Ukwenza abantwana bazame ukutya okutsha kunokuba yenye yemiceli mngeni yabantwana enzima. Xa besebancinci kakhulu, bayathandabuza ukuzama izinto ezahlukeneyo, kuba yonke into engaphandle kwento abayaziyo, iba yinto engaqhelekanga kwaye ingathandeki. Ayifanelanga nokuba kukutya okubangela ukwaliwa, njengemifuno okanye iintlanzi.
Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukuzama into, nokuba ingabonakala intle kangakanani, ngekhe kubekho ndlela yokuba ayithathe. Ngesi sizathu, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubandakanya imikhwa yokutya ukususela kumncinci kakhulu. Kuba umntwana oqhele ukutya yonke into uxolo olukhulu kwengqondo. Kodwa kuba le yinto engasoloko isenzeka, masibone amanye amaqhinga okwenza ukuba abantwana bazame ukutya okutsha.
Abantwana bam bayala ukuzama ukutya okutsha, ndenza ntoni?
Okokuqala kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu kukubeka ecaleni uxinzelelo kunye nokuxinana, kuba ukubonisa ezo mvakalelo kuya kubangela ukuba abantwana bazive bengathembi. Ukuba uzama ukwenza ukuba umntwana wakho athathe into eyahlukileyo, kodwa uyenze ngokuzithemba okuncinci, Ukunyanzela, nkqu nokukhohlisa, umntwana wakho uya kubona into eyahlukileyo kwaye ngethuku ngokwala uyala ukungqina oko. Ngokuchasene noko, ukumfundisa ukutya ngendlela yayo yendalo, ukumvumela ukuba adlale ngayo, ayisebenzise kwaye ayizame, kunokubangela ukuba abe nomdla okhokelela ekubeni azame.
Fihla kwaye ufune ngokuqhelekileyo kusetyenziswa yenza abantwana batye, ukutya kufihliwe ukufihla incasa, ukutshintsha kuguqulwe ngokupheleleyo ukuze kungabonakali kakuhle kwaye kusengqiqweni, umntwana akayazi into ayityayo. Ke ngoko, kubaluleke kakhulu ukubandakanya utshintsho oluthile, ukuze Kancinci kancinci bayaqhela okunye ukutya kwaye kuye kufike ixesha apho bakhuthazwa ukuba bazame ezinye izinto.
Enye yezona ndlela zibalaseleyo nezisebenzayo kukubandakanya abantwana kwinkqubo yokuthenga nokulungiselela ukutya. Thatha umntwana wakho uye naye kwivenkile yasekuhlaleni, apho anokubona khona izitokhwe ngokutya kwayo okwahlukileyo, amavumba kunye nemibala. Chitha ixesha elithile uzula-zula ezivenkileni, ufundise umntwana wakho kangangoko unako malunga namaqela okutya, kwaye umyeke akhethe izinto ezimbalwa afuna ukuzithenga zona.
Fundisa abantwana bakho ukupheka, baya kufunda ukuzama ukutya okutsha
Ngelixa ulungisa ukutya ujongene nokutya okuninzi kunye nesilingo sokukutya ngelixa ubuguqula besenza isidlo esimnandi. Vumela abantwana bakho bathathe inxaxheba kule nkqubo yobugqi apho iseti yokutya okwahlukeneyo, okufana nemifuno, imifuno, iisiriyeli, iziqholo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zeemveliso, baba sisitya oya kuthi kamva usabe kunye nosapho.
Awunakho ukwenza ukuba umntwana wakho azame ukutya okutsha kwitrayi yokuqala, kodwa uyakube udala into ebaluleke kakhulu. Ulwazi lokutya, oluya kukhokelela ekubeni umntwana wakho aqhelane nokutya, afunde iziseko zokupheka kunye ngaxesha lithile uya kuzama ukuzama ukutya okutsha ngokwakhe.
Yiba nomonde, rhoqo kunye nomzekelo obalaseleyo ebantwaneni bakho
Musa ukunyanzela abantwana ukuba batye, unokudala ingxaki enkulu ekondleni komntwana onokuthi uguquke ube ngumonzakalo wexesha elide. Endaweni yoko, jonga ubuchule xa upheka, jonga iindlela ezintsha zokuhambisa ukutya ngeendlela zendalo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba umntwana afunde ukubona ukutya ngohlobo lwendalo kwaye uyitye ngaphandle kwayo, ngaphandle kokutya kuxutywe.
Kwangokunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ube ngumzekelo obalaseleyo ebantwaneni bakho. Qinisekisa ukuba yonke imihla bayakubona utya izinto ezahlukeneyo, zonke iintlobo zokutya kunye neempawu ezahlukeneyo. Ukuqala okuhle kunokuba zizinto ongazithandiyo, kuba Qiniseka ukuba abantwana bakho bakuvile uthetha ngezinto ongafuni kuzitya. Babonise ukuba akukho nto iphosakeleyo nokuba bangayithandi kwaye akufuneki batye ngaphandle kwesibophelelo.
Kwaye ngokusekwe koku, Wena ngokwakho kufuneka uqaphele ukuba konke ukutya akufuneki kukuthande kwaye abantwana banelungelo lokuzenzela ukhetho lwabo. Banike ukhetho oluninzi, ngokuqinisekileyo phakathi kwabo bonke baya kufumana ukutya abakuthandayo kwaye ke bakwazi ukuphucula ukutya kwabo.