Ungabuphuhlisa njani ubuchule ebantwaneni

Ukuyila kwabantwana

Ukuphuhlisa ubuchule ebantwaneni, uthando lwabo lokufunda kufuneka luphuculwe. Ukukwazi ukuphucula ubuchule ebantwaneni kwaye ukufunda yinto eyonwabisayo kuboInto yokuqala oya kuyigcina engqondweni kukuba ukucinga kubaluleke ngaphezu kolwazi. Ke olo lwazi alunamda, kufuneka baqonde ukuba ukucinga kunganceda ukuqonda nayiphi na ingcinga, kodwa kuya kuhlala kufuneka ufune ukwazi nokuqonda izinto eziphambi kwakho.

Kukho into entle nomlingo ebuntwaneni ekufuneka igcinwe nanjengoko abantwana bekhula. U-LNgelishwa ilizwe labantu abadala liyanyanzelisa ukuba abancinci bayeke ukukhula kunye ne-veto yokucinga kwabo ngaphandle kokuqonda eyona mpazamo bayenzayo. Ukuyila, ukucinga kunye nokufunda kuyahambelana kwaye akunokwahlulwa.

Ukuyila kunye nokukwazi ukwenza izinto ezintsha zezinye zezona zinto zibalulekileyo ebomini ukuze ziphumelele. Ngokukodwa ukusukela ukuba ilizwe, njengoko sikhula, liba licekeceke, yonke into ihamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye kubonakala ngathi ukhuphiswano luyinto eqhelekileyo. Ke ngalo mbutho ukhawulezayo, singabanceda njani abantwana bethu bakhulise izakhono abazifunayo zokuphucula ubuchule kunye nokungalahleki kwindlela yokukhula?

ukuphucula ubuchule

Ukudlala yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokuphucula ubuchule bokwenza izinto

Sonke siba nezinto ezingcono ezingqondweni zethu xa sonwabile, yiyo loo nto ukudlala yeyona ndlela ibalaseleyo yokuphucula ubuchule kunye nokuphucula ukufunda ebantwaneni. Kwakhona, xa sikhululekile kwaye sikhululekile kuxa ezona zimvo zikhuthazayo zibonakala ezingqondweni zethu.

Abantwana xa bedlala benza umsebenzi onzima wokukhulisa kuba bafunda izinto ezintle. Xa bezobe umama okanye utata bephucula umbono, ukuba ufuna ukubhala ibali… qhubeka! Zindlela ezimnandi zokufunda kunye nokuphucula izakhono zobomi. Izakhono zentlalo kunye nolwimi ziya kubanceda ukuba babe nokucinga okulunge ngakumbi.

Abantwana bakha ukuzithemba kwabo, bafunda ukwenza izinto ezilungileyo, bavelise izinto ezintsha kwaye ukufunda kuya kuba kuhle kubo. Ngale ndlela baya kubona nantoni na enento yokwenza nokufunda njengento elungileyo kubo, njengento emnandi ... njengomdlalo. Ngaba ufuna ezinye izimvo zokunceda abantwana bakho bakhulise ubuchule kunye nokuphuhlisa uthando lokufunda? Ungaphoswa ziingcebiso zilandelayo.

Yenza ixesha lokudlala

Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kukufumana ixesha emini ukuze abantwana badlale ngokuzolileyo ekhaya, ukuze benze imisebenzi ngaphandle kokucwangciswa ... Ngamafutshane, badinga ixesha lasimahla lokuba ngabantwana kwaye bafunde kuphela ukuba bazi njani… bedlala! 

ukuphucula ubuchule

Iishedyuli zabantwana azidingi ukuba zizaliswe yimisebenzi yangaphandle engabashiyi ixesha lokuba ngabantwana. Kufuneka babe (kwaye kufanele ukuba babe lusuku ngalunye) ixesha lokudlala elingacwangciswanga kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu njengokuqiniswa kwezemfundo okanye iiklasi zomculo… hayi ukuchitha ixesha konke konke! Ngale ndlela baya kuba nexesha lokuphuhlisa, lokuphucula ubuchule kunye nokuqonda ukuba ukufunda kungonwabisa. Ukufunda, ukuzoba, ukudlala neemoto, ukwenza amabali… konke oku kunganceda abantwana bakho bafunde kwaye baziqonde ukuba bathanda ntoni.

