Isohlwayo esihle: yintoni na kunye nemizekelo

Isohlwayo esifanelekileyo yindlela yokulungisa okanye yokuguqula indlela yokuziphatha. Injongo yayo ephambili kukunciphisa ukuphindaphinda kwexesha elizayo lokuziphatha ngokufaka isivuseleli esichasayo emva kokwenzeka kokuziphatha. Isohlwayo esilungileyo kwizengqondo yinto eyaziwa ngokuba "yisohlwayo" kubomi bemihla ngemihla. Isetyenziswa xa sifuna ukucinezela ukuziphatha okungafunwayo. Kubuzali, impendulo echasayo idla ngokubizwa ngokuba sisiphumo esibi.

Kukho iindlela ezimbini zokubeka imeko ezinokudala utshintsho lokuziphatha: isohlwayo ngokuchasene nokuqiniswa. Injongo yesohlwayo kukunciphisa amathuba okuba ukuziphatha okungafunwayo kuya kuphindwa. kwakhona. Endaweni yoko, ukomeleza kubandakanya ukwandisa ukuziphatha okufunayo.

Zimbini iindidi zezohlwayo: ezintle nezimbi

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Okuhle kwingqikelelo ye isohlwayo esilungileyo ayithethi ukuba ilungile. I-Positive kule meko ithetha ukulungisa into, oko kukuthi, umphumo. Ukuze kucuthwe indlela ethile yokuziphatha, isiphumo kufuneka sibe nesiphumo esingathandekiyo kumntu okanye kwisilwanyana esisetyenziswa kuso. Ngokomzekelo, xa umntwana omncinane ebamba isitovu esisebenzayo, uyatsha. Umphumo kukuba utshisiwe, kodwa ngale ndlela uye wafunda ukuba xa isitovu sivutha ungasichukumisi.

Kunoko, isohlwayo esibi sisusa inkuthazo ukwenza ukuziphatha okungafunwayo kungabi lula ukuphindwa. Kule meko, i-stimulus esusiweyo idla ngokumnandi okanye into umntu okanye isilwanyana esiyijonga njengexabiso. Ngoko isohlwayo esibi kwisohlwayo esibi sibhekisela ekususweni okanye ekuthinteleni isivuseleli.

Ngaba isohlwayo esifanelekileyo siyasebenza?

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Ukuqina kubalulekile ukuze izohlwayo ezilungileyo zibe ziindlela ezisebenzayo zokuthintela ukuziphatha okungafanelekanga. Ukuba inokusetyenziswa rhoqo, isohlwayo esifanelekileyo sisixhobo sokufunda esinempumelelo kakhulu oko kumisa i ukuziphatha okungafunwayo. Nangona kunjalo, ingxaki kukuba yonke into idla ngokubuyela kwimeko yangaphambili xa isohlwayo siphelile. Enye ingxaki kukuba ngelixa inqanda ukuziphatha okungafunwayo, ayifundisi enye indlela yokuziphatha efunekayo.

Ngokomzekelo, umntwana ucinezela umnqweno wokubetha abanye abantwana xa abazali bekhoKaloku akafuni ukohlwaywa. Kodwa xa abazali bengekho, umntwana usenokuba ndlongondlongo kuba engayazi indlela yokusingatha ukungaboni ngasonye nabanye. Abazali bakhe abamfundisanga indlela ethile yokuziphatha enokunceda kule meko.

Isohlwayo esifanelekileyo sinokusebenza xa silandela ngoko nangoko ihambo engasifuniyo. Isebenza ngcono xa isetyenziswa rhoqo. Ikwasebenza ngokubambisana nezinye iindlela, njengokuqiniswa okulungileyo, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana afunde iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha. 

isohlwayo esilungileyo kubuzali

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Isohlwayo siyafana nokuziphatha ngendlela yobuzali. Nangona kunjalo, ukukhwaza kunye nokubetha, okuqhelekileyo kwixesha elidlulileyo, kubonakaliswe ukukhokelela kumonakalo wexesha elide njengeengxaki zempilo yengqondo kubantwana. Namhlanje abazali abaninzi babhenela "kwixesha lokuphumla" elidumileyo okanye "ikona yokucinga".

"Ixesha lokuphuma" sisicwangciso esiphandwe kakuhle sokuguqulwa kokuziphatha esinconywa ziingcali zengqondo kunye noogqirha babantwana. Ingcamango kukuhambisa umntwana ukusuka kwindawo yokuqiniswa okuphezulu ukuya kwindawo ephantsi yokuqinisa.. Yinkqubo esebenzayo yokutshabalala ejolise ekuyekiseni indlela yokuziphatha eyomelezwe ngaphambili. Ngelishwa, abazali abaninzi abayazi indlela yokusebenzisa le ndlela kakuhle kwaye bayisebenzise ukohlwaya.


Ngokomzekelo, xa umntwana ecaphuka kuba engavunyelwa ukuba atye iilekese ngaphambi kokutya, unokusiwa ekoneni njengesohlwayo. Abazali badla ngokukhapha isohlwayo ngokungxolisa, ukugxeka, okanye ukuthotywa. Ngenxa yoko, eli xesha lokuphumla ngoku lineziphumo ebezingalindelekanga ezibi ezifana nezinye izohlwayo eziqatha.

Ezinye Izohlwayo Ezilungileyo Eziqhelekileyo

  • Ukuthethisa. Ukukhalinyelwa okanye ukufundiswa yinto abantwana abaninzi abangathanda ukuyiphepha.
  • Ukubetha okanye ukubamba izandla. Oku kunokwenzeka ngethuku ngeli xesha. Unokusibetha ngobunono isandla somntwana wakho ngaphambi kokuba sichukumise imbiza eshushu, okanye sitsale iinwele zomnye umntwana.
  • Ukubhala. Le ndlela idla ngokusetyenziswa ezikolweni. Umntwana unyanzelekile ukuba abhale isivakalisi esifanayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo, okanye abhale isincoko malunga nokuziphatha kwakhe.
  • Umsebenzi wasekhaya. Abazali abaninzi bongeza imisebenzi yasekhaya njengendlela yokohlwaya. Umzekelo, ukucoca into ebimdaka okanye ukwenza eminye imisebenzi yasekhaya.
  • Imigaqo. Kumntwana oziphatha kakubi rhoqo, yongeza imithetho yendlu eyongezelelweyo inokuba yinkuthazo yokutshintsha indlela yokuziphatha.

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