Abazali babantwana abane-autistic bafumanisa ukuba abantwana babo baneengxaki kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Ukwazi indlela yokwamkela umntwana one-autistic kunokwenza ubomi bube lula kwaba bantwana nakubazali, abahlangabezana nezithintelo ezivela kuluntu ukongeza kwisifo ngokwaso. Ukuxilongwa kwangoko kuya kubaluleke kakhulu ukuphucula umgangatho wobomi bakho. Masibone ukuba yeyiphi i-autism kwaye umazi njani umntwana one-autistic.
Yintoni iAuthism?
Autism ngu ukuphazamiseka kwemithambo-luvo ifunyenwe ngaphakathi kwengxaki ye-autism (ASD). Umntwana omnye kwabali-1 une-autistic kwaye uchaphazela amakhwenkwe amaninzi kunamantombazana. Inkqubo ye- Iimpawu zokuqala zivela kwiminyaka emi-3 yokuqala yobomi, kwaye ezi mpawu ziya kuxhomekeka kubukrakra besifo.
Esi sifo ichaphazela ikakhulu unxibelelwano kunye nezakhono zentlalo. Oku kubangela iingxaki kwezentlalo nakunxibelelwano, kulawulo lweemvakalelo kunye neengxaki zokuziphatha, kuba baziphatha ngokwahlukileyo kwabanye.
Imvelaphi ye-autism ayisaziwa. Ukuyifumana ngokukhawuleza kuya kunceda ukubonelela ngonyango olwaneleyo oluneziphumo ezilungileyo. Njengoko sibonile ngaphambili, kuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwe-autism kunye nomntwana, iimpawu ziya kwahluka, kodwa siza kukushiya uthotho lweempawu ekwabelwana ngazo ngabantwana be-autistic ukwazi indlela yokuziqonda.
Umamkela njani umntwana one-autistic
- Iingxaki zokunxibelelana nabanye. Abantu ngabantu basekuhlaleni kwaye sidinga abanye kwaye sinxibelelana ngokweemvakalelo nabanye. Abantwana abane-Autistic babonakala bekude, nkqu nakubazali babo. Bakhetha ubudlelwane bezinto kunabantu. Oku kubangela ukwahlulwa.
- Abadlali nabanye abantwana. Ngenxa yokuba bengenamdla ebantwini, abanamdla wokudlala imidlalo nabanye abantwana abalingana nabo.
- Ayijongi emehlweni akho xa uthetha. Autistic abantwana bayakuphepha ukunxibelelana nabanye.
- Ubunzima kunxibelelwano lomlomo nolungathethiyo. Umthamo wabo womlomo ulinganiselwe, othintela ukuba bazivakalise ngokwaneleyo. Kuyafana kunxibelelwano lwakho olungathethi ngomlomo. Ngokungayiphuhlisi, abayifumani kwabanye, nto leyo eyenza ubudlelwane babo bube nzima kakhulu. Unxibelelwano lwethu lusekwe ngaphezulu kwe-90% kunxibelelwano olungathethi ngomlomo (izijekulo, ithoni xa uthetha, isikhundla somzimba ...).
- Banokuziphatha okungafaniyo. Zihlala ziziqhelo zezenzo ezibanika ukhuseleko. Zinokuba ziintshukumo eziqhubekayo kunye nomzimba wakho, ukuphindaphinda rhoqo igama, okanye ukuchukumisa into ngokuphindaphindiweyo.
- Ababhethi, bakhombe iminwe, okanye baqonde amagama abo kwiinyanga ezili-12. Iintsana zihlala zenza izandi eziphindaphindayo kwilinge lokunxibelelana, kodwa abantwana abane-autistic bakhetha ukuthula okanye benze izandi eziphindaphindayo. Kunyaka omnye ubudala abantwana sele belazi igama lakhe, kodwa abaliqondi.
- Hypersensitivity kuxinzelelo lwangaphandle. Izikhuthazi ezinjengengxolo, imibala, izibane, amavumba kunokubangela ukuphazamiseka xa besiva ukuba bakhululekile. Banempendulo engalinganiyo kubo (ukuqhuma komsindo, isimilo sokuzenzakalisa ...), kuba zibangela uxinzelelo noxinzelelo.
- Ummiselo ombi ngokweemvakalelo. Banako ukungaziboni iimvakalelo zabo nezabanye, ezibathintelayo ekufundeni ukuzilawula ngokuchanekileyo.
Emva kokuxilongwa
Ukuba unemibuzo malunga nokuba umntwana wakho unayo i-autism, soloko uqhagamshelana nogqirha wakho ukuvavanya. Kukho iinkqubo zokufumanisa kwangaphambili ezenziwa ngoogqirha babantwana kunye nabongikazi. Ukuba ekugqibeleni ufunyaniswe une-autism, into ebalulekileyo kukuba Yazi kakuhle kwaye ungenelele ngoncedo ngokukhawuleza. Iya kubandakanya ukukunika izixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuze uphucule intlalontle yakho, unxibelelwano, izakhono zentlalo kunye nezemfundo. Iya kuba ngumsebenzi onzima kodwa iya kukunceda ube nobomi obuqhelekileyo kangangoko.
Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba siqonde kwaye siqonde abantwana abane-autism. Banendlela eyahlukileyo enxulumene nehlabathi kwaye kufuneka sibaxhase ngezixhobo ezenza ukuba ubomi bube lula kubo. Abantwana abane-autism bayakwazi ukufunda ukubalisa kodwa bafuna uncedo lwethu.
Kuba khumbula ... i-autism yingxaki yentlalo ekufuneka sonke sisebenze kuyo.