Njengokuba abantwana bekhula, iikhosi ziya zisiba nzima kwaye ezinye zazo ziyekiswa kwizifundo. Yinkxalabo eqhelekileyo kubazali, abafuna ukuba abantwana babo bafumane amabakala amahle kwaye babe ngabafundi abalungileyo, kwaye oku akusoloko kusenzeka. Namhlanje sifuna ukuthetha ngale nto, malunga indlela yokwenza isifundo somntwana. Ungamkhuthaza njani ngakumbi kwizifundo zakhe kwaye zeziphi izinto ekubhetele ukuziphepha.
Kutheni abantwana bengafuni ukufunda?
Ngokukodwa ukusuka kunyaka we-2 we-ESO, siqala ukubona ukwehla okukhulu kwinqanaba lokufunda kunye nokuqwalaselwa. Inokubangelwa zizinto ezininzi. Sikholisa ukumsola umntwana kodwa ayizizo zonke izinto anokuzilawula. Kubalulekile ukuba wazi ukuba siyintoni na isizathu sokufumana isisombululo kunye nokukunceda.
Phakathi kwezizathu ezinokukhokelela ekubeni umntwana angafundi kukuba:
- Ukuxhaphaza okanye ukuxhaphaza. Abantwana abaxhatshazwayo badla ngokuchaphazela ukufunda, ukugxila kunye neziphumo zesikolo. Izisongelo eziqhubekayo zithatha umthwalo kumntwana ongaboniyo esikolweni njengendawo ekhuselekileyo yokufunda. Ungaphoswa linqaku "Ungabafundisa njani abantwana ukujongana nokuxhatshazwa".
- Iingxaki zosapho. Abantwana bafumanisa ngento yonke, kwaye ukuba kukho ukungonwabi ekhaya kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ichaphazele indlela abaqhuba ngayo esikolweni. Ukuba kukho iingxabano ekhaya, isimilo esibi, ukungxola okanye ukuthula, abantwana baya kuqaphela. Hlaziya ukuba ngaba oku kungunobangela.
- Ukunqongophala kwenkuthazo. Umntwana wakho unokungakhuthazeki, angakuqondi ukubaluleka kokufunda, okanye angaboni nasiphi na isikhuthazo sokufunda. Isohlwayo someleza kuphela umbono wokuba ukufunda kuyadika kwaye uyenza kuphela xa usoyikiswa. Siza kubona eminye imizekelo kamva ukukunceda ngenkuthazo.
- Ukusilela kokuqonda izifundo. Ukuba abaziqondi ezinye izifundo, banokuba sele beyekile kwaye bangazikhathazi ngokuzama. Okwangoku banokufuna ukomeleza kwezi zifundo kwaye bazive bexhaswa ngabazali babo.
Indlela yokwenza isifundo somntwana
Emva kokuqonda ukuba yintoni unobangela okhokelela ekubeni umntwana angafundi kwaye athathe inyathelo, sinokukunceda ekhaya neengcebiso zokumkhuthaza ukuba afunde ngakumbi.
- Misela inkqubo yokufunda. Abantwana bafuna iinkqubo, kwaye esifundweni ayinakuba naphantsi. Cwangcisa ishedyuli ekhaya apho ndifunda khona ixesha elifanayo veki nganye. Ngale ndlela uya kungena kumkhwa kwaye akuyi kuba neendleko ezinkulu ukuqala ukufunda.
- Lungisa indawo efanelekileyo oza kufundela kuyo. Indawo enesibane esilungileyo, apho kungekho ziphazamiso okanye iziphazamiso, ezinobushushu obuhle kwaye inayo yonke into oyifunayo. Indawo efanelekileyo yokufunda.
- Thatha inxaxheba kwizifundo zakho. Ukuba ngeveki akunakwenzeka ukuba usebenze, ungathatha ithuba lempelaveki ukuphonononga umsebenzi wakho wasekhaya, amanqaku, uphonononge isifundo, ubone ukuba baneemviwo kungekudala ... Ayikokwenza umsebenzi wabo okanye umsebenzi wesikolo owenzelwa ekhaya, , ubaxhase kwaye ubakhuthaze kwinto ebaluleke njengezifundo zakho.
- Fumanisa umdla wabo kunye nezakhono. Sonke sinento esilunge kakhulu kuyo kwaye isikhuthaza ngokwendalo. Zama ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni na ubuchule bomntwana wakho kwaye uyisebenzele kwaye uyisebenzise njengesikhuthazi esingaphakathi.
- Nika izicwangciso zokufunda. Kuxhomekeke emntwaneni nakwizifundo, singamnika izicwangciso zokuphucula ukufunda, ukuhlela ixesha lakhe, ukusebenza ngakumbi, ukulisebenzisa kakuhle ixesha ... Unokumfundisa ukwenza isishwankathelo, ukrwelele iindawo ezibalulekileyo kwaye enze imizobo ukufunda.
- Qiniseka ngokuqinisekileyo. Ixabiso kwaye yamkele konke akwenzayo kakuhle ngamazwi nangezimbo zomzimba. "Wenze kakuhle kakhulu", "yile ndlela yenziwa ngayo", "uphucula kakhulu". Ukwamkelwa kuphucula ukukhulelwa kwethu kunye nobuchule bethu, kwaye kusikhuthaze ukuba sifune ukwenza ngcono.
Kuba khumbula… amabakala awahlali eyimbonakalo yomzamo. Kwakhona xabisa umzamo owenziwa ngumntwana wakho nokuba awubonakali kumabanga.