Ukuba ucinga ukuba intombi yakho inokuba yinto engathandekiyo, ukuzifundisa ngale ngxaki kubalulekile. Kuqhelekile ukuba abantwana babonakalise isimilo esifanelekileyo nesingalunganga ekuhlaleni njengoko bekhula kwaye bekhula. Abanye abantwana bayaxoka, abanye bayavukela, abanye bayarhoxa, njl. Kodwa Abanye abantwana babonisa amanqanaba aphezulu okuziphatha okungafunekiyo ekuhlaleni. Banobutshaba kwaye abathobeli. Banokuba kwaye baphule izinto, kwaye banokuphatha gadalala ngokwasemzimbeni nangamazwi abanye abantu.
Olu hlobo lokuziphatha lunokuthetha ukuba intombi yakho ibonisa ukungaziphathi kakuhle. Oku kuziphatha kulawulwaKodwa kunokukhokelela kwiingxaki ezinkulu ngakumbi ebudaleni ukuba ayinyangwa ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba intombi yakho inomdla wokungaziphathi kakuhle, apha siza kubona izitshixo zokujongana nale ngxaki.
Iyintoni indlela yokuziphatha komntwana ngokuchasene nentlalo?
Ukuziphatha okungafaniyo noluntu kubonakaliswa yintombazana enesimo sengqondo sobukrakra nesidelelayo. Unobutshaba kumagunya kwaye unomdla wokuxoka. Ezi ngxaki zokuziphatha zihlala zivela ebuntwaneni nasebusheni. Ngokuchasene noko unokucinga, zixhaphakile kubantwana abancinci.
Esi sifo sinokubonwa njengento engaqhelekanga kunye nexhala, kodwa ngokwenene kuxhaphake kakhulu kunokuba sicinga. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukwazi ukuba yintoni ukuyichonga, kwaye inesisombululo kuba ngemfundo nonyango olu hlobo lokuziphatha lunokulungiswa.
Imiba yomngcipheko wokuziphatha okungafunekiyo ebantwaneni
Ukuchonga ukuba ngaba intombazana ayikwazi ukuhlala nabantu, Kuya kufuneka ujonge imeko-bume yakho nakubudlelwane bakho bangaphambili nobangoku. Ezinye izinto zinokuba:
- Imeko akuyo umntwana, esikolweni nakwindawo ahlala kuyo.
- Imfuza kunye nembali yosapho nayo inokuba sisigqibo
- Umzekelo ombi wabazali okanye abagcini bentombazana, okanye unike ingqalelo encinci kwintombazana
- Ikhaya elingazinzanga apho intombazana inokubona ukungaziphathi kakuhle, njengobundlobongela
Ezinye iingxaki njenge-hyperactivity kunye neengxaki zemithambo-luvo nazo zinokubangela ukungaziphathi kakuhle. Abantu abatsha abane ingqalelo yokungahambi kakuhle kwi-hyperactivity, okanye i-ADHD, basemngciphekweni omkhulu wokuziphatha okungafunekiyo ekuhlaleni.
Zithini iimpawu zokuziphatha okungafunekiyo ebantwaneni?
Ukuziphatha okungafaniyo noluntu ingaqala ukubonwa kubantwana abaneminyaka emi-3 okanye emi-4. Ukuba ibonakala isencinci kwaye ayinyangwa, inokukhokelela kwisifo esibi ngakumbi ukuqala kwiminyaka eyi-9. Ke, siza kubona iimpawu ezinokuvezwa yintombi yakho ukuze zichongwe:
- Ukwenzakalisa izilwanyana okanye abantu
- Thetha ubuxoki uyeba
- Ungavukela okanye wophule imigaqo
- Ukonakaliswa okanye ukonakaliswa kwepropathi
- Ulwaphulo-mthetho
Uphando ludibanise ukungaziphathi kakuhle komntwana kwinqanaba eliphezulu lokusetyenziswa gwenxa kotywala neziyobisi kwinqanaba lokufikisa. Le ndlela yokuzilimaza inokuba nefuthe kwimfuza, ngamatyala osapho, okanye ngempembelelo yabahlobo kunye nendawo ahlangana kuyo intombazana.
Iziphatha njani inkwenkwe okanye intombazana?
Iindlela ezinzulu zokuziphatha okungafunekiyo ekuhlaleni kunokukhokelela ekuziphatheni okungalunganga okanye ekuchongeni isifo sokuchasana nesichasayo. Abantwana abangahlali nabantu, ngenxa yeengxaki zabo ngabasemagunyeni, bathanda ukuyeka isikolo besebancinci. Ukongeza, xa kufikwa ekusebenzeni nasekubeni nobuhlobo okanye nangalo naluphi na olunye uhlobo, kunzima kakhulu kubo. Abahlanganiswanga eluntwini.
Sukuyiphatha le ngxaki ngexesha lobuntwana nasebusheni, kunokukhokelela kukungaziphathi kakuhle kubuntu obudala. Abantu abadala abahlala nale ngxaki bahlala bebonisa ukungaziphathi kakuhle kunye nezinye iimpawu zokuziphatha ngaphambi kokuba babe li-15. Ke ngoko, ayinakulindeleka ukuba ivele ngequbuliso ebudaleni.
El Ukuphazamiseka kubuntu Ingafunyanwa ngokuhoya imiqondiso ethile, enokuthi:
- Ukudunga i uvelwano nolwazelelelo ngabanye
- Ukudelela nokusetyenziswa gwenxa kwegunya kunye namalungelo abantu
- Ubundlongondlongo kunye nogonyamelo
- Ikratshi
- Bonisa isimo sengqondo esithandekayo ukuze usebenzise
- Abazisoli ngokunyanisekileyo
Iindlela zokunyanga ukungaziphathi kakuhle kwentombi yakho
Ukuthintela kwangoko kubalulekile. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ifunyenwe, kwangoko ungaqala ukuyilungisa. Ukunyanga ngokuziphatha kwengqondo yeyona nto ifanelekileyo yokuguqula esi sifo. Ukusombulula iingxaki kuqeqesho lwezakhono kubalulekile ekufundiseni ngovelwano.
Ukuba kunyanzelekile, umbono wonyango losapho unokuqwalaselwa. Ne unyango losapho, Abazali banokufunda indlela yokujongana ngokufanelekileyo neemeko ezingathandekiyo ezinokukhokelela kwisifo sentombi yabo. Umsebenzi olungelelanisiweyo weengqondo, usapho kunye nesikolo kubaluleke kakhulu.
Ubushushu nothando, uqeqesho olusengqiqweni, kunye nendlela egunyazisiweyo yokuba ngumzali zihlala zinemiphumo emihle. kwezi ntlobo zabantwana. Oku kunokunceda intombi yakho ibe nolwalamano oluhle kunye nokuphucula ukusebenza kwayo esikolweni.
Ukuba abantwana nolutsha banemvukelo kwaye banotyekelo oluthile lokungaziphathi kakuhle, kuyinto eqhelekileyo. Ke kubalulekile ukuba uthethe nentombi yakho uyazise ukuba indlela eziphatha ngayo iyakukhathaza, kuba kunokubakho imeko engaziwayo ebangela esi simo sengqondo. Ngendlela efanayo, unokuqhagamshelana nengcali yezempilo ukuba uyivavanye kwaye ke uphuhlise isicwangciso esisebenzayo sokunyanga isimilo sentombi yakho.