Ubaba Enye yezona zinto zimangalisayo kwaye zinamandla ebomini. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ngumama okanye utata akukho ngaphandle kobunzima, ngaphezulu, eyona nto iqhelekileyo yile ngokufika kwabantwana ubudlelwane besibini bunzima. Kwelinye icala, umama wakutshanje wenza utshintsho olubaluleke kakhulu wakuba umama efikile, abantwana baguqula, kodwa bangatshintshi, ubuntu bakho.
Unonophelo kunye nemfundo yabantwana iba yinto yokuqala kweli nqanaba litsha lobomi kwaye ngokungathandabuzekiyo ichaza utshintsho olubalulekileyo kubudlelwane. Nangona kunjalo, oku akufuneki ukuba kubi, kuyinyani oko esi sibini siyatshintsha kodwa ayinyanzelekanga ukuba ibe mandundu. Ngenxa yoku, kubalulekile ukuba uncike kwiqabane lakho ukuze unakekele umntwana wakho, ukuba luxanduva lwabo bobabini kwaye nikwazi ukugcina unxibelelwano kunye nokuhlonipha izimvo zomnye umntu.
Intsapho entsha inamandla
Ngaphambi kokuba abantwana bafike, amandla esi sibini abandakanya ukwabelana ngemisebenzi yasekhaya, inkcitho okanye ukugcina indawo ethile, phakathi kwabanye. Isibini ngaphandle kwabantwana sinokucwangcisa uhambo, ucwangcise amatheko okanye iminyhadala yoluntu ukusuka kolunye usuku ukuya kolandelayo, ngaphandle kwengxaki ezininzi. Kodwa xa abantwana befika, yonke ingqalelo nabo bonke iinkxalabo ziya kwilungu elitsha yosapho.
Usana lubeka isingqisho sobomi bobabini, ngoku nakuphi na ukumka ekhaya kufuneka kuququzelelwe kwangaphambili. Ukuhamba kwesibini kuya kuyeka ukubakho okanye kuya kuncitshiswa kwiziganeko ezizodwa, ukuba ungashiya usana lwakho elugcinweni ngumntu omthembileyo. Iishedyuli zomsebenzi, ixesha elongezelelekileyo, njl., Kuya kufuneka zilungiswe kuba ukhathalelo lomntwana wakho luthathe indawo yokuqala kuyo yonke enye into.
Ngaphandle kokulibala oko Uqoqosho lweentsapho nalo luza kutshintsha kakhulu, kuba ngokubanzi kubazali, inkathalo kunye neemfuno zabantwana zizo ezihamba phambili, ngaphezu kweemfuno, ukuhamba okanye umgangatho wokuphila owawunokuvunyelwa ngaphambili
Utshintsho kubudlelwane bomtshato
Enye yeemeko zobomi besibini esichaphazeleka kakhulu yile inento yokwenza nokusondelelana kwesi sibini. Kwelinye icala, kwiinyanga ezimbalwa kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba umama omtsha angabinayo inkanuko yesini efanayo. IHormonal, umzimba kunye notshintsho lweemvakalelo zimele utshintsho olubalulekileyo kwaye kubalulekile ukuba ulihloniphe ixesha elifunekayo lokufumana kwakhona kwaye Ndiziva ndikulungele ukuphinda ndenze imisebenzi yesondo.
Kwelinye icala, amaxesha okusondelelana ayancipha, anditsho ukuba ayanyamalala ixesha elithile. Ukudinwa kukhathalelo lomncinci, ukunqongophala kokuzithemba ngaloo maxesha osondeleyo, kunokubangela ukuba ubudlelwane bube mandundu ukuya kuthi ga kwinqanaba elithile.
Ungabuphucula njani ubudlelwane bakho emva kokuba ngumzali
Into ephambili kukuhlonipha amaxesha ngamanye. Oko kukuthi, umama udinga ixesha lakhe ukuphinda abuyele esiqhelweni, kuba akasokuze afane naphambi kokuba abe ngumama, oko akuthethi ukuba kubi kakhulu. Kodwa kwakhona kubalulekile ukuxabisa iimvakalelo ze esi sibini, ethande ukuthotywa imvelaphi kwaye kwizihlandlo ezininzi inokuziva ingaxatyiswanga okanye ingabalulekanga.
Kubalulekile ukuba ugcine unxibelelwano olunamanzi rhoqo, musa ukoyika okanye ukufihla iimvakalelo zakho kunye neemfuno. Ukugcina abantwana kukusebenzisana, ukuthatha uxanduva njengesibini kunokukunceda uqinise ubudlelwane bakho beemvakalelo.
Kunqande iimpikiswano ezingenasiseko, njengoko ukudinwa kunye neentsingiselo zentsapho entsha kunokubangela iingxoxo ezingenantsingiselo ngamaxesha onke. Ngamnye uya kuba nembono yakhe malunga nendlela ekufuneka yenziwe ngayo izinto, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba neembono ezahlukeneyo kwiimeko ezininzi, kodwa Ungalibali ukuba eyona nto niyifunayo nobabini yeyona ilungileyo emntwaneni wenu. Ke ngoko, endaweni yokuphikisana ngokwenza izinto ngendlela ocinga ngayo, zama ukufikelela kwisivumelwano neqabane lakho kwaye kunye ninokugcina ubudlelwane obunempilo, kunye nosapho olomeleleyo nolumanyeneyo.