Ukuba usuku lwakho lokuzalwa lwentombazana encinci lusondele, lixesha lokuqulatha uchulumanco oluveliswa lusuku kwaye uqalise ukucinga ngezimvo ukwenza olo suku lube lolona lukhethekileyo kuye wonke umntu. Ukukhetha umhlobiso wokuqala wokuzalwa wentombazana yinto ebalulekileyo kubazali. Khumbula ukuba Imihla yokuzalwa yokuqala ininzi kusapho kunomncinci, kuba ngenxa yeamnesia yobuntwana akayi kukhumbula nto kwixesha elizayo. Kodwa unokubona kwiifoto yonke into oyiququzelelayo ngembeko yakhe. Ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, yindlela entle yokuba abone lonke uthando onalo ngaye lubonakaliswa kwimifanekiso.
Uceba njani, uwukhethe njani umxholo kwaye wenze isigqibo sokuba ngubani oza kubakho kwesi siganeko sibalulekileyo? Yile nto siza kuzama ukuyiphendula kweli nqaku. Siza kunika iingcebiso ezithile ukuze ube nokuphefumlelwa xa ubhiyozela itheko lakho lokuqala lokuzalwa. Yeyona ndlela ilungileyo yokuba intombazana ibone kwixesha elizayo impembelelo enkulu ekufikeni kwayo ebomini bakho, kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo, ulonwabo olukhulu olukunika lona ukuba uyinxalenye yembali yakho.
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Iingcamango zokulungiselela umhlobiso wosuku lokuzalwa lokuqala lwentombazana
Lawula ixesha kunye nendawo
Xa abazali belungiselela ukubhiyozela unyaka wokuqala wentombi yabo yobomi, benza impazamo yokuthatha ixesha elide kakhulu. Akuthathelwa ngqalelo oko kwiintsana ezincinci kungcono ukugcina umbhiyozo umfutshane. Oku kunjalo, ngokuqhelekileyo, kuba iintsana zineendlela ezininzi kwaye zifuna ukuqinisekiswa, ukongeza kwinto yokuba kamva abayi kukhumbula nantoni na ngenxa amnesia olusana.
Iiyure ezimbalwa zanele ngokwaneleyo kwintombazana. Kwiiyure ezimbalwa unexesha elaneleyo lokudlala imidlalo, vula izipho kunye nokutya ikeyiki. Ukuze olu tshintsho lwesiqhelo lungothusi, kubalulekile ukuba ungalandeli ucwangciso olungqongqo kakhulu kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla. Ukuba uqhelana nezinto ezithile ngamaxesha akhethekileyo, itheko lakho lomhla wokuzalwa linokuqukunjelwa.
I-Tantrum inokuvela ukuba umeme abantu abaninzi kakhulu. Ukuba ubona abantu abaninzi kakhulu kwindawo yakho, nokuba ngaba baqhelana nabo, oko kunokwenza umntwana angakhululeki kwaye azicingele. Okufanayo kuyenzeka ukuba ubhiyozela itheko kude nekhaya, ukubona abantu abaninzi kunye kunokumenza umntwana azive engakhululekanga.
Ukuba kukho abantwana abakubudala obahlukeneyo phakathi kweendwendwe, cwangcisa imisebenzi emifutshane abanokuthi bonke abantwana bathathe inxaxheba kuyo, njengokupeyinta, imisebenzi yezandla, imidlalo yabantwana, njl. Ngale ndlela baya konwatyiswa kwaye uya kukuphepha ukucaphuka okunokwenzeka.
Ukufota nini?
Into eqhelekileyo kukuba abazali bafuna ukuba neefoto ezininzi zesikhumbuzo. Ezona zintle ziya kuba zezona uzikhuphayo phambi kokuba kuqale yonke ingxabano kuba intombazana iya kuzola kwaye yamkele ngakumbi ukufota. Ngale ndlela, akuyi kuba yimfuneko ukukhupha intombazana ngaphandle kwepati ukuze ithathe iifoto zayo, okanye ibeke yedwa phambi kwezinye iindwendwe.
Oku akuthethi ukuba awuthathi iifoto ngexesha lepati, ngokuchaseneyo. Ngexesha lomcimbi kubalulekile ukungafi awona maxesha athandekayo. Njengaye xa ikhekhe ibonakala, kunye neendwendwe, ukudlala nabanye abantwana, njl. Ngaphambi kwetheko unokuthatha iifoto zentombazana yodwa kunye nentsapho yonke, oko kukuthi, abazali kunye nabantakwabo ukuba wayenayo. Ngombulelo kwiifoto, uya kuba nakho ukubona okwenzekayo ebomini bakho ngaphambi kwakho iinkumbulo zokuqala.
Khetha umxholo womhombiso wosuku lokuzalwa lokuqala lwentombazana
Ukukhetha umxholo ofanelekileyo wentombi yakho kunokuba ngumsebenzi owonwabisa kakhulu. Kuyacaca ukuba kulo nyaka sele ufumanise ukuba yintoni ayithandayo nangayithandiyo. Umhombiso womhla wokuzalwa wokuqala wentombazana usuka ekukhetheni umbala wakhe awuthandayo kwiimpawu ezithanda kakhuluezinje ngeeunicorns, isilwanyana osithandayo, amakhosazana eDisney, iikhathuni ezinefashoni osoloko ufuna ukuzibona, njl. Unokukhetha into ocinga ukuba ibalulekile, njenge iimpawu zabantwana ezihambisa ixabiso ukuba ufuna ukuphembelela umntwana wakho omncinci (uAnna noElsa baseFrozen, Mulan, Bella, Merida abavela kwiBrave, njl.)
Ukuba ufuna itheko elilula, nje ukukhetha umbala okanye i-motif yokuhlobisa yabantwana abahle uya kudala umoya okhethekileyo kumncinci wakho. Nangona kunjalo, ungakulibali ukuba kungakhathaliseki ukuba kulula kangakanani ukubhiyozela, ukulungiswa kwayo kuya kukunika umsebenzi omningi owongezelelweyo, ngoko unganqikazi ukucela uncedo kubahlobo, intsapho okanye iingcali ukuze yonke into iphelele ngomhla wokuzalwa.
Inonyaka omnye kuphela ubudala
Usuku oomama abalukhumbula kakhulu ludla ngokuba lusuku lokuzalwa kwabantwana babo, kwaye inkumbulo elandelayo mhlawumbi yimithambo-luvo kunye neemvakalelo zomhla wokuzalwa wokuqala. Ukulungiselela kuvakalelwa njengento ebalulekileyo kwaye ekhethekileyo, kwaye ngexesha lenkqubo kukho i-anecdotes ezininzi ongasoze uzilibale.
Nangona kunjalo, ungalibali ukuba eli theko lingaphezulu kuwe kunentombazana kuba iya kuba nguwe kunye nentsapho yentombazana encinci abaya kuwukhumbula kakhulu umbhiyozo. Ngoko ke into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuba ulungiselele umhlobiso womhla wokuzalwa wokuqala ukucinga ngomncinci, kodwa ukhumbule oko Abona baza kunandipha kakhulu ngabo badala.
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