Unonophelo olunomdla kunye namakhwenkwe

umntwana esoyika

Ngaba iimfuno zamakhwenkwe zikhathalelwe ngokwahlukileyo kunamantombazana? Kubonakala ngathi nanamhlanje kukho ezinye iingcinga ezenza kucace ukuba ngemfundo yabantwana kunyanzelekile ukuba babe 'nzima' ukuze bangabi ngabantwana abonakeleyo. Kubonakala ngathi abantwana 'abalileli' kwaye kufuneka bafundiswe ngokwendlela yokuphelelwa lixesha kunye nokucinga kwesiko. Kodwa le nto sele ingekho ndawo kwaye ikwayimpazamo enkulu.

Nabani na ocinga ukuba umntwana oyinkwenkwe kufuneka avunyelwe ukuba akhale ngenxa yokuba eyinkwenkwe okanye ukuba kufanelekile ukuba afundiswe uya kuba luloyiko olukhulu. Amakhwenkwe namantombazana ngokufanayo afuna impilo yomzimba neyengqondo ukuze bakhule kakuhle. Bafuna ukhathalelo olubuthathaka kwiintsana ngokufanayo, ukukhuliswa kokuncamathiselwa okunika ukhuseleko kunye nokukhuseleka ngokwasemzimbeni nangokweemvakalelo. Oku kuya kubanceda ukuba bazane bhetele, bazi abanye kwaye Unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo kunye nezakhono zolawulo kwixa elizayo, njengovelwano, ukuzithemba okanye ulawulo lweemvakalelo.

Abantwana abangamadoda

Kukho uphando : Abantwana Bethu Abesilisa: Uphuhliso lweNeurobiology kunye neNeuroendocrinology yaBantwana abasemngciphekweni, epapashwe ngu-Allan N. Schore ibonisa indlela abazali ekufuneka bekhathalele ngayo abantwana babo ngokulinganayo, kodwa kwanononophelo olukhethekileyo kufuneka lwenziwe namakhwenkwe kuba kubonakala ngathi kuluntu lwethu lwangoku baphathwa gadalala ngendlela 'eqhelekileyo'.

Ubunqunu bosapho

Ukuba sesichengeni kwabantwana

Amakhwenkwe akhula kancinci kancinci kunamantombazana, ngandlela zonke. Ukongeza, basesichengeni ngakumbi kwaye banokuchaphazeleka luxinzelelo lokukhulelwa. Endaweni yoko, Amantombazana aneendlela zokuzikhusela zangaphakathi kuxinzelelo kwaye banokwazi ukomelela ngakumbi kunamakhwenkwe. 

Abantwana bachanabeke ngakumbi kwiimvakalelo zoomama xa besesibelekweni, kuxinzelelo lwabazali, ekwahlukaneni nomama xa ezalwa, xa bengakhathalelwanga kakuhle ... iimvakalelo, ukuzeyisa, uvelwano okanye ubudlelwane nabanye.

Kwakhona, Abantwana abangamakhwenkwe bayakwazi ukubonisa amanqanaba amaninzi okudakumba kunamantombazana kwaye babonise iimpendulo ezinobundlongondlongo kwizinto ezingakhuthaziyo. Amakhwenkwe abonakala ngathi anyanzelekile kunamantombazana kwaye yiyo loo nto eneengxaki zokulawula imeko yabo yeemvakalelo, into eya kubenza bafune ulwalathiso kunye nenkxaso kubazali babo, ukuze baqonde iimvakalelo zabo kwaye bafune amanyathelo angcono kunye nezisombululo zolawulo lweemvakalelo.

Idatha yokufunda

Kubonakala ngathi abantwana ngabona basemngciphekweni wokuphazamiseka kwi-neuropsychiatric ezinokuthi zenzeke kumanqanaba okuqala ophuhliso, oko ke kuphucula i-autism, i-schizophrenia, i-ADHD okanye ukuphazamiseka kokuziphatha kwixa elizayo. Oku kuye kwanda amashumi ambalwa eminyaka ukuza kuthi ga namhlanje, kuthathelwa ingqalelo idatha apho abantwana babhaliswe kwizikolo zabantwana abancinci kwangoko ngenxa yomsebenzi okanye izizathu zobuqu zabazali babo, ukwahlulwa kumanani okuncamathisela kwabo kunye nokufumana uxinzelelo kwangethuba.

ukonwaba komntwana

Ukuvuthwa kwengqondo yomntwana ke ngoko kufuna umama njengomntu wokuncamathisela kunye nokumnceda azilawule ngokwasemphefumlweni, udinga uthando lwakho kwaye ngaphezulu kwayo yonke le nto, oku kuyimfuneko ekukhuleni okuhle kwengqondo kunye nokukhula ngempumelelo kwimpilo yoluntu kunye neemvakalelo.

