Sonke siyazi ukuba iimvakalelo ezingakhiyo azisikhokeleli kuyo nayiphi na into elungileyo. Ke, ukuba sicinga ngengqumbo, singaphakathi kwelo qela leemvakalelo ezinokuthi zikhokelele kwabanye eziquka umsindo, umsindo okanye umona. Ngoko akukho nto injalo kuphephe ukucaphuka ebantwaneni ukuze basuse zonke ezo mvakalelo ebomini babo.
Ngenxa yokuba ukuba baqokelela ezi ntlobo zeemvakalelo, kunokuba ngumthwalo omkhulu kubo. Ngoko asifuni bazive kwaye asifuni bakhule ngolo hlobo. Yonke into esemandleni ethu ukuyiphepha, kufuneka siyenze. Ngoku sikushiya ngoluhlu lweengcebiso onokuthi uzisebenzise yonke imihla kwaye uya kubona iziphumo ezintle.
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Indlela yokuphepha intukuthelo ebantwaneni?: yiba ngumzekelo obalaseleyo kubo
Besisoloko sisiva ukuba abantwana bafana nesiponji, ukuba bangenisa lonke uhlobo lwenkcazelo baze bayibumbe ngokuvisisana noko bakubonayo nabakuvayo ekhaya. Kungoko abazali ngomnye wemizekelo yokuqala oyena mncinane anayo. Lixesha lokuthathela ingqalelo oku ukuze iipateni ezithile zingaphindi. Ungaze ubonise ezo mvakalelo zimbi, esizikhankanye ngaphambili, phambi kwabanye abantu. Kufuneka sizijongele phantsi iimeko ezinokuxhokonxa ingqumbo ukuze ziqonde ukuba ukuyeka yonke into sesona simo sengqondo sifanelekileyo.
Bafundise iingenelo zokuxolela
Ziziphi iimvakalelo ezifumbethe inzondo? Ewe, sinokuthi zonke azilunganga, kodwa phakathi kwazo sigxininisa ezinye ezinje ngamaphupha amabi, kunye neenkxalabo ezahlukeneyo kunye noloyiko. Kodwa ngaphezu kwayo yonke imeko embi okanye ubundlongondlongo. Ngoko asifuni ukubona indlela abantwana bethu ababandezeleka ngayo yonke le mihla. Ngenxa yoko, kufuneka sibabonise icala elibi lokubamba inzondo nazo zonke iingenelo zokuxolela. Kungenxa yokuba ngokwenza oko siza kuzikhulula kuzo zonke iintlobo zengcinezelo, senze ubomi bethu bube lula kwaye bube nentsingiselo ngakumbi. Liyinyaniso elokuba banokuhlala bebonakalisa iimvakalelo zabo, kodwa bangaze bazigcine okanye bazijongele phantsi. Ukuphepha inzondo ebantwaneni akusoloko kulula ngolo hlobo, kodwa ngelo xesha kufuneka sibenze balawule ngeyona ndlela ilungileyo.
Isiseko esihle sokuzithemba
Ukuzithemba kusoloko kubalulekile ebomini bethu. Yiyo loo nto xa usebenza usemncinci kakhulu, umphumo uya kuba ngcono ngakumbi. uyayazi lonto yenziwe ebomini bakho ngothotho lwemithetho okanye imimiselo kunye nangothando olukhulu, nokhuthazo nokuba kusoloko kukho umntu omphulaphulayo. Ukuze kancinci kancinci ukwazi ukulawula izenzo zakho kunye neemvakalelo kakuhle, ukuba uyazi indlela yokuyeka kwaye uqhubeke namanyathelo akho ukuya phambili, ngaphandle kokugcina nayiphi na enye imvakalelo engalunganga. Konke oku akusoloko kulula, kodwa ngoncedo oluncinane kuya kwenzeka.
Musa ukuzijongela phantsi
Ukuba yingxaki ebantwaneni, akufuneki sikuthathele phantsi oko kubaluleka. Ngoko ke, kunconyelwa ukuba ukuze kuphetshwe ingqumbo ebantwaneni, kuhle ukubazisa ukuba ngokwenene sisecaleni kwabo yaye sikukhathalele oko kwenzekileyo. Siza kubamamela kwaye sizame ukwazi ukuba yeyiphi imvakalelo abanayo ngaphakathi eveliswe yimeko. Kuya kufuneka bayazi indlela yokwamkela inxalenye yetyala, ukuba bayayithwala, kwaye bazame ukusombulula ingxabano. Kwezi meko akufuneki sibanyanzele ukuba baxolele ukuba abawufikeleli umsebenzi wabo, suka nje siyeke ezo mvakalelo zimbi size siqhubeke nendlela yabo. Kungaba yinkqubo ende, kodwa ngoncedo lwabazali, ngokuqinisekileyo baya kulibala ngokukhawuleza kunokuba sicinga.
yamkela isifundo
Zonke iintlobo zeengxabano okanye iimeko ezisichaphazela ngokwenene, zinesifundo. Ke ukuba siza kufumana into elungileyo kuyo yonke le nto, iya kuba sisifundo. Mhlawumbi okona kucacileyo kukuba, ukuba baye baneengxaki nomhlobo, esona sifundo sisisiseko sesokuba igama elithi umhlobo linokuba likhulu kancinane kwabanye babo. Kungoko ungaxolela, uyeke iimvakalelo ezimbi kodwa ungaze uphinde uthembe kumntu othetha lula. Ngoko ke, akufuneki sinyanzelise iimeko ukuba azikho emsebenzini.
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