Ukuthetha nolutsha ngesondo akukho lula kubazali abaninzi. Okokuqala, kuba akunakuphepheka ukubona unyana wakho njengaleyo ingenakuzikhusela obumnike ubomi. Kuba akukho lula kwaphela ukuvuma ukuba umntwana wakho sele engumntu okhulileyo kwaye ngenxa yoko, ubudlelwane bakhe ekuhlaleni kunye nothando bufana kakhulu nobomntu omdala kunalowo womntwana.
Nangona kunjalo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina unxibelelwano oluvulekileyo malunga noku kunye neminye imiba enxulumene noko. Kuba isini sibandakanya ukuthatha amanyathelo okhuseleko amaninzi kwaye ngenxa yokuba kungenakuba njalo, kwaye kungafanelekanga, cinga ukuba amakhwenkwe ayaxelelwa ngale nto sisikolo okanye nge-Intanethi. Ulwazi olungeyonyani ngoyena nobangela uphambili wezifo ezosulela ngokwabelana ngesondo kulutsha. Kanye nokukhulelwa okungacwangciswanga kwaye ngenxa yoko, ukukhupha isisu kulutsha.
Usuku lweSenzo seHlabathi lokufikelela kwisisu esisemthethweni nesikhuselekileyo
Ngenkulungwane ye-XXI, Izigidi zamabhinqa ziyafa nyaka ngamnye ngenxa yokuqhomfa Ukwenza kakubi. Oku kungenxa yokunqongophala kwezonyango kunye nococeko kunye nobunzima bokufumana isisu esisemthethweni nesikhuselekileyo kwiindawo ezininzi zehlabathi. Namhlanje, nge-28 kaSeptemba kwaye njengonyaka ngamnye ukusukela ngo-1990, uMhla wokuSebenza weHlabathi wokufikelela kwisisu esisemthethweni nesikhuselekileyo ubhiyozelwa.
Ngamanyathelo ngamanyathelo ahlukeneyo kunye nemisebenzi ehlelwe yimibutho yabasetyhini, ababhinqileyo kunye nabakhuseli bamalungelo oluntu ngokubanzi, ijolise ekuphakamiseni ulwazi malunga nesidingo sokukhuthaza ukukhupha isisu ngokukhuselekileyo, ngakumbi kulawo mazwe asakhulayo Apho abasetyhini baphathwa gadalala kwasebusaneni. Ngenxa yoko, izigidi zabasetyhini ziyafa ngenxa yokukhulelwa, ukukhupha isisu okungakhuselekanga, ukuzalwa okungakhathalelwanga kunye ne-puerperium.
Ukuthetha ngokukhupha isisu kunye nolutsha
Indima yeentsapho kuluntu oluqhubele phambili ibalulekile kwi ukuthintela ukukhupha isisu. Ibalulekile bafundise abantwana ngesondo, kwizifo ezidluliselwa ngeentlobano zesini nakwiziphumo zesondo esingakhuselekanga. Nokuba inokuba nzima kangakanani na, nokuba kunzima kangakanani na ukuthetha ngalo mbandela, kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bazilungiselele kwaye bazi ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukwabelana ngesondo okukhuselekileyo.
Iziphumo zokukhulelwa kolutsha okungacwangciswanga zinokuba buhlungu, ngakumbi ukuba akukho nxibelelwano lunamanzi phakathi kwabazali nabantwana. Umntwana ofikisayo okhulelweyo ongabathembiyo abazali bakhe okanye ongaziva ukuba angathembela kwinkxaso yabantu abadala ekubhekiswa kuye, angakhokelela kwisisu esingakhuselekanga. Kunye yonke imingcipheko yempilo yomzimba neyengqondo oku kubandakanya.
Kodwa ukuthetha ngokukhupha isisu kunye nentsha, Kuyimfuneko ukuba wazise ngokwakho kuqala. Kuba kubalulekile ukuthintela nayiphi na imiyalezo ephosakeleyo enokubadida abantwana. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukujongana nomxholo ngokungafihlisiyo, uyinyani, uyinyani kwaye kulula ukuyiqonda ulwazi. Akukho sidingo sokubajonga ukuba boyike, kuba ubudlelwane bezesondo bayinxalenye yokukhula kwaye nokuba ufuna ukulibazisa kangakanani, ngenye imini iyakufika.
Kodwa ukuze oku kwenzeke ngendlela esempilweni nekhuselekileyo, amakhwenkwe namantombazana kufuneka bazi yintoni ukupheliswa kokukhulelwa ngokuzithandela. Umngcipheko onokubakho ukuba ungenelelo olo alwenziwanga ngokufanelekileyo. Nokuba iingxaki zokuzala kunye nezempilo ezinokubonakala nokuba ungenelelo lwenziwa ngugqirha onobuchule.
Ukuthembana okupheleleyo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana
Ukuseka ubudlelwane bokuthembana okupheleleyo phakathi kwabazali nabantwana ukususela kwiminyaka emincinci kakhulu kubalulekile. Le kuphela kwendlela qiniseka ukuba abantwana bakho bangathetha nawe nakweyiphi na imeko, kuba unxibelelwano sisiseko sobudlelwane obuphilileyo. Ukuba abantwana bakho bayakwazi ukukuchazela izinto ezibaxhalabisayo, ungathetha nabo ngayo nantoni na, kubandakanya nesondo.
Kuba imfundo yezesondo ibalulekile kulutsha olufumana zonke iintlobo zolwazi kwimithombo yangaphandle. Kuba kumazwe asakhasayo abasetyhini, amantombazana kunye nolutsha abanakukhetha. Kubo nakwabo bangenandlela, kubalulekile ukuba sifundise amantombazana ethu kunye namakhwenkwe ethu ukuze babenolwazi ngesondo elikhuselekileyo.