Lo mbuzo ubuzwa ngabazali abaninzi, ngakumbi xa imihla ebalulekileyo njengeHalloween isondela, ekubeni yonke into eyothusayo iqhelekile, nokuba ubusuku obunye kuphela. Ubusuku beHalloween bufanele ukuba lixesha lokuzonwabisa kubantwana nakubantu abadala, Oko kukuthi, nakubani na nokuba mdala kangakanani na... lixesha lokonwaba.
Kubantu abaninzi, xa iHalloween ifika, ithetha ukugqoka, ukuphuma kunye nabahlobo okanye intsapho, ukuqokelela i-candy, njl. Yintoni ekhoyo kuyo yonke le nto enokuba mbi? Abazali abaninzi bayazibuza ukuba uloyiko lunokuba mnandi ngokwenene okanye ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, lunokubangela iingxaki ezithile kubantwana babo.
Mininzi imibuzo enokubuzwa ngabantwana baze bacinge ukuba iHalloween ayimnandi kubo. Ifanele ukuba yiholide ukonwabela zonke izinto ezoyikisayo njengeziporho, iimuvi ezoyikisayo, amabali ezindlu ezixhaphakileyo, njl. Kodwa kubantwana abaninzi abancinci, abangekayazi indlela yokwahlula into eyinyani kwinto engeyiyo, banokuziva besoyika kwaye lo mbutho uphela uboyikisa ngakumbi kunokuba kuyimfuneko. Iingcamango zabantwana zidla ngokuyibaleka inyaniso, zibenza babe namaphupha amabi kangangeeveki. emva kokuchitha ubusuku beHalloween.
Ubunzulu boloyiko
Kukho abantwana abaninzi abathi, nangona bephila ubomi obonwabisayo, abakwazi ukumelana kakuhle nobunzulu bezinto ezimanyumnyezi ezibonakalayo ebudeni bezi holide ngenxa yokuba bangamakhwenkwe namantombazana aboyika kakhulu. Kukho namakhwenkwe namantombazana angayithethiyo kuba eneentloni ukuyivuma, kodwa inyaniso kukuba kamva babandezeleka ngemiphumo ngamaphupha amabi, umzekelo. Indlela abaziva ngayo isenokungakhululeki, basenokungakhululeki kwiimvakalelo zabo yaye bade baziphathe ngendlela ecaphukayo. Maxa wambi isimilo somntwana asilungele ukunandipha uloyiko.
Kodwa kufuneka wenze ntoni xa itheko le-Halloween lijikeleza kwaye uloyiko kunye noloyiko lukhona yonke indawo? Singabanceda njani abantwana bethu baphuhlise izixhobo eziyimfuneko ukuze sonwabele eli theko esilidalileyo thina bantu?
Umbono wabantwana
Ukuze olu loyiko lukhuseleke kubantwana, kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela amandla okucinga kwabantwana. Uxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba ukuba eminye imifanekiso inokuvelisa ngale mihla kufuneka iguqulwe ibe luvuyo kunye nolonwabo. Uyakwazi ukuhlengahlengisa ulwimi ngokuthathela ingqalelo iminyaka yabantwana bakho kunye nenqanaba labo lokukhula. Xa umntwana wakho eqhelana naloo magama etheko - ungathetha ngeentsuku ezidlulileyo malunga namagqwirha okanye ukhakhayi, Umntwana wakho uya kuqala ukuzikhumbula kwaye aziqhelanise ukuze angabi naloyiko xa kufika ixesha.
Ukucamngca okukhokelwayo ukuthomalalisa uloyiko kunye nokwenza kube mnandi
Ukuziva ukhuselekile: Ukucamngca okuKhokelwayo kuKhuseleko
Ukuba umntwana wakho uziva enovalo ngenxa yomfanekiso awubonileyo okanye ngenxa yokuba kukho into emoyikisayo, kubaluleke kakhulu ukusebenzela ukucamngca nokuphefumla ukuze abantwana bazive bekhuselekile yaye bekhuselekile ngamaxesha onke.
Ukumnceda ukuba azole xa kukho uloyiko lomzuzwana, unokumkhokela ekucamngceni ukuze afumane ukuzola noxolo kwakhona. Unokukhokela ukucamngca ngokulandela oku kulandelayo:
'Ayiyonyani le uyibonileyo, masiphefumle sizole kancinci. Phefumla umoya kwaye uwuvumele ungene ngempumlo yakho, qaphela indlela ofika ngayo esiswini sakho kwaye usempumlweni yakho kwakhona. Fumana esona singqi sokuphefumla oziva ukhululekile kuso kwaye uphefumlele ngaphandle kwaye ukhuphe kancinci kancinci.Enye…zimbini…ntathu… Ngoku, silumkele isifuba sakho nentliziyo yakho. Khawube nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wentliziyo yakho isembindini wesifuba sakho yaye njengoko uphefumla yaye ukhupha umoya, kukho intlantsi yokukhanya ngaphakathi. Yiba nomfanekiso-ngqondweni wale ndawo yokukhanya ikhula ngomphefumlo ngamnye ocothayo owuthathayo njengembewu ekhula ngethemba nothando, uthando oluninzi. Vumela uloyiko oziva luphele kwaye lonke uloyiko lwakho kunye namaxhala akho aqale ukunyamalala, ugcwalise intliziyo yakho nengqondo ngemibala eqaqambileyo, njengokungathi ngumnyama wolonwabo.
Qhubeka uphefumla kancinane njengoko ukukhanya kusasazeka ngobunono emzimbeni wakho, kukugcwalisa ngoxolo noxolo. Unalo lonke ixesha olidingayo ukuze ufumane ukuzola. Xa oko kukhanya kokhuseleko kuzalise umzimba wakho wonke, khawufane ucinge olo khuseleko lufikelela kwiimitha ezintathu ngaphaya kwesikhumba sakho. Njengoko ikhula, ukukhanya kunokutshintsha umbala ukujikeleza umzimba wakho wonke kunye nayo yonke into ekujikelezile.
Xa yandiswa ngokupheleleyo, khetha umbala owenza uzive ufudumele njengobhedu okanye igolide. AKUKHO nto imbi enokungena kulaa nqanaba lokukhanya kuba ukhuselwe liqamza lakho lokhuseleko. Yonke into ekukhathazayo iya kuphinda ibuyele kwaye uhlale ngaphandle, ibuyele ngendlela efike ngayo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha uziva usoyika, kukhuseleko lwakho lwangaphakathi kufuneka wazi ukuba kuya kubakho nabazali bakho, abantu abadala obathembileyo okanye abahlobo abaya kukunceda ugcine loo mmandla wokukhanya womelele kwaye womelele. Unokubatsalela umnxeba xa ucinga ukuba ungazikhathalela kodwa kufuneka ucele uncedo.
Ngalo lonke ixesha uziva usoyika, thatha nje imizuzu emibini ukwenza olu qheliselo lunye kwaye uphumle, qhagamshela nentliziyo yakho kwaye uvumele ukukhanya okukhuselayo kukukhusele. Ukuba wenza oku rhoqo ekuseni, rhoqo emva kwemini kunye nobusuku bonke ... olu loyiko olukuthuthumbisayo luya kuba yinkumbulo kuba luya kunyamalala, kwaye kuya kuba njalo namaxhala. Uya kuziva uzithembile ngakumbi kwaye ngokuziqhelanisa, kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi ukuba ezi ntlobo zezinto zibangele ukuba woyike okanye ukhathazeke. Uya kukwazi ukuba ukhuselekile.'