Ukuba kukho umntu onemincili malunga nokukhulelwa kakhulu okanye ngaphezulu kunabazali ngokwabo, ngoomakhulu nootatomkhulu bangomso. Ootatomkhulu, ngabazukulwana abantwana bokuphangwa, abantwana ekungafuneki ukuba bafundise okanye bakhulise kwaye yiyo loo nto banokubaphulula ngaphandle komlinganiso. Ke ngoko, xa befumana iindaba ezimnandi zokuba kungekudala baya kuba ngootatomkhulu, banokonwaba ngokungathi babeqala ukuba ngabazali.
Ukubhengeza ukukhulelwa kunokuba Ithuba elilodwa lokudala inkumbulo engalibalekiyo. Nokuba uyenza ngendlela elula, iya kuba ngumzuzu ongenakulityalwa. Kodwa ungathatha ithuba lokuququzelela umdlalo omncinci okanye indlela ekhethekileyo yokubhengeza iindaba kootatomkhulu noomakhulu kunye nosapho lonke. Ukuba uyawuthanda umbono kodwa awuqinisekanga ukuba ungayenza njani, ungaphoswa yile mibono sikushiye ingezantsi.
Bhengeza ukukhulelwa ngephakheji emangazayo
Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukufumana amagama afanelekileyo, ngakumbi xa uziva uziva kakhulu. Ke ngoko ukubhala ileta okanye inowuthi kunokuba yindlela elula yokubonisa yonke into oziva ngayo okanye into oyithethayo kuloo mntu ukhethekileyo. Ukuothusa ootatomkhulu noomakhulu ukukhulelwa kwakho, ungasebenzisa ipakethi yokumangaliswa rhoqo. Ufuna ibhokisi entle apho unokubeka khona into oza kuyazisa ngayo iindaba, inqaku elisayiniweyo egameni lomzukulwana wexesha elizayo, isiqinisekiso okanye isihlangu.
Bathathe bayokuthenga
Cela oomakhulu nootatomkhulu bexesha elizayo ukuba bakukhaphe xa uye kuthenga, uye nabo kwivenkile ethengisa abantwana ubacele ukuba bakhethele umzukulwana wabo into. Usenokubacela ukuba bakwenzele izinto zokuthenga ezivenkileni, ngezizathu ezifana nokuba uyagula kwaye kufuneka uthathe izinto ezithile ugoduke nazo. Kuluhlu lokuthenga, Yongeza amagama, amanabukeni, ilweyinti lokuthambisa, wosula kunye nezinto ezifanayo kwiintsana. Xa oomakhulu nootatomkhulu bayibona, baya kuba ngothuko olukhulu kwaye iya kuba ngumzuzu abangasokuze bawulibale.