Umahluko wobuchopho

Ayisiyonto intsha ukuba amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana bakhule ngokwahlukeneyo kwengqondo kwaye yiyo loo nto ezinye izinto zinokuqondwa kumanqanaba entlalontle kunye neemvakalelo kumakhwenkwe namantombazana. Masithi lo mahluko ucwangcisiwe ngokwemfuza, kodwa ukongeza, imeko-bume yezentlalo inefuthe ngqo kubo kuba abantu ngabantu abaguquguqukayo nokusingqongileyo. Ke ngokoKubalulekile ukuba ugcine engqondweni ukuba amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana bafuna isincamathelisi sokondla ukuze bakhule ngempumelelo, kodwa ukuba imfundo yabantwana ifuna ubuntununtunu obuthile ukuze bakwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo kwixesha elizayo kwaye ke babe nokukhula okuhle ngokwasentlalweni-ngokweemvakalelo.


Inkathalo kwinqanaba lokuqala lobomi

Amakhwenkwe (kunye namantombazana) bafuna abazali babo ukuba bakhele ekuncamathiseni ukukhulisa kunye noqeqesho olululo ukuze amakhwenkwe (kunye namantombazana) akwazi ukulawula iimvakalelo zabo kwaye aqonde nabanye. Kananjalo baya kuba nakho ukukhula ngokuzithemba, ngokwazi okukhulu ngezenzo, kunye nokuzithemba okuhle kunye nobuntu obukhule kakuhle. Kwelinye icala, ukuba abantwana bakhula bephathwa gadalala kunye noxinzelelo lokuncamathiselwa, abancinci baya kukholelwa ngoxinzelelo kunye neziphumo ezibi kwimpilo yabo yengqondo enokude ikhokelele kukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo.

Ukukhula kancinci kwengqondo yabantwana kuya kuba sesichengeni ngakumbi kuxinzelelo lwendalo kwaye kufuna imbuyekezo ebuthathaka ukulinganisa imisebenzi yentlalo kunye neemvakalelo. Bafuna uncamathiselo olukhuselekileyo ngexesha lokukhula kwengqondo, iminyaka emithathu yokuqala yobomi bomntwana izitshixo kuphuhliso lwentlalo-neemvakalelo. Kwangokunjalo, izicwangciso zolawulo lweemvakalelo kufuneka zimodareyithwe kwaye zifundiswe kubomi bonke.

Ukutyisa umntwana ngebhotile

Ukubaluleka kweemvakalelo

Abantwana bayakhala, kwaye kufuneka. Abantwana kufuneka baziqonde ezabo iimvakalelo ukuze baqonde ezabanye. Bamele babeke amagama kwinto abaziva ngayo kwaye abazali babo zezona zikhokelo zabo zokwenza njalo. Umntwana akufuneki ukuba aziphathe ngendlela enengcwangu ukuze afumane ulwamkelo olukhulu ekuhlaleni, abona bantu banoburhalarhume abona bahle.

Umntwana ufuna umgaqo weemvakalelo ukuze akhule kakuhle kwaye neemvakalelo zakhe zithathelwe ingqalelo okoko bafika kweli hlabathi. Ukukhuliswa kunye nemfundo yabantwana kufuneka ikhatshwe yimvakalelo eyongezelelweyo, ukuze bafunde uvelwano, ukuzithemba, kunye nokuzeyisa. kwaye ke, ukuzithemba okukhulu kunye nokukhuseleka kubo ngokwabo, oko ke kuphucula ukuzithemba okuhle kunye nolawulo lweemvakalelo. Abantwana kufuneka baqonde ukuba ukuba ndlongondlongo akuyona eyona ndlela ifanelekileyo yokunxibelelana ngokufanelekileyo.


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    Molo María José, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthetha ngesi sihloko, kuba ngelishwa, kwaye njengoko usitsho eposini, kusekho iinkolelo ezininzi eziphosakeleyo malunga nokukhuliswa kunye nemfundo yamakhwenkwe. Basaphathwa gadalala ngakumbi kunamantombazana, bazama ukungazivezi iimvakalelo zabo ... kwaye oko kukhokelela kukudideka okukhulu, kwaye kwimeko embi kukuphazamiseka ngokweemvakalelo. Ndinomfana nentombazana, kwaye ngoku eyokuqala ikwishumi elivisayo, ndiyayibona indlela uxinzelelo lwendalo olumbhuqa ngayo kwaye lwenze kube nzima kuye ukuba azifumane, ngethamsanqa ekhaya ufumana ukuqonda akudingayo.

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