Indlela yokwenza abantwana bathobele eklasini

Indlela yokwenza abantwana bathobele eklasini

Kubazali abaninzi kuyimpumelelo enkulu ukubona ukuba abantwana bethu bayazithobela izicelo zethu, xa kuziwa yemfundo nangenxa yophuhliso lwabo. Into ebacaphukisayo kuxa bengavumi ukuthobela imithetho esisiseko, enjengokulala ngexesha, ukutya ukutya, ukukhetha iithoyi zabo ... kwaye oko kuyasidanisa kwaye kusenze siphelelwe ngumonde. Ukuba endlwini yethu imigaqo sele kunzima ukuyithobela, Kuza kwenzeka ntoni xa besiya esikolweni? Kwaye ukuba kukho izikhalazo ezivela kutitshala ngokwaphula imigaqo, kwenziwa njani ukuba abantwana bathobele eklasini?

Mhlawumbi indlela yethu yokufundisa ngendlela ethile yenza abantwana dikwa ziziphakamiso zethu. Xa betshintsha imeko yabo kwaye basesikolweni begcinwe ngutitshala, imigaqo iyanyanzeliswa ziyanyamezeleka ngakumbi. Kodwa kukho abantwana abathi ngokwemvelo yabo babe nesimilo semvukelo kwaye abafuni ukuthobela eklasini.

Kutheni abantwana bengathobeli?

Ngokuqinisekileyo siye sacinga ngaphezu kwesinye abaphulaphuli, ukuba sibaxelele into enye amaxesha amahlanu kwaye abathobeli. Kukho ingxaki, ukuba bafuna ukumamela izicelo zethu izihlandlo ezilishumi ukuze bakwazi ukwenza into, baya kuhlala belindele ukuba sibaxelele. Ngamaxesha amaninzi njengoko kufuneka. Eklasini ootitshala bahlala betyhafile, kuya kufuneka uthobele eyokuqala kwaye ubukhulu becala yeyesibini, ukuba akukho silumkiso.

Indlela yokucela izinto okanye inyani yokulawula into yenza abantwana abaninzi andazi ukuba ndingaqonda njani ukuba liphi na igunya lomntu xa kufuneka bethobele. Amaxesha amaninzi kuya kufuneka utsale uthando kunye nobuchule ukuze ezinye iintlobo zeenjongo ziyenziwa. Unokuba mnandi ngokucela izinto kwaye ungangxoli, ngale ndlela yonke into ingaqala kumkhondo olungileyo.

Indlela yokwenza abantwana bathobele eklasini

Kufuneka wenze ntoni ukwenza ukuba abantwana bathobele eklasini?

Kukho abantwana abathi banokuguqula isimilo sabo. Siphinde sajonga ukungathobeli komntwana xa esekhaya. Kodwa kusenokwenzeka ukuba umntwana uyathobela ekhaya kwaye nasesikolweni benze okwahlukileyo. Kule meko, kufuneka uhlalutye loo nto akukho nto idambisayo kwaye oko kuyonakalisa intloko yakho.

Kufuneka kubekho unxibelelwano olucacileyo phakathi kwabazali nesikolo. Okwangoku, injongo katata okanye umama kufuneka iphononongwe ngokunxulumene nesimo sengqondo somntwana wabo kwaye baqwalasele okwenzekayo eklasini. Kule meko, izizathu kunye nokuziphatha kwabo kwemihla ngemihla kufuneka kuhlalutywe ngokweenkcukacha.

Indlela yokwenza abantwana bathobele eklasini

Kukho abantwana abeza bengakhuthazwanga kuba bengaphumli kakuhle. Akukho meko intle ekhaya, kukho umntwana omphazamisayo okanye iqabane elimphazamisayo kakhulu. Yonke le mizekelo inokuba zizizathu ezaneleyo zomntwana ziphathe ngokungabikho kwaye uthanda ukuba yindlela yakhe.

Unokulandelwa ukusuka ekhaya ngokuziphatha ezilungileyo nezingalunganga zeklasi. Ukuba eklasini kukho inkqubela phambili esebenzayo kwaye umntwana uyathobela, kunokwenziwa itheyibhile yamanqaku aqinisekileyo unokutshintsha into oyithandayo kwaye ikukhuthaze.

Inkwenkwe okanye intombazana kufuneka ifundiswe loo nto unokuba ngumfundi olungileyo kwaye ukuthobela kunokudala ukuqiniswa okuqinisekileyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ugcine engqondweni ukuba uhlala usenza njalo thobela umntu omdala kwaye ngale ndlela yenza abanye abantwana babone imeko efanayo yokulandela umzekelo ofanayo.


Sabemos ukuba uqeqesho ayisebenzi kakuhle kuwo wonke umntu. Kukho abantwana abathi ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukeneyo kunye nendlela yabo yokuphila sele beyingxaki. Banobuntu obunzima okanye kuba kukho iingxaki ezibangqongileyo ezibatshintshayo. Kukho abazali abafuna inkxaso yengqondo kuba bakholelwa ukuba umntwana wabo unengxaki yokuqwalaselwa, kwaye akukho nto ingaphaya koko kubonakala inokuba yinyani. Okubalulekileyo kukuba sebenza umntwana ngaphakathi, ngomonde, positivism kunye nothando. Zonke ezi zinto zinokutshintsha indlela ajongeka ngayo umntwana.


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