Ukuziva ulungelelene nesiqu sakho kuvelisa uvuyo, kwaye yile nto ikuvumela ukuba uncume, ulandele kwaye ubathande abanye.
Njengabantu, ukuxabisa nokuxabisa oko kukujikelezileyo okanye phambi kwamehlo kunokukhokelela ekwamkeleni ngokuzolileyo amaxesha ahlalayo kwaye uqonde ithamsanqa lelowo ungumnini. Ukonwabela oko okusondeleyo kuwe kunokuzisa ulonwabo kwaye, ekugqibeleni, wonwabe.
Inkululeko izisa uvuyo
Amaxesha amaninzi umntu uye azive eselibanjwa kwiimvakalelo ekunzima ukuzenza okanye anoxanduva lokuba nazo. Phila ubomi njengoko busiza, inyathelo ngenyathelo, ngaphandle koxinzelelo kunye nokungena Libertad, yeyona nto ivumela ukuhamba ngokwakho. Umntu uzalwe evale amehlo kwaye kufuneka ayisuse kwaye ajongane nothotho lwamanqanaba, ngaphezulu okanye kancinci ngokurhabaxa.
Dlula indlela ebambelele ngokungahambelani, ukubandezeleka kunye uxinzelelo imida yemihla ngemihla ukwenza ngendlela efunwayo kwaye uvelise impilo-ntle. Ukonwaba, ukuzama ukubona izinto ngendlela elungileyo nefanelekileyo, kunika ukukhula, kumenza umntu akhule ngokweemvakalelo kwaye anike ukhuseleko kungekuphela kwabo bahlala kulo, kodwa nakwabo basondeleyo kubo.
Uncumo luvuyisa uvuyo
Ukuba umntu uziva enyanzelekile ukuba onwabe, ancume, kuba ubonwa ngcono, uyakuphila njengebanjwa leemvakalelo ezingafaniyo nezasemzini. Ukuba uvuyo lufakelwe, lufakwa ngoncumo olunesiqingatha, Yonke into ithatha inkangeleko engaphantsi, engabalulekanga, engenabulungisa kwaye enamabala ahlwempuzekileyo.
Isimo asisoloko silungile. Kwaye akukho mfuneko yokuphendula ukuba umntu udidekile okanye unxunguphele. Ukonwaba ayisiyimbopheleleko, akukho sidingo sokuyinyanzela emva koko. Uvuyo luzalwa kuwe xa uziva. Ubuhle bezinto ezincinci bunokungavunyelwa ngamehlo kwaye nokuba abanye abayiboni le nkohliso kunokubangela ngaphezulu Yintlungu nangoku.
Into evuyisayo yongeza uvuyo
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ungakuxabisa njani okungabalulekanga, kuba yeyona nto inexabiso.
Umntu ngamnye unokukhetha ukuba uza kubonisa nini iimvakalelo zakhe okanye hayi. Kukho abantu abazisa ngakumbi kunabanye, abathi nangona bonwabile kwaye bekhululekile kwiimeko ezithile bakhetha ukubonisa ubuso obunzulu obonakala ngathi bulungele yonke into. Abanye abantu bayancuma rhoqo kwaye ilizwe labo langaphakathi liyakhala.
Abantu bahamba phakathi kwesizathu kunye nothando, phakathi kokulungileyo nokubi, iintlungu kunye uthando. Uvuyo lwenzeka ngamaxesha amaninzi. Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ungakuxabisa njani okungabalulekanga, kuba yeyona nto inexabiso. Ezona zandla zomzimba zilula zizisa ulonwabo emntwini kunesona sipho sibizayo. Ukwazi ngayo kukuvumela ukuba udibanise imvakalelo emnandi.
Ukugcwala kuvumela umntu ukuba anqwenele yonke into, ajongane nokuhlala okutsha, azive ekwazi ukulwa kunye nokufezekisa iinjongo ezicetywayo. Umntu owonwabileyo utshabalalisa ubomi kwaye wosulela loo meko. Yiba kunye umntu oncumileyo, ohambisa ukungcangcazela okuhle, unika uxolo namandla.
Isizathu sokuvuya
Yonke into kufuneka ivele ngaphakathi, vula ngaphandle kokoyika abanye abazokugweba, intuuing okanye ukwazi. Ngamaxesha amaninzi kuyothusa ukuba abanye bangonzakalisa ukuba bangena nzulu kwiimvakalelo zabo, ezo bekukholelwa ukuba zifihlwe kakuhle, ukuba bafumanisa ukuba yintoni ebangela ulonwabo ... Uvuyo luyanceda ekuhlaleniUkoyika ukuba baya kuza ebomini bakho kukuthintela ekudaleni amakhonkco.
Uvuyo ikuvumela ukuba ukonwabele umgangatho ophakamileyo wobomi, ukuba usuku nosuku luhlala ngamandla ngakumbi. Isizathu sovuyo lomntu ngamnye sahlukile kumntu ngamnye, inokuba sisalamane esisondeleyo nesisondeleyo, umntu oza kuzalwa, uhambo, uvavanyo oluvunyiweyo, ukoyiswa kukugula, umanyano, «umama«, Ukwanga ... Nangona kunjalo, konke oku kukhokelela ekuboneni ukuba umlinganiswa ophambili kwezi zenzo uyamkela ukuziva ulungile ngaye kwaye usemgangathweni olungeleleneyo ngokwengqondo.
Umsebenzi kukubona ukuphela kosuku konke okuhle okwenzekileyo, bhiyozela yonke into eyenzekayo kwaye uyinike indawo yayo, ngaphandle koloyiko, ngaphandle kokucinga ngekamva okanye ngento ezayo. Yonwabela wonke umzuzu, yamkela ubomi, thanda okwangoku kwaye uzithande. Isizathu sokonwaba komntu ngamnye kukwa isiqu sakho. Ukuziva uhambelana nesiqu sakho kukuvumela ukuba uncume, ulandele kwaye ubathande abanye.
Xa yonke into ibonakala imnyama, cinga, zinike ixesha kwaye wenze utshintsho ebomini inokuvela, ukuqonda ukuba yintoni enokuphela okanye ilahlekileyo. Iimeko ziyenzeka ukuba ngenxa yobukhali babo bangena emnyango kwizimo zengqondo ezithile kwaye bavumela yonke into ukuba ithathe olunye ulwalathiso, ekunene Sukuchitha ixesha ngenxa yoloyiko, unxunguphalo, unxunguphalo nomsindo…, Ngamanye amaxesha kwizinto ezidlulileyo ezingenasisombululo. Ukujonga okwangoku kububulumko kwaye kukhulile. Ukubulela ubomi ngokuphila ngumgaqo osisilumko.