Umntwana wakho unokubuya ekhaya evela esikolweni kwaye alahle izinto, njengeepensile umzekelo. Okanye akanangxaki yokulahla isidlo sakhe sasemini ngaphandle kokuzama, okanye ukuba utshayisa iithoyi zakhe okanye ezinye izinto ngaphandle kokuzisola. Ukuba enye yezo zinto iyenzeka, okanye zonke zizonke, kunokwenzeka ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ayilazi ixabiso lezinto. Kungenxa yokuba akalazi ixabiso lemali kuba uyayifumana into ayifunayo, kwaye uzithathela lula izinto. Ke ngoko, ukwenza ukuba abantwana baxabise izinto, kufuneka ubenze bakuqonde oku.
Ngokucacileyo, abantwana abazi malunga nemali kuba ingenangqondo kubo. Nangona kunjalo, unokufunda ngokulula ngakumbi ukuba ixesha linexabiso. Ukubanika into abayifunayo ngokutshintshela umsebenzi olula, njengokukhetha iithoyi kwigumbi labo, kunokubanceda baqonde unxibelelwano. Olu nxibelelwano lunokuba sisiqalo esihle sokwenza abantwana bazixabise ngakumbi izinto.
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Amacebo abantwana okuxabisa izinto
Ukwenza abantwana baqonde ukuba yonke into inexabiso layo kunokuba nzima. Nangona kunjalo, kukho izicwangciso esinokuzisebenzisa ukuze baqale ukuyiqonda.
Hlawula ngekheshi nanini na kunokwenzeka
Namhlanje kuya kusiba nzima ukufumana umntu ophethe imali. Ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ihamba kunye nawe ukuya kuthenga, kulungile ukuba uyabona ukuba ufumana iimpahla ozifunayo dinero. Ukuhlawula ngekheshi kuya kukwenza unxulumanise "izinto" nemali, kuba ngaphandle kwayo ngekhe ikwazi ukuyifumana into oyifunayo.
Ukubona utshintsho lokwenyani ngumfanekiso ongenakuphazanyiswa. Oku kulahlekile ngentlawulo yamakhadi, kwintoni Kuncipha nokuncipha ukuqonda ukuba imali "yeyokwenene". Ukuba abantwana bakho bakubona unika abanye abantu imali ukuze bakwazi ukuthatha le nto ufuna ukuyithenga, iyakwenza ukuba ezi zinto zimbini zidibane. Bayakuqonda ngcono injongo yorhwebo kwaye baqale khathalela izinto zakho ngcono usazi ukuba iindleko ukuzifumana.
Bafundise ukonga ukuze baxabise izinto
Kuqhelekile ebantwaneni xa bengena evenkileni bafuna ukuthatha yonke into, njengaxa bebona ikhathalogu yeethoyi zeKrisimesi. Ukuba oku kuyenzeka, kuyacaca ukuba abazidibanisi izinto nexabiso elithile. Ke, Kungangumbono olungileyo ukubanika ibhanki yehagu. Ukuchaza ukuba yenzelwe ntoni kwaye iyintoni injongo yayo, baya kuqala ukucinga ngemali, nangokuthenga.
Nje ukuba banebhanki yeehagu banokubeka iinjongo zokufumana into abayifunayo, into yokudlala abayifunayo, umzekelo. Ngokwenza imisebenzi encinci kunye nokufumana umvuzo omncinci kuyo, baya kuqala ukuqonda ukuba kubiza malini fumana le nto uyifunayo. Ukusuka ngalo mzuzu, endaweni yokubuza, banokuqala ukonga ngalo lonke ixesha bafuna into eninzi kwaye abafuni ukulinda usuku lwabo lokuzalwa okanye iKrisimesi ukuyicela kwabanye.
Musa ukwakha i-bubble kubo
Akunakuphepheka ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho bakhulele kwindawo ekhuselekileyo kunye nolonwabo olukhulu. Kodwa ukuba ninengxaki yemali ekhaya, ayingombono mhle ukuba nibakhuphele ecaleni abantwana benu. Kulungile kwaye kufanelekile ukuba bayazi imeko yezemali yosapho. Kuhlala kubhetele ukuba sengqiqweni kunokumisela okanye ukukhulisa ulindelo olungelulo. Nika enye imfundo enoxanduva ngokwezoqoqosho kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana.
Ngale ndlela, Bazakuziva behlangene ngakumbi kwicandelo losapho, lusapho apho bencedana khona ukuze balondoloze imali, kunye nemali. Ukuba bayazi ukuba kukho iingxaki zemali, kulula kubo ukuba baqonde ukuba ayingombono ulungileyo ukucela izinto abangazidingi ngokwenene. Ukongeza, xa bebadala kwaye bekwiminyaka yokusebenza, baya kuba nephulo lokufumana umsebenzi kwaye ke bancede ekhaya.
Iholide zosapho zabantwana ukuxabisa izinto
Ukucwangcisa iholide kunzima, kwaye kuyabiza. Ukusetha uhlahlo lwabiwo-mali kunye nokufumana indawo efanelekileyo kunye nabantwana bakho kunokuba yinto yokuzonwabisa. Ngokufanelekileyo, ngohlahlo-lwabiwo mali bacinga ukuba usisityebi kwaye ungahamba ujikeleze umhlaba, kodwa xa uqala ukucinga ngeendleko zeehotele, ezothutho, ukutya, njl. kodwa ekulula kakhulu ukuyisebenzisa.
Yenza iminikelo okanye imisebenzi yokuzithandela
Eyona nto idla ngokuba nefuthe kwabancinci kukwazi ukuba ayingabo bonke abantu abaphila inyani efanayo. Ukujongana nenyani yabantu abahlelelekileyo ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo iya kubenza baxabise yonke into abanayo. Ukuthatha inxaxheba kumavolontiya osapho, okanye ukunikela ngemali okanye ukutya kwimibutho ekwisixeko esinye, kuyakwenza ukuba abantwana baqonde ukuba banethamsanqa lokufumana ubomi ababuphilayo kwaye baya kukhathalela okungcono izinto zabo.
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