Kuqhelekile ukubona oku kwenziwe ngendlela enyanzelekileyo phakathi kolutsha nabantwana. Abantu abadala nabo banengxaki kulo mkhwa, nangona ngendlela encinci. Abazali bayayazi le ngxaki xa sijonga ukuba iminwe yabo ihlala isemlonyeni wabo kwaye inakho ekugqibeleni yenza iingxaki ezahlukeneyo. Indlela yokwenza abantwana bangazilumi iinzipho zabo kuya kufuneka zifundwe ngokuxhomekeke amasiko omntwana ngamnye kunye nezinto ezibaxhalabisayo.
Masingakulibali ukuba ayingombuzo wobuhle kodwa endaweni yoko ukwenzakala kunokwenziwa kwizihlunu ezingqongileyo, iintlungu zesisu ngenxa yokungenisa iintsholongwane, ukutshintsha kwamazinyo nkqu nokumila kwimilo yeminwe. Ukujonga ukuba yintoni ebangela ukuba kubalulekile ukujongana nale ngxaki.
Kutheni abantwana beluma iinzipho zabo?
Lo mkhwa wokuluma iinzipho zakho yenziwa ngokungxama nangexhala. Kubizwa ngokuba onychophagia kwaye kwenziwa ngokungazi. Umntwana unokuluma iinzipho ade angabinako, okanye unokukrazula izikhumba ezincinane ezijikeleze iinzipho ezibangela ii-hangna ezoyikekayo.
Ukuba sifumana Chaza unobangela oko kubangela lo mkhwa, mhlawumbi singoyisa ingxaki ngcono. Ngumcimbi wokuhlalutya izizathu, kuba inokuba malunga amaxesha oxinzelelo olukhulu. Ukuba umntwana uhamba ngamaxesha otshintsho, ixesha leemviwo, ukufika komntakwabo okanye ubona ukuba kukho iingxaki zosapho; mhlawumbi ujolise kwixhala lakho kulo mkhuba. Kuya kufuneka uncede beka ecaleni ukukhathazeka kwakho Ukomeleza ukuzithemba kwakho ngeendlela zokuphumla.
Kwelinye icala, sinokuyibona loo nto wenza kuphela ngamaxesha athile, umzekelo, xa ubukele ngokuzolileyo umabonwakude kwaye sele udibanisa loo mzuzu kunye nokuziqhelanisa. Ngale ndlela kuya kufuneka uzame ukugcina umntwana onwabile ngento ezandleni zabo.
Ngawaphi amayeza esinokuthi siwaphumeze ukuze abantwana bangazityi iinzipho zabo?
Njengoko sele sichazile, eyona ngxaki iphambili ihlala dityaniswa noxinzelelo. Ukuze ukwazi ukulwa nale mvakalelo, kulungile ukuba umntwana angaziqhelanisa nemidlalo, atye ngokusempilweni, abe nocwangco ebomini bakhe kwaye kwiimeko ezinzulu angaziqhelanisa nazo. kucamngca o ngqondweni.
Ukuba unomkhwa wokuyenza xa ezolile, ukubukela iTV okanye ukubukela into, kuya kufuneka unento ezandleni zakho. Ukuba wonwabisa ngento yokudlala yoxinzelelo lomntwana, ibhola okanye iringi, kuya kuba lula kakhulu kuwe ukuba intloko yakho ijolise kwinto leyo.
Kwimeko ezinzulu ngakumbi kukho abazali abakhetha ukubeka iiplasta kwiminwe yakho okanye ukugquma izandla ngeiglavu. Ingayicebo lokujonga ukuba litshintsha kangakanani. Kukho nemveliso ethengiswa ezikhemesti, ulwelo oluthanjiswe kuloo ndawo ukuluma kwaye inencasa ekrakra, kodwa umntwana angayiqhela incasa kwaye eli yeza alinakusebenza.
Olunye unyango olusebenzayo kukubeka amantombazana namakhwenkwe izipikili zokufakelwa (i-acrylic, i-gel, okanye i-porcelain) ukuze ndikwazi ukuyiphepha. Okanye kumantombazana eze peyinta iinzipho ukuze zikhangeleke zintle.
Nangona kunjalo, izandla zomntwana zisoloko zicocekile ukunqanda iintsholongwane ezinokubakho emlonyeni. Izikhonkwane kufuneka zifakwe kakuhle kwaye nezikhumba zisuswe ukuze ungakhubeki kwaye uzame ukubeka iminwe yakho emlonyeni.
Ukuze umncede kwaye wazi, kunyanzelekile ukuba uchaze ukuba sisenzo esibi kakhulu kwaye unokufumana usulelo olungeyomfuneko. Inokudala nokunxiba emazinyweni kunye nokwenza amanxeba acaphukisayo. Nanini na xa kuthathelwa ingqalelo kwaye uza kulithobela, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba bavuzwe ngenkoliseko. Menze aqonde ukuba angakwazi ukufezekisa impumelelo yakhe kwaye amvuze ngeenkcukacha ezincinci.