Kubantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala, ukuqala konyaka wesikolo kwahlukile okwahlukileyo kwabanye, ngakumbi kwabo bangakhange baye enkulisa. Kungekudala kuya kufuneka bajongane notshintsho olubalulekileyo kwimihla yabo yemihla ngemihla kwaye baya kufuna ixesha lokuba bazive bekhululekile kwimeko-bume yabo entsha.
Lithini ixesha lokuziqhelanisa?
Abantwana abaqala umjikelo wesibini weMfundo yaBantwana aBasaqalayo basebancinci kakhulu. Aba bantwana basuka ekubeni kwimeko yosapho apho baziva bekhuselekile, ukuya kuchitha iiyure ezininzi ngosuku nabantu abangabaziyo. Kusengqiqweni ukuba kufuneka balungelelanise ngokuthe ngcembe. Eli xesha apho olu tshintsho luthathwa kwaye lwesiqhelo lwaziwa njengexesha lokuziqhelanisa.
Ezinye izikolo ziqala i-P3 ngeshedyuli emfutshane ethi inyuke ngokuthe ngcembe. Usuku lokuqala iyure enye, yesibini yesibini njalo njalo. Ngale ndlela umntwana uhlengahlengisa kancinci kancinci kumagumbi ahlukeneyo kwaye uqhelana nootitshala bakhe kunye nabo afunda nabo.
Asingabo bonke abantwana abasabela ngendlela efanayo ngeli xesha lokuziqhelanisa. Abanye bonwabile okanye baphazamisekile, abanye bayakhala, abanye babonisa imeko yokulahlwa okanye yokuncamathiselwa. Kukwakho nabantwana abazolile ekuqaleni kodwa basabele kakubi xa besazi ngemeko leyo. Kwaye kukho abo bakhalela uvelwano xa abanye belila.
Ngamanye amaxesha abantwana baveza iimvakalelo zabo ngokuphulukana nendlala, ingxaki yokulala okanye indlela yokuziphatha eguqukayo (njengokuzimanzisa).
Ukuba umntwana wakho ungomnye wabo balila kakhulu, cinga ukuba impendulo yakhe iqhelekile kwaye ufuna inkxaso yakho kunakuqala. Kuphephe ukumthelekisa nabanye, ungamxeleli ukuba abantwana abadala abalileli kuba ayizukumnceda lonto.
Lide kangakanani ixesha lokuzihlengahlengisa?
Ubude bexesha lohlengahlengiso bohlukile kumntwana ngamnye. Abanye abantwana badinga kuphela iintsuku ezimbalwa kunye neeveki ezithile. Omabini la matyala aqhelekileyo. Kukho iimeko ezithile zosapho, ezinje ngokuzalwa komntakwenu, ezinokuthi zibe nefuthe kule nkqubo.
Kufuneka wenze ntoni ngaphambi kokuqala ikhosi ukulungiselela uhlengahlengiso?
Qiniseka kwaye ubonise ukuzithemba. Thetha ngobumnandi azakuba nabo, izinto azakufunda, angadlalayo, njl. Mbonise ukuba siphi isikolo kwaye ukuba kunokwenzeka, mazise kutitshala wakhe wexesha elizayo. Ungandwendwela ipatio, iklasi yayo kunye namagumbi ahlukeneyo. Yenza amalungiselelo kunye: thenga ingubo, ubhaka, itracksuit, njl.
Mnike ulwazi aludingayo. Chaza ukuba ngubani oza kuhamba naye, ngubani ozokumthatha, ukuba uza kuhlala isidlo sasemini okanye hayi. Zama ukulungelelanisa kancinci kancinci ishedyuli yakho yangoku naleyo yesikolo.
Ukuququzelela ukulungelelaniswa kwiintsuku zokuqala
- Okokuqala kwaye ngaphambi kwento yonke Kukuzilungiselela ngomonde kwaye ube nokuqonda okukhulu. Zama ukungalingisi okanye uzive unetyala ngale meko.
- Amatikiti ngundoqo. Yibani nemihlali kwaye nizimisele; Uvalelisa, uyamanga, umwange kwaye umnqwenelele usuku oluhle umkhumbuze ukuba uza kuza uzomlanda kwiiyure ezimbalwa. Musa ukulandisa ixesha lokuvalelisa. Ndiyazi ukuba kunzima kakhulu ukushiya umntwana wakho elila okanye ephosa izandla zakho kuwe, kodwa awumenzi nto ukuba awukhuselekanga okanye ukhathazeke kakhulu ngalo mzuzu.
- Ungaze umkhohlise. Akuncedi nto ukuthembisa ukuba uyakuyipaka imoto kwaye ubuye kwimizuzu embalwa ukuba awuzukuthobela. Uyakuva ukukhohliswa kwaye kwixesha elizayo kuya kuba kubi kakhulu.
- Ukuhamba ngaphandle kokuvalelisa akunaziphumo. Sukusebenzisa ithuba laxa engazi nto okanye edlalela ukuhamba. Xa ekufuna kwaye engakufumani, uya kuba nexesha elibi kwaye ngosuku olulandelayo akasayi kusuka kwicala lakho umzuzwana.
- Gcina ixesha kakhulu ngexesha lokuhambangakumbi iintsuku zokuqala. Imizuzu embalwa ingabonakala ngathi ingunaphakade.
Ngokuqinisekileyo kwiintsuku okanye iiveki ezimbalwa umntwana wakho uyakuvuyela ukuya eklasini kwaye isikolo siya kuba ngumthombo wamava amnandi kuye. UKUKHUTHAZA KAKHULU!