Umenza njani umntwana wam ukuba athethe

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Njengokuba umntwana ekhula, mabini amanqanaba okukhula ekufuneka ujonge kuwo: ukuqala ukuhamba nokuthetha. Kodwa ayingabo bonke abantwana abaqala ukuthetha kwangoko kwaye oku kunokubaxhalabisa abazali, ngakumbi ukuba ngamaxesha okuqala. Ukwenza ukuba umntwana wakho athethe yinkqubo efuna umonde kunye nokuzingisa. Ukusukela kunyaka wokuqala, bahlala bethetha amagama amabini, okanye amanye ambalwa, bahlala beba ngumama notata. Ukukhomba kwizinto nokwenza izandi kuba yinto eqhelekileyo.

Kuphakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 neminyaka emibini xa inkqubela phambili enkulu kulwimi isenzeka, xa umntwana eqala ukucacisa izivakalisi zamagama ambalwa, kwaye enereferensi ebanzi kwisigama sakhe. Ukusukela ngoko ukuya phambili, izakhono zolwimi zabantwana ziqala ukuphucula. Nangona izakuqhubeka nokukhupha izandi ezibonakala ngathi ziincoko kodwa zingaqondakali. Oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-jargon. Ukucaca kwentetho kufuneka kuqhubeke de kugqitywe phakathi kweminyaka emi-3 ukuya kwemi-5. Sele bekwisikolo abantwana bahlala besele bekwazi ukuzithetha kunye nokugcina incoko ilula.

Uyenza njani into yokuba umntwana wam omncinci athethe

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Yenza amathuba okuthetha

Zininzi iindlela zokwenza khuthaza umntwana wakho ukuba athethe, kwaye uninzi luvela xa umntwana wakho efuna into. Umzekelo, ubeka into yokudlala ayithandayo ngaphandle kokufikelela kuyo, ke xa eyifuna, uya kuzama ukuziqonda. Xa esalatha indawo apho into yakhe yokudlala ikhoyo, ungambuza ukuba uyayifuna na le nto yokudlala, umzekelo: "Ngaba uyayifuna iloli eluhlaza?", Kwaye xa uyinika, phinda igama, njenge: "Thatha oluhlaza ilori. " Oku kuya kubanceda baqonde ukuba basebenzise njani unxibelelwano kunye nezakhono zokuthetha ukucela uncedo.

Oku kunokwenziwa ngezinto zakhe, kodwa nangokutya, ukumvumela ukuba a-odle ukutya kwakhe, umzekelo. Endaweni yokuba ubanike ngexesha, ungadlala abazali "abalibalayo", umdlalo onika iziphumo ezilungileyo. Inokuzenza ngathi uzilibale izinto ezicacileyo obusoloko uzenza, ngolu hlobo, Ukongeza ekonwabiseni umntwana wakho, uya kumkhuthaza ukuba akuxelele indlela yokwenza izinto ngokufanelekileyo. Soloko usebenzisa imibuzo yokuqinisekisa, enje ngala "Ndizilibele izihlangu zam?" Ngale ndlela, ukongeza ekumvuseleleni, uya kwandisa isigama sakhe ngenxa yokuphindaphinda.

Yandisa izakhono zakho zolwimi ukuze umntwana wam akwazi ukuthetha

Xa uzama ukwandisa izakhono zakho zolwimi, kuya kufuneka ujonge ukufikelela kwinqanaba elilandelayo. Ukuzama ukumhambisa ngokukhawuleza kunokuba nzima kuye. Abantwana abancinci bayathetha okanye banxibelelana namagama ambalwa, ke injongo yakho kukwandisa isigama ukuze sibe nezixhobo ezininzi zolwimi. Gxila kwizinto ozithandayo, nokuba zizilwanyana, iimoto, imibala ... Ukuba awunamdla kwisifundo uya kukruquka.

Okwangoku xa uthetha igama, yandisa uluhlu lwamagama kunye neenkcazo. Umzekelo, ukuba umntwana wakho uthi imoto, ungongeza izichazi ezifana "nemoto entle ebomvu", okanye "inja ilungile". Esi sisicwangciso onokuwusebenzisa kumagama akho okuqala, nokuba awudibanisi iikhonsepthi kwisivakalisi okwangoku. Eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukusebenzisa amagama alula onokuwaphindaphinda.. Kukwabalulekile ukuphelisa ukungakhathali. Oko kukuthi, ukuba ubiza igama elingalunganga, liphinde kakuhle kodwa ungamxelelanga ukuba ulithethile kakubi. Ungalibali ukuba usafunda kwaye ubaxelele ukuba bathe into engeyiyo inokuba lilize.

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Uqala nini ukukhathazeka?

Abantwana abakuqondayo oko kuthethwayo kodwa banesigama esichazayo phakathi kweenyanga ezili-18 ukuya kwezingama-35 bathathwa njengabathetha kade. Isigama esicacisayo somntwana sisekwe kumagama awasebenzisayo, hayi ngendlela ababebabiza ngayo. Oku kwahlukile ekuqondeni. Umntwana wakho usenokungakwazi ukubiza igama, kodwa unokuzenza aqondwe ngaphandle kokukhomba okanye ukwenza umqondiso.

Enye into emiselweyo yesithethi esisekupheleni yile ingaba kukho okanye akukho kulibaziseka kweminye imimandla yophuhliso njengokuhamba okanye ukudlala. Ukuba umntwana omncinci ukwabonisa ukulibaziseka kophuhliso kwezi ndawo, ugqirha wabantwana uya kujonga iimeko ezinje ngengxaki zokuva okanye Autism. Kwelinye icala, kuqhelekile ukuba umntwana aqale ukuthetha emva kwexesha kunesiqhelo, ke ukuba ugqirha wabantwana uthi umntwana wakho uphilile, akukho mfuneko yokuba wothuke. Umntwana ngamnye unamaxesha akhe kwaye kufuneka ahlonitshwe.


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