¿Indlela yokwenza abantwana babeke phantsi ilweyile? Ngaba yinto elula? Ngaba ifuna inqanaba elide lokulungiselela? Kukho abazali abakholelwa ukuba umntwana kufuneka afundiswe ukubeka phantsi amanabukeni kodwa ngakumbi nangakumbi izifundo kunye noogqirha babantwana bathi kungcono ukulinda umntwana abonise ukukhula okufanelekileyo ukwenza njalo.
Oku akungenxa yokuba. Bamba ilweyile Ngenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo zomntwana ngamnye kwaye uthetha ngenkqubela phambili yokukhula kunye nokukhula. Kuyimpumelelo, ngandlela thile, ukuqikelela ukuba usana luyayeka ukuba ngumntwana ozimeleyo ngokuzimeleyo.
Ukuloba ii-diapers, ukufundisa okanye ukuvela kwezinto?
Kukho abo bajonga lo mbuzo malunga indlela yokwenza abantwana ukuba balahle i-diaper ayenzi ngqondo ingako kuba uqeqesho lwangasese aluyonto ngaphandle kwenkqubo yendaleko ebangela inkqubela phambili ekukhuleni kosana. Kwaye ngenxa yesi sizathu, akukho xesha apho umntwana afundiswa ukubeka phantsi amanabukeni. Ukuhamba nje ngabazali, abafumana ukukhula okubavumela ukuba bafumane inkululeko enkulu. Koku kongezwe uthotho lweempawu ezibonisa ukunceda ukulumkisa ukuba lixesha lokuvavanya.
Akunakwenzeka ukuba uthethe ngomzuzu othile okanye ngexesha elimiselweyo apho abantwana babeke phantsi amanabukeni. Sithetha kuphela ngomndilili, weminyaka yobudala apho kulindelwe le nqanaba. Nangona kunjalo, umntwana ngamnye uya kuxhomekeka ekukhuleni kwakhe ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo.
Okuphindaphindwayo zizalathi. Yiyo loo nto indima yabazali ibalulekile xa kufikwa ekufumaneni owona mzuzu xa umntwana elungile. Akukho mntu ubhetele kunabazali ukuvavanya utshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha kwabantwana abancinci.
Abantwana abangenawo amanabukeni
Ngexesha leenyanga ezikhokelela kulo mzuzu, indlela entle yokwenza uncede abantwana baphume kwii-diapers Kuqulathe ukuxelela abancinci ukuba le yinto eza kwenzeka kubo ngaxa lithile. Kule mihla, kunokwenzeka ukuyenza ngeencwadi zabantwana kunye nezixhobo zokudlala, uthathe ithuba lokuhlambela ukubakhumbuza ngokulandelelana kunye nokubaluleka kokucela ukuya kwindlu yangasese xa bethanda.
Olu lwazi longezwa ke kwinkqubela phambili yomntwana. Abancinci abakulungeleyo beka phantsi amanabukeni bahlala bevuka nge-diaper eyomileyo emva kokuchitha ubusuku bonke bengavukanga. Kwelinye icala, ngabantwana abanokuthi amanabukeni aqale ukubakhathaza. Banokude bazame ukuyisusa.
Kukho abantwana abangalithandiyo ixesha lokutshintsha ilweyile kwaye abanye abade bachame okanye bacole bacele ukuba kutshintshwe amanabukeni kuba kuyabakhathaza. Ukonyukelwa lolunye utshintsho olubonakalayo xa sele belungile.Iyona nto intle esinokuyenza ncedani abantwana bayikhuphe ilweyile kukuphendula kwezi mfuno kunye neemfuno. Ukuhamba nabo kutshintsho.
Shiya ilweyile ngaphandle kokucinezela
Ukufundisa umntwana ukuba ayilahle ilweyile Kuya kuba yinxalenye yenkqubo yendalo kunye noxinzelelo ngaphandle kwenkqubo. Kukulungele ukugcina iso ngaphandle kotshintsho lomkhwa kwaye uqalise ukuvavanya. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho akabi manzi ebusuku, ungamcacisela ukuba uza kuyisusa ilweyile. Ukumenza akhululeke ngakumbi kwaye umkhumbuze ukuba xa eziva ngathi uya kwigumbi lokuhlambela, kuya kufuneka akubuze kwangoko. Emva koko unokuzama ukunxiba iimpahla zangaphantsi kangangeveki ukuze ubone ukuba, iyakwazi ukukuxwayisa. Ukuba oku akwenzeki, ngekhe ulunge okwangoku.
Ukuba umntwana ukulungele ukuyeka amanabukeni, uya kukuqhela ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa ukuba awukakulungeli, kunzima kuwe ukuba ungamanzi kuba ungafezekisi ulawulo lweepesenti ezili-100. Kwimeko apho, ungachaza imeko kwakhona, ubaxelele ukuba uza kuyiphinda uyivavanye kamva.
Okwangoku, akukho ndlela zenzululwazi: zikhona abantwana abakhulula amanabukeni kwaye aziphindi zimanzi kwakhona. Abanye bazishiya emini kodwa bazifuna ebusuku okwethutyana. Okanye amaxesha ngamaxesha bamanzisa ibhedi kwakhona. Into ebalulekileyo kukwazi ukuba eli galelo kubomi bomntwana ngamnye liya kwenzeka xa umzuzu ulungile, nokuba kungaphambi okanye emva kwawo. Ukuhlonipha iinkqubo zabantwana kubalulekile ukufezekisa iziphumo zexesha elide.