zabantwana, akukho nto yenzekayo, uya kuzicengceleza ngokunyamezela. Nayiphi na ingoma oyaziyo iya kukunceda ulale umntwana onenyanga enye. Kufuneka nje uguqule isigqi kunye nokuqina, ucule ngokuthambileyo, ngokuthe ngcembe kwaye ukhaphe ingoma ngeentshukumo ezinceda umntwana ukuba aphumle.
Ezingalo okanye ebhedini?
Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule loo mbuzo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ukukhala komntwana kunemiphumo emibi emininzi ekukhuleni kwalo. Ezo ngcamango malunga nomntwana usebenzisa ukukhala ukuxhaphaza abazali, Baphelelwe lixesha kwaye batyhafiswa zizifundo ezininzi yenziwe mva nje. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhala kungenxa yokuba ekufuna, akukho nto.
Kwaye ngoku, impendulo yalo mbuzo kukuba, kuxhomekeke kwixesha. Oko kukuthi, ukuba umntwana wakho uyakuvumela ukuba ulale ebhekweni, ngelixa umshukumisa kwaye umculele ingoma, thatha ithuba ngenxa yokuba ayixhaphakanga kakhulu. Kakade ke, lo gama nje oku kungaquki ukuyeka usana lukhale. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantwana abaneminyaka eyi-1 ubudala bafuna iingalo, bazive bekhuselekile kunye nomama okanye utata, kwaye babe kufutshane nabantu ababini ababaluleke kakhulu ngelo xesha.
Kusenokungabi lula, ingakumbi kula maxesha otshintsho xa usana luthe qwa, lungenamdla wokulala nokudlala. Kodwa ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo inqanaba ngalinye lomntwana likhethekileyo, lahlukile kwaye lifanele ukulifumana ngaphandle kokungxama. Umntwana wakho uya kuhlala ekufuna, kodwa kwinyanga enye ubudala, ekuphela kwento enokukwenza uzive ukhuselekile, ukhululekile, ukhuselwe kwaye wonwabile, usezingalweni zikamama. Nokuba iyadinisa, yonwabele kuba ixesha lihamba ngokukhawuleza.