Ukukhuthaza ingqondo yomntwana kusixelela ukuba kufuneka sikwenze oko kuba beselusana. Indlela abaziphethe ngayo kufuneka ikhuliswe kwaye ikhuthazwe kwasekuqaleni kwaye nangona isenokungabonakali ngathi, Nasiphi na isenzo kunye nokuziphatha sele kuqale iimeko kwisiseko, ngokukhula okufanelekileyo nangokuchanekileyo.
Njengabazali nabahlohli sivunyelwe ukwenza impumelelo enkulu kunye nabantwana, ukuvuselela ingqondo yomntwana kunokuhlala kugqityiwe nangaliphi na ubudala. Kodwa ibaluleke kakhulu kwasekuzalweni okoko unxibelelwano lwengqondo okanye amakhonkco e-neural baqala ukukhula.
Uyikhuthaza njani ingqondo yomntwana
Zininzi kwaye zininzi iindlela zokuphuhlisa ingqondo yakho. Kuba zincinci, amandla okufunxa makhulu kwaye amandla okubamba isikhuthazi aphume ngendlela engalinganiyo.
Ukulawula kakuhle ukukhula kwayo ngokuchanekileyo kufuneka ukuba abo babakhathaleleyo (abazali, abantakwabo, ootatomkhulu kunye nabanye) Yenza igalelo lakho lemihla ngemihla kwaye ube nesiseko esiqinileyo. Abantwana kufuneka bakhululeke xa kufikwa kwiimvakalelo, ukucinga, ukuhamba kunye nokufunda, nangona bekwimida.
Ithathwa njengesiqalo ukusuka ekuzalweni komntwana, kodwa mhlawumbi Kuba banonyaka ubudala, iqala ukuthathwa njengowona mzuzu ubalaseleyo kuphuhliso lwabo. Kule minyaka kuxa unxibelelwano lwakho lwe-synaptic lukhule ngokupheleleyo, ukusukela banolwazi olukhulu ngendalo esingqongileyo.
Njengabanakekeli zizikhokelo zakho eziphambili, Yiyo loo nto kufuneka sibe ngumzekelo wabo omkhulu, abantwana bafunda ngakumbi koko bakubonayo kunoko baxelelwa kona. Kubalulekile ukubenza bazive bekhuselekile kwaye bahlengahlengise inkuthazo yabo kubudala obuhambelana nabo.
Amacandelo aphambili ekufuneka athathelwe ingqalelo:
- Ulwimi lubalulekile ekukhuleni kwabo. Ukugcina incoko evulekile nomntwana wakho, ukubalisa amabali kunye namabali, ukuthetha naye nokwazi ukumamela kubaluleke kakhulu. Oku kuphucula isigama sakho kwaye kukhuthaze ukukhula kwayo.
- Ubukho beencwadi. Akukaze kusekuqaleni ukuba umntwana, kwanosana, abenencwadi ngesandla. Kukho ukuziqhelanisa nayo yonke iminyaka, nokuba yenziwe ngeplastiki kwigumbi lokuhlambela. Ziyilelwe ukuvela kwexesha ngalinye elinomxholo okhuthazayo kunye nemizobo. Abazali bayinxalenye yeli hlabathi. Apho banokuthatha inxaxheba khona ukuze bafunde amabali abo abawathandayo. Kulungile ukukhulisa ilizwi lakho ngalo lonke ixesha uzisa umlinganiswa kwaye ubandakanye umntwana ebalini. Fumanisa ukuba inomdla kangakanani xelela abantwana bakho amabali.
- Umculo kunye nezibalo. Umculo ubalulekile Kuba bancinci, ilizwi labo loomama sele livuselele ukuvuselela kwabo. Bona ngokwabo baya kuzama ukulinganisa iingoma kwaye bade bazimele nezandi. Izibalo ezilula kubudala bakhe zinceda ukukhula kwakhe. Banokudityaniswa nemidlalo yamagama, iingoma kunye nokubala izinto kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.
- Hambisa kwaye udlale. Abantwana bayathanda ukuphonononga, kufuneka babanike ukuzithemba ukuze bangoyiki ukuhamba kunye nokunxibelelana nabanye. Ukumsa epakini ayokudlala nabahlobo, ukudlala imidlalo yobomi bonke njengokufihla nokufuna… konke oku kuyayivuselela ingqondo yakhe.
- Ubugcisa. Abantwana kufuneka baphonononge ngezixhobo ezahlukeneyo abanokuzisebenzisa ukuvelisa ubugcisa. Imizobo, izinto ezilawulwayo ezinje ngeplastinine, iibhaluni, ukudityaniswa kwemibala, amalaphu, izinto zokuphinda zisetyenziswe ... kulungile ukuthatha inxaxheba kulonwabo lwabo okanye ukubashiya benenkululeko enkulu yokuhlola. Into ebalulekileyo kukumvuza ngomsebenzi awenzileyo.
- Imidlalo yeBhodi kunye nemidlalo yokuzonwabisa. Kukho ukuziqhelanisa nazo nabuphi na ubudala kunye nabuphi na ubuntu. Imidlalo yebhodi yemveli ilungile (amakhadi, i-ludo, i-chess ...) kunye nezo zenziwe minyaka le ziingcali zokungcakaza. Ukwenza iipuzzle kunye ne-sudokus zilungele ukukhula kwayo. Ukuba uthanda ukuchitha ixesha elimnandi nootatomkhulu noomakhulu bakho, sinokufumana kwakhona imisebenzi yokwenza nabazukulwana bethu.
- Ukondla. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukutya okufanelekileyo kube negalelo kumkhwa ophilileyo olungileyo, into ebalulekileyo kuphuhliso olulungileyo phakathi komzimba nengqondo. Fumana okona kutya kuluncedo yeengqondo zabantwana.