Lo mzuzu ufumanisa ukuba ukhulelwe uqhelekile enye yezona zibaluleke kakhulu ebomini bayo nayiphi na isibini. Izibini ezininzi ziyahamba xa zisenza uvavanyo lwe ukukhulelwaAbanye, kwelinye icala, bakhetha ukuyenza bodwa ukuze bothuse utata ozayo. Ukuba le yimeko yakho kwaye ufuna ukumothusa umfana othandana naye ngezi ndaba zimnandi, ungaphoswa luhlu lwethu lweemvelaphi kunye nezikhethekileyo
Ungazisusa njani iindaba zokuba ukhulelwe
Kubalulekile ukuba uthathele ingqalelo izinto ezinje ngobuntu beqabane lakho, ukuthanda kwabo kunye nendlela yabo yokufumana isimanga. Cinga ukuba yintoni, ukuba indlela oyikhethayo ayihambelani nendlela yokuba sisithandwa sakho, le unokubeka imeko kwindlela yakho yokufumana iindaba. Ukuthintela ukungaqondani kwaye ungenzi imeko engathandekiyo, cinga ngononophelo malunga nezinto ezithandwa ngomnye umntu kwaye uzame ukuziqhelanisa nazo, ezi ziindaba ezibaluleke kakhulu ukuzonakalisa ngokhetho olubi.
Ukuba ukukhulelwa kucwangcisiwe, uya kuba sele uqinisekile ukuba iindaba zokuba ukhulelwe ziya kubuliswa ngemvakalelo. Ke akufuneki ukuba uzikhathaze ngempendulo yeqabane lakho, nangona kubalulekile ukuba ukhethe ixesha kunye nendlela efanelekileyo.
Kwimeko apho ukhulelwe kukothusayo, kubaluleke ngakumbi ukukhetha indlela yokuhambisa iindaba ezimnandi. Unokuba neqabane elizinzileyo kwaye ufumane oku ukukhulelwa ngeemvakalelo, nangona kungacwangciswanga. Kodwa zikhona amatyala amaninzi apho ubudlelwane buqala khona Kwaye ukuba ukhulelwe, kunokuba yinto enokubabeka esichengeni sobabini.
Zininzi iindlela ukunika iindaba ukuba ukhulelwe njengobuntu, ukuthandana, ukuhlekisa, ukuphambana, uvakalelo okanye usapho, umzekelo. Ezi zezinye zezimvo zazo zonke izinto ozithandayo.
Umyalezo ovela kusana oluzayo
Khetha enye yeefoto zakho ozithandayoNgokuqinisekileyo kwiselfowuni yakho uneefoto ezininzi ezikhethekileyo kuni nobabini kwimeko ekhethekileyo.
Phrinta ifoto kunye bhala umyalezo ovela kumntwana wakho wexesha elizayo, umyalezo othusayo ubhekiswe kulo tata. Into enje "Ndiyathemba ndikhangeleka njengotata" "Kungekudala siza kuhamba kunye tata" "Utata wam unolona ncumo luluhle emhlabeni" okanye umyalezo owukhethileyo.
Indawo yokuzivocavoca emangalisiwe
Hlela i-gymkhana ekhaya, kuya kufuneka ulungiselele iimvavanyo kwaye iindawo zokufihla ngemiyalezo ekhokelela utata wexesha elizayo kumvuzo omangalisayo, uvavanyo lokukhulelwa.
Akunyanzelekanga ukuba zibe luvavanyo olunzima kakhulu, nkqu nakuzo zonke unako Faka imikhondo malunga nomyalezo utata aza kuwufumana. Sebenzisa iidrowa ezisegumbini, izihlangu zesoka lakho, iikhabhathi zasekhitshini okanye nayiphi na indawo endlwini yakho enokusetyenziselwa ukufihla amanqaku kunye nemikhondo.
Fihla into kwidrowa yakhe yesikipa
Ungasebenzisa nayiphi na into eqhelekileyo yomntwana njenge-pacifier okanye iibhutsi. Nangona ungasebenzisa enye into ekhethekileyo njengeDoud-dou ngenqaku. I-doud-dou yinto yokuncamathisela, uhlobo lwengubo equka unodoli omncinci othambileyo kwaye olumnandi, othi Isetyenziselwa ukwenza umntwana ukuba akhululeke kwaye akhululeke. Enye yezinto ezikhethekileyo kule nto ilula kukuba ukwenziwa kwelaphu kukuvumela ukongeza ivumba elifunwayo.
Into edla ngokwenziwa kukubeka i-doud-dou kwidrowa yeempahla zikamama. Unokulala nayo ukuze eli laphu limithiswe livumba lakho, neliza kuba lelakho eliyintandokazi kwikamva lomntwana. Ukumangalisa iqabane lakho, unokubeka i-doud-dou kwi-drawer yakhe yempahla ngenqaku yithi into enje "Ndiyakuthanda ukulala ne-doud-dou yam kuba inuka utata wam"
Siyathemba ukuba iindaba zamkelwe ngeyona ndlela intle kwaye uyonwabele le mizuzu intle kunye nesoka lakho. Ulwalamano lwakho luza kuthatha inyathelo elibalulekileyo, ubeka iziseko zosapho lwakho. !! Siyavuyisana !!