Sonke siyazi ukuba kunceda njani ukudibana nendalo. Ngubani ongabuyiyo emtsha emva kwentsuku enye okanye ezininzi kude "nempucuko"? Nangona kunjalo, Imihla yethu isisa kude nangakumbi kude neendawo zendalo. Ubomi kwizixeko ezikhulu, izibophelelo kunye nophuhliso lweetekhnoloji ezintsha zisenza ukuba siqhawulwe kunxibelelwano. Abantwana, ababekhe badlala ngokukhwela emithini okanye benyathela amadama xa bebuya esikolweni, namhlanje bachitha iiyure phambi kwetafile okanye izikrini ezihambayo, bevinjwa isikhuthazo esibonelelwa ngumdlalo wangaphandle.
Ubudlelwane nendalo bulungele ukuba abantwana bethu bafumane kwaye bafumane ukuba umhlaba usebenza njani ngamava abo. Ngale ndlela, ukufunda ngokukuko nangokungqalileyo kuyathandwa. Ukongeza, yindlela yokuvelisa ukhuseleko, kuba ukunxibelelana nomhlaba, amanzi kunye nezilwanyana kubenza ukuba banganyangeki kwiintsholongwane. Abantwana abakhula benxibelelana nendalo abanalo uxinzelelo, banolwazi ngakumbi kwaye bahlonipha okusingqongileyo kwaye balunge ngakumbi emzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Nangona kunjalo, ndiyaqonda ukuba phakathi kwesaqhwithi semihla ngemihla kunye nokhuphiswano oluveliswe bubuchwephesha obutsha, kungabonakala kunzima ukuphinda uqhagamshele kwindalo. Ke namhlanje ndizisa ezinye izimvo zokuvusa ebantwaneni bakho uthando ngendalo.
Indlela yokwenza abantwana bazive benxibelelene nendalo?
Ukuthanda into kufuneka uqale uyazi. Ke, Ukuba sifuna abantwana bethu bafunde ukuyikhathalela, bayayihloniphe kwaye bayixabise indalo, eyona nto sinokuthi siyenze kukubavumela banxibelelane nayo. Eyona nto ingayiyo kukuhlala kwindawo yendalo okanye ubuncinci bokuyindwendwela rhoqo. Kodwa ayisithi sonke esinethamsanqa, ke kufuneka sijonge ezinye iindlela.
- Qala nge ziqhelanise nabantwana bakho nezinto zendalo ezingqongileyo. Zama ukuphuma kangangoko kunokwenzeka kwiipaki, kwiigadi okanye kwindawo ekufuphi yendalo. Bayeke babaleke, benze ilinge, kwaye babe mdaka. Ungazijonga iintaka, iintyatyambo, imithi, izinambuzane okanye nantoni na evusa umdla wakho.
- Bancede bazi izityalo neentyatyambo. Tyala iimbiza okanye igadi encinci ekhaya. Babonise iinxalenye zabo, indlela abazisebenzisa ngayo, inkathalo abayifunayo, namagama. Bavumele ukuba bafumanise ukuba bazalwa njani, bakhule njani kwaye bakhathalelwe yintoni ukuze baphile. Unokutyala imbewu okanye wenze igadi encinci ukujonga yonke inkqubo.
- Nanini na apho unako hamba uye emaphandleni, elwandle okanye ezintabeni. Unokuhamba uhambo ngeempelaveki, uye ekampini, ukhwele ibhayisekile okanye uye epikinikini. Ngokuqinisekileyo bobabini nabantu abadala baya kuyonwabela kakhulu.
- Unga Ndwendwela ifama okanye ugcino lwendalo. Ngethamsanqa zininzi iindawo ezibekelwe ukuvumela abantwana ukuba babukele kwaye bathathe inxaxheba kwimisebenzi efana nokusenga inkomo, ukukhwela ihashe okanye ukubamba amaqanda asandula ukubekwa.
- Bancede yazi utshintsho lwamaxesha onyaka. Unokubhiyozela ukufika kwee-solstices kunye neequinox ngesiko olileleyo, ukwenza udonga, ukuqokelela izinto zendalo ukuhombisa okanye ukupheka isidlo sonyaka.
- Babonise i ukubaluleka kokugcina ilifa lethu lendalo. Umonakalo wongcoliseko, ukubaluleka kokurisayikilisha kunye nokunika izinto ubomi obusebenzayo besibini, indlela yokugcina imeko, njl.
- Bayeke abantwana bakho dlala ngamanzi, udaka, ukhwele emithini, manzi emvula okanye utsibe kumadama. Sukuba nexhala ngeempahla, umntwana omdaka ngumntwana okonwabeleyo.
- Ukulingana amathuba okusondela kwilizwe lezilwanyana. Izinja, iikati, iintaka, izinambuzane, iminenke, njl. Ukuba bayazazi iimfuno zabo neendlela zabo zobomi zokufunda ukubathanda nokubahlonipha.
- Babonise imizekelo kutshintsho lwendalo njengokutshintsha kwemozulu, ingqele, imvula, imbalela, njl.
- Sebenzisa naliphi na ithuba ukuze qhagamshela nendalo. Ubusuku obuneenkwenkwezi okanye inyanga epheleleyo, uhambo elunxwemeni luqokelela oonokrwece, ilizwe lihamba lijonga izityalo nezilwanyana.
- Unako kwakhona ukuya kwimisitho ebandakanya ulondolozo lwendalo. Ngokuqinisekileyo kufutshane nawe amahlathi, ulwandle okanye ukucoca imilambo, njl.
Ndiyathemba ukuba ezi zimvo zincinci zikunceda ukuba uhlwayele, ebantwaneni, imbewu yothando lwendalo. Kodwa ungakulibali oko ungowona mzekelo mhle kubo, Ulinde ntoni ke? Libala iselfowuni okanye ithebhulethi yakho kwaye uphume uyokonwabela indalo nabantwana bakho. Ndiyakuqinisekisa ukuba, nokuba akukho wifi, ngekhe ukwazi ukufumana uqhagamshelo olungcono.