Ngamanye amaxesha sidibana nemeko ye- unikezele ngebhotile kwiintsana zethu kuba iimeko bayayifuna. Siyazi ukuba ukuncancisa ngowona mthombo ungcono esinokubonelela ngawo ngomntwana, kodwa xa singasakwazi ukubhenela ekuncanciseni, kufuneka sibuyisele ukutya kwabo ukuthatha ibhotile. Kukho iintsana ezisalayo esi senzo kwaye abazali abazi indlela yokwenza umntwana wakho afune ibhotile.
Kukho rhoqo amaqhinga kunye neengcebiso ukuba sibe negalelo kolu hlengahlengiso. Ukusombulula le meko akufuneki silibale ukuba uthando nomonde zikhona, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo ukwaliwa kuninzi, ukuba uxinzelelo olukhulu lunokudalwa phakathi kokubini. Ukuba injongo yakho kukulungelelanisa ukondla kwibhotile, cazulula iinkcukacha esikunika zona apha ngezantsi.
Zama iinkcukacha ezincinci ezibalulekileyo
Phambi kokuba uqale wenze iinkcukacha ukuze Umntwana uzolile kwaye uyaphendula. Imeko-bume kufuneka izolile kwaye jonga ukuma okuhle nokuchanekileyo bobabini. Eyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuma yile ibisele yamkelwe xa umntwana ebeleka kwaye apho umama angenakubandezeleka ngumqolo.
Ubushushu bebhotile kufuneka bulunge nokumila kwengono yebhotile kakhulu ifana nengono. Yenza ukuba umntwana wakho adlale, yichukumise kwaye ufumanise ukuba injani, njengoko kuya kufuneka aqhelane nemilo yayo. Ukuqala ukuyinika kufuneka zama ngamaxesha ahlukeneyo emini, xa umntwana elambile kwaye esamkela.
Ukuba umntwana uncamathele kakhulu kubele lukanina, unokuhlala uzama umntu osapho oza kukunika ibhotile, ubuncinci ade aguquke. Kungcono ukuyilawula xa umntwana elambile kwaye xa ilixesha lokutya, ngokubeka amathontsi obisi ambalwa emlonyeni ukuze aqale ukulibona emva koko afake ngobunono ingono.
Amaqhinga okwenza umntwana wam afune ibhotile
Siyazi ukuba kukho abantwana ngaphandle kwengxaki kwibhotile, kuba ngokubanzi bayithatha njengento elula ukuyincanca kwaye basigcwalisa isisu esincinci ngokukhawuleza. Kodwa sele siyazi ukuba uncamathiselo lwabanye abantwana koonina, ubisi lungcono kwaye bayazi ukuba umama uhlala enento engcono.
Ungancancisa njengoko uqhele ukwenza nasemva kokondla yazisa ngebhotile ukuze iqheleke kwaye olo tshintsho alukhange lubonakale ngathi luphazamisekile. Ukuzola kufuneka kugcinwe, sukuzama ukumnika ngenkaniUkuba umntwana uyakhala, yehlise umoya ulinde imizuzwana embalwa. Kuya kufuneka uyinike uzolile kwaye xa umntwana engakhathazeki kakhulu kukutya. Ewe, ngokungafaniyo nabantu abadala, abantwana banokukhathazeka ngakumbi ngokutya kwaye bakwenqabele xa kwahlukile.
Ukuba kukho ukwaliwa, singacinga ukuba yingxaki yokutshintsha ubisi okanye ukumila kwengono yebhotile. Xa ulahla ubisi ungaqhubeka ukuhambisa ubisi lwebele ke awuluboni olo tshintsho. Ukuba ayinakuba njalo, kuya kufuneka uzame ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zobisi Oko kukwimakethi kwaye ndinokuvuma.
Xa ukwaliwa kuqhubeka kunokuba ngenxa ingxaki ngokumila kwengono. Kule meko, kuya kufuneka usebenzise enye enesimo esifanayo kunye nezinto eziphathekayo njenge-pacifier yakho. Ukuba awusebenzisi i-pacifier, kuya kufuneka ibe kunye imilo efanayo kunye nokufana nengono kanina, Kule meko, kuyakufuneka uzame iingono ezifanayo kunye nokuhamba kobisi okwahlukileyo. Ungazami ukumnika ubisi oluninzi, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo awuzukuyisebenzisa yonke imali oyibolekileyo. Ukwenza oku, zama ukugcwalisa iibhotile ngemali encinci ukuze ungachithi kakhulu kwisondlo ngasinye.
Ukuba ukwaliwa kuhlala lomelele, zikho ezinye iindlela zokulawula ubisi kunebhotile. Kukho abazali abaye bazama ukusetyenziswa kwesirinji. Nangona kubonakala ngathi kuhamba kancinci kwaye kunzima ukulawula, kukho abantwana abaye bakuvuma oko. Abanye abazali bakhethile ukusetyenziswa kweglasi, okanye iglasi enesiciko nesipeki esihle, okanye nkqu ngeendiza. Olu khetho lufakelwe kwiintsana eziphucukileyo, apho belusebenza khona. Nangona kunjalo, yiba nomonde, kubandakanya uthando oluninzi kolu tshintsho lotshintsho.