Kutheni isigaba

Kukho inqanaba apho abantwana baqala ukubuza ukuba kutheni kuyo yonke into, banomdla ongapheliyo kwaye abaziva isidingo sokuma ukuze bafunde izinto. Kuyimfuneko ukuba xa umntwana wakho ekubuza ukuba kutheni yonke into, thatha umoya omkhulu kwaye uphendule imibuzo yakhe ngako konke ukuzola nokuzola emhlabeni. Xa abantwana bebuza ukuba kutheni yonke into ingumqondiso wobukrelekrele kunye nomdla kwihlabathi.


Akunyanzelekanga ukuba umphendule ngempendulo echanekileyo, ukongeza ukufunda kufuneka umvumele ukuba athathe inyathelo lokuqala lokufumana impendulo echanekileyo. Ngale ndlela banokufunda ukufumana iimpendulo kwimibuzo yabo, phantsi kokhokelo lwakho.

Thetha uqinisekile

Kufuneka ufunde ukuthetha ngendlela eyakhayo. Ukugxekwa kuchaphazela ukuzithemba kubomi babantwana, ke kuya kufuneka ubazise abantwana bakho ukuba uyayithanda imizamo yabo yokwenza izinto kakuhle yonke imihla. Kuya kufuneka bazi ukuba ukwenza iimpazamo akuyonto imbi kwaye ukuze uphumelele kufuneka wenze iimpazamo kwaye ufunde kwiimpazamo. Kuya kufuneka uyonwabele inkqubo ukuze wonwabe kwisiphumo. 

Kufuneka ucacisele abantwana ukuba akukho nto kuthiwa kukusilela, kukho kuphela amathuba okuqonda izinto ngeendlela ezintsha. Xa umntwana wakho ebonisa isakhono esitsha, naka ingqalelo kwinto ayenzayo kwaye umkhuthaze ukuba aqhubeke eyenza ukuba uyayithanda. Ungoyena mzekelo ubalaseleyo nangona ungeke uqaphele ukuba ungoyena mntu ubalaseleyo onokufumana umntwana wakho.

Abantwana bepeyinta kwi-easel yomthi

Iimvakalelo njengabadlali abaphambili

Xa abantwana bekwazi ukubona ukuba kwenzeka ntoni ehlabathini ngeemvakalelo zabo, baya kuba nakho ukufunda okungakumbi kwaye ngcono. Indlela elungileyo yokudlala ngeemvakalelo kukuya egadini kwaye bavumele baphonononge indalo. Ngale ndlela bazokwazi ukunxibelelana nezinambuzane, iintyatyambo kunye neentaka ... uzokwazi ukuva uburhabaxa, unuke ivumba leentyatyambo kwaye baya kwazi ukuba kuzakubakho izinto abangazokwazi ukuzibamba kuba bahlaba okanye bahlaba.

Ukuba umntwana akakwazi ukuya egadini, izivamvo zingasetyenziswa ekhaya. Umzekelo, ungadlala ngomgubo okanye ulwelo (ulungiselela yonke into ukuze igumbi lingangcoli kakhulu), okanye uthathe ibhokisi ufake amaphepha nezinto ngaphakathi kwaye umntwana wakho aqashele oko kuvalwe amehlo, okanye mhlawumbi uchonge izinto ngevumba okanye ungcamle… zininzi izimvo!

Sukuthemba i-elektroniki kwaye unxibelelane nabantwana bakho yonke imihla ukuphucula ubuchule babo kunye nokunyusa imvakalelo elungileyo malunga nokufunda.


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