Iintsapho ezininzi zigqibe kwelokuba zihlale edolophini kuba kuzolile, kuba kukho imihlaba engaphezulu egcwele indalo kwaye mhlawumbi nayo, kuba ixabiso layo liphantsi kunokuhlala embindini wedolophu. Kubonakala ngathi ukuhlala edolophini zonke izibonelelo, Kodwa xa unomntwana ekufuneka umkhulisile kwaye umfundise kwizikolo ezikuloo ndawo kwaye ujikelezwe ngabantu abahlala edolophini, ngaba inazo izibonelelo okanye izinto ezingalunganga? Okanye mhlawumbi zombini?
Kukwakho nabantu abagqiba ekubeni bahlale ezidolophini kuba becinga ukuba bakhuselekile kunezidolophu, kodwa kuyinyani ukuba kukho abantu abakhetha ukuhlala ezixekweni. Inyani yile yokuba sisigqibo sobuqu esimele senziwe njengentsapho, sicinga ngokulunga kunye nobubi obunokuhlala edolophini. Ukuba uyayithanda imbono yokuhlala edolophini, fumanisa izibonelelo kunye nezinto ezingalunganga zokuhlala kwilali yabantwana.
Izinto eziluncedo zobomi elalini
Njengayo yonke into ebomini, ukuhlala edolophini nako kunokuba nezibonelelo ezintle, kwaye oku kufuneka kuthathelwe ingqalelo ukuze uthathe isigqibo sokuba uza kuhlala phi ngcono nosapho lwakho kunye nabantwana. Ubomi ezilalini a ubomi basemaphandleni, buzele yindalo kunye nentlalontle. Ngumnqweno wabantwana abaninzi ukonwabela indalo, Ubomi buyindalo kwaye bunempilo kunobomi basezidolophini obunokuthi bungcolise ngakumbi.
Ezinye zezibonelelo:
- Imeko-bume yedolophu izolile kwaye ihlala ngendlela elula kunakwisixeko.
- Ubomi ezilalini buvumela abantwana ukuba baphile kufutshane nendalo kwaye bonwabele ubuhle bendawo.
- Bazokwazi ukuphefumla umoya ococekileyo kunasezidolophini.
- Baza kuba nempilo engcono, ubomi obusebenzayo kunye neendlela zokuphila ezisempilweni kunabantu abahlala ezixekweni.
- Ukuthula noxolo kubomi beedolophu, kunika amathuba okubonakalisa nokukhula kwengqondo, into engenakwenzeka kubomi boxinzelelo besixeko.
- Ubuninzi bemithi kunye nohlaza kuvumela indawo yokuhlala esempilweni, ke abantwana bakho banokukhula benempilo entle yomzimba kunye namandla angaphakathi, mhlawumbi into ebingazukuba lula ukufikelela esixekweni.
- Abantwana baya kuthanda dlala ixesha elininzi ngaphandle ngaphandle kweengozi ezikhoyo ezixekweni.
Iidolophu, njengoko ubona, zinezibonelelo ezininzi kwinqanaba lezempilo, Ukusukela ukuba ngokunxibelelana ngakumbi nendalo, abancinci banokuyonwabela ngakumbi nangako konke okuhle okunokubazisa.
Iingxaki zokuhlala ezidolophini
Kodwa ukuhlala kwiilali akukuhle kangako kwaye banokuba nokubi kakhulu. Oku kungalunganga kunokukwenza ukrokre ukuba ufuna nyani ukuhlala edolophini okanye ukuba, ngokuchaseneyo, ukhetha ukufudukela kwisixeko ukukhulisa abantwana bakho. Ezinye zezinto ezingathandekiyo ekuhlaleni edolophini ziya kuba zezi zilandelayo:
- Akukho zibonelelo zininzi njengakwisixeko
- Amathuba ezilalini nawo anqabile
- Ukuba awunabo abantu oqhelene nabo edolophini, amathuba emisebenzi okanye impumelelo nayo isenokunqaba
- Zimbalwa izibonelelo zemfundo
- Amathuba emisebenzi amabi okanye asezantsi
- Ubomi edolophini bunokudika
- Kunokubakho izithethe ezendele nzulu okanye ezesiko ongabelani nazo ngokupheleleyo okanye ezingakwenzi uzive uchongwe ngokupheleleyo.
- Kwiilali kuhlala kukho umkhethe kunye nokugxekwa phakathi kwabantu
- Abantu abaninzi ezilalini bahlekisa ngobomi babanye kuba banexesha elininzi kakhulu
- Kwiidolophu kuhlala abantwana bembalwa kunasezidolophini kunye nabantu abadala
Nangona kungenakwenzeka ukwenza izinto ezingalunganga kwaye kuyakubakho iidolophu ezingcono kunezinye, inyani yokuba izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga xa uhlala kwaye ukhulisa abantwana ezidolophini zicacile.
Ukulinganisa i-pros and cons
Kuyimfuneko ukulinganisa izinto ezilungileyo nezingalunganga ukuze uhlale edolophini okanye esixekweni, kuba ngamanye amaxesha ayixhomekeki kuphela kule nto ithethwe ngasentla. Ukuba usapho lusondelelene nawe, unokukhetha ukuhlala edolophini, okanye ukuba unganobomi obuphezulu obuphezulu ngenxa yamaxabiso asezantsi endlu, umzekelo.
Ngamanye amaxesha ubomi ezidolophini bunokudika, kodwa ukuba unesithuthi kwaye ukufutshane nesixeko, ungahamba ngokulula ngakumbi ukuze uphile amanye amava ngaphandle kwedolophu. Abantwana bakho baya kuba nakho ukukhulela kwindawo ezolileyo, benobutshaba obuncinci kunokuba ubufumana esixekweni.
Kodwa njengoko besitshilo ngoku, Ayikwazi ukwenza ngokubanzi. Ukuba ufuna ukuhlala edolophini, kuya kufuneka unolwazi malunga nokuba idolophu injani, imfundo enayo ezikolweni zayo, ukuba banjani abantu, iinkonzo ezinazo, imisebenzi ekhoyo ukuze umntwana wakho abe nakho . Kuya kufuneka ucinge kwaye ulinganise i-pros kunye ne-cons ukuze wazi ukuba ukuhlala edolophini kuyakubuyekeza okanye ukuba ukhetha isixeko.
Ukuba nangasiphi na isizathu unokuthandabuza, into ecacileyo yeyokuba ungasoloko uzama ukuhlala edolophini iminyaka embalwa, jonga ukuba banjani abantwana bakho kwaye ukuba ubomi nabantu beedolophu bahamba nawe kunye nobuntu bakho. Jonga ukuba uhlahlo-lwabiwo mali losapho lwakho unokuhlala kakuhle edolophini kwaye ukuba uyabonwabela ubomi.
Kwimeko apho, emva kweminyaka eliqela, uyaqonda ukuba ubomi elalini abukho kuwe, ungasoloko usiya kwenye indawo ekwenza uzive ungcono kwaye apho ucinga ukuba abantwana bakho baya kuba nakho ukukhula kakuhle. Kodwa khumbula, ukuba ufuna abantwana bakho bakhule bonwabile, nangona kuxhomekeke kwindalo esingqongileyo, into abanayo ekhaya yeyona nto iya kubenza bakhule kwaye bonwabele ubomi.
Ewe kunjalo, ukuze ukwazi ukuhamba ngokulula xa kukho imfuneko, irente ... kuba ukuba uthatha imali mboleko kuya kuba nzima ngakumbi ukushiya indawo.