Iimpawu zokuba umntwana u-hyperactive zinokuba zininzi, kodwa eneneni zikwenza ubone enye inyaniso. Ngokuqinisekileyo uyaqaphela ukuba umntwana une ukuziphatha okusebenzayo kakhulu kodwa kukho ezinye iinkcukacha kunye neempawu ukuba misela ukuba umntwana wakho unengxaki ye-ADHD. Intandabuzo ivela xa sithetha ngosana. Ngaba inokunyangwa?
Iintsana zinamandla amangalisayo okuba kumzuzu wokukhula ngokwasemzimbeni nangokwasengqondweni. Kwade kwadlula iminyaka embalwa, yayingenakufakwa njengomntwana odlamkileyo kwaye mhlawumbi unengxaki ye-ADHD.
Ngaba usana lwam lusebenza ngokugqithiseleyo?
Usana ukususela ekuzalweni luyakwazi ukubonisa iimpawu ze umntwana ongaphumliyo. Alikafiki ixesha lokumfanela kulo naluphi na uhlobo lobuntu, kodwa unokuzibonakalisa ubuntu obudlamkileyo nobuphazamisayo.
Nangona zisebenza kakhulu, akufuneki zibe nehobe kulo naluphi na uhlobo lwesifo okanye ukuphazamiseka kwemithambo-luvo. Ziintsana ezingaphumliyo yaye ingqalelo yabo isenokuba nzulu ngakumbi kunaleyo yabanye abantwana.
Banokuba lusana oluxakekileyo njani?
Kunzima ukukrazula umntwana ngolu hlobo lwesimo. Unokuyikholelwa loo nto usana lunexhala ngokwenene yaye ukuxhalaba kwakhe akuxatyiswa. Kodwa banokungaphumli kakhulu, banomothuko othile ngenxa yezenzo zabo kwaye banokuboniswa ngezenzo ezinje:
- Ngokubanzi aba bantwana bachukumiseka ngakumbi, bahlala bephuthaphutha kwaye beshukuma kakhulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo babonakala besoyika kakhulu.
- xa ilixesha lokulala badla ngokuba nexesha elifutshane lokulala, lala iiyure ezimbalwa ngokulandelelana kwaye ube nento ukuvuka ebusuku.
- Ngexesha lokuncanciswa okanye ukutyiswa badla ngokushukunyiswa kakhulu, baphazamiseka ngokulula.
- Xa beqala ukuhamba badla ngokungxama kakhulu bayakhubeka rhoqo.
- Ngexesha lokudlala badla ngokuba novalo ngakumbi kwaye bade bahambe baze badale imidlalo eyonakalisayo.
- Banomlinganiswa owomeleleyo kwaye badla ngokuba yi-pigeonholed njenge uneenkani kwaye unenkani. Bambi batyekele ekukunyameni okuphantsi ukuphoxeka yaye bade babe nokuguquka kweemvakalelo ngesiquphe.
Iingcebiso zokuhlala nosana olusebenzayo
Abazali baya kuba ngabo banokunceda umntwana ingadibana nolu hlobo lomlinganiswa. Into yokuqala ukuyila a iinkqubo zemihla ngemihla kunye neeshedyuli ukuze umntwana akhuseleke ngakumbi kwaye amncede azole.
- Isimo sengqondo sabazali silawula kakhulu ngemfundo. Ukuba uthe cwaka kubo, ngolwimi olucothayo noluzolileyo, Ekuhambeni kwexesha iya kuba nefuthe kwindlela owenza ngayo. Baya kuba ngabantwana abangayi kukhwaza kakhulu okanye bajongane nezimo zengqondo.
- Imisebenzi enika umdla ayilunganga kakhulu, kubonakala ngathi iphucula ubuntu bakhe ngakumbi. Ukwenza oku, kunqanda ukuba nemidlalo esebenzayo okanye iintshukumo phambi kokuba ulale, iya kuba yindlela yokumxelela ukuba itheko lisaqhubeka.
- Xa kufuneka utyise zama ukuba kwindawo ezolileyo, ngaphandle kweziphazamiso, ukuze umntwana azi indlela yokunikela ingqalelo kwaye angazikhathazi ngento ejikelezileyo.
- Itekhnoloji ayilunganga, kodwa zinokukhangelwa imidlalo yokufundisa kunye neengoma eziphumla kakhulu ngemiboniso ukukunceda uzole.
- Thetha naye ngothando nangothando. Dlala naye, kuba ukudlala nomntu okufutshane naye kumnceda azole. Xa kufuneka udlulise uvelwano kwaye uthethe ngemfundo ethile soloko usenza ngembeko, musa ukuba nesimo sengqondo sikatata oxhalabileyo ngoyise okanye umama omgxothayo kwiibhokisi zakhe. Ububele, intlonipho kunye nokubonisa ukuba uyamthanda ngokuphambene kuya kwenza ukuba loo maxesha amnandi abhalwe ngaphakathi kuye.
Ngamafutshane, ziintsana bafunda ukuhlangabezana nobomi obutsha Kwaye zinokudinwa. Awona magama angcono anokucetyiswa ngala "umonde" kunye "nethemba". Ukuba ezininzi zezi ngcebiso zigcinwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, umntwana uya kukhula onwabile.