Izibonelelo zokuMamela ngokuSebenzayo kunye noLutsha

Ngexesha lokufikisa abantwana bethu bafuna ngakumbi kunangaphambili ukuphulaphula kwethu ngokukuko, kodwa yintoni le? Kwenziwa njani? Luluphi uncedo olunokubanceda? Le neminye imibuzo yile siza kuyisombulula. Ngokukhawuleza uyakuqonda ukuba nangona ungalazi igama, ukumamela ngokukuko yile nto ubuyenza ukusukela oko wawusengumntwana.

Ukumamela ngokukhutheleyo ayikho enye into ngaphandle kokumamela inkwenkwe, okanye intombazana, ngoku ikwishumi elivisayo, qonda indlela oziva ngayo kwaye bonisa ukuba umamele kwaye uyaqonda. Into ebonakala ilula ayikho lula, kuba abakwishumi elivisayo bakholwa ukuba akukho mntu ubaphulaphulayo, akukho mntu ubaqondayo, kwaye akukho mntu ubhekisa ikakhulu kubazali babo.

Kukuphendula ngantoni?

ulutsha olunomdla ekuphulaphuleni

Kukho abantu ngokwendalo abanezakhono ngakumbi kunabanye zokumamela ngokukuko. Kodwa le ngu ikhonoke, inokufunyanwa kwaye iphuhliswe ngokuziqhelanisa. Ngokuchanekileyo, ngokuziqhelanisa. Akwanelanga ukumamela ngokufikisayo kulutsha lwethu xa efuna ukwabelana ngomcimbi, kodwa endaweni yoko kufuneka uyenze ngalo lonke ixesha, nokuba sidiniwe kwaye sixakekile kangakanani.

Ukumamela ngokukuko akumameli omnye umntu, kodwa kukugxila kumyalezo unyana okanye intombi yethu izama ukunxibelelana. Ayikokulindela ukuba avale umlomo amxelele intetho ebesiyenza ngelixa ethetha. Inkqubo ye- uvelwano lixabiso elibalulekileyo ekuphulaphuleni, ukuzibeka endaweni yomnye, kunye nokuqinisekiswa ngokweemvakalelo, ukwamkelwa kunye nengxelo. Simele simamele Ngaphandle komgwebo.

Zimbini izinto eziququzelela ukumamela okusebenzayo: imeko yengqondo, chonga umxholo wento ithethwa ngunyana okanye intombi yethu, iinjongo zabo kunye neemvakalelo zabo; kwaye intetho siyigcina ngelixa simmamele. Unxibelelwano olungenamlomo lubalulekile njengonxibelelwano lomlomo.

Ungayigcina njani kulutsha?

Ukufundisa intombazana ekwishumi elivisayo ukuba ithambise

Njengoko besitshilo, ixesha lokufikisa lixesha elinzima, kodwa abakwishumi elivisayo abakwingxaki ngokuqhubekayo. Thatha ithuba lokudala, okanye wenze, amaxesha apho abanzi kwaye babelane ngezimvo zabo ukuziqhelanisa nokumamela. Obu buchule, ukuyibiza oko, kuya kukuvumela ukuba wandise ulwazi kwaye wazi ngakumbi intombi okanye unyana wakho.

Ukongeza kula maxesha ungasebenzisa ukumamela ngokukuko Phambi kwemibuzo ebonakala ngathi iyabhengezwa. Ukumbonisa ukuba uyamphulaphula, into yokuqala yile ungamphazamisi, okanye utshintshe isihloko, makakhokele incoko apho afuna khona. Ukuba, umzekelo, uphawula ngemovie, unokuphinda into yokugqibela awayithethayo, mfo ... eCalifornia? , ke uya kuqonda ukuba umkhathalele. Okanye umbuze ngolwazi oluthe kratya malunga nefilimu eqhelekileyo, kwaye isuka kumlawuli ofanayo nalowo uku ...? Kwaye ucinga ntoni ngengoma yesandi, ngento oyithandayo awuthethi nto? ...

Ukuba ufuna ukuphanda iimvakalelo zabo okanye uluvo lwabo, akonelanga ukuyicela kwaye uyishiye ijinga apho. Iimfuno a ingxelo, ukusuka "kucace" ukuya "andivumelani nawe, kodwa kubonakala ngathi yindawo yokujonga enomdla." Ayisiyonto yokugxeka okanye yokujongela phantsi iimvakalelo zakho.

Izibonelelo zokuphulaphula

umama nentombi esebenzayo

Nje ukuba uqalise ukuziqhelanisa nokumamela nomntwana wakho okwishumi elivisayo, uyakufumanisa oko naye uya kuyifunda. Esi sesinye sezibonelelo, esiya kukunceda ngaphakathi nangaphandle kosapho. Kwizifundo, nabahlobo, kwaye kamva kwindawo yokusebenza, ukumamela ngokukuko linyathelo lokuqala ukuya ukwazi ukuthetha, kunye nokubanakho ukubonisa ngokucacileyo izimvo.


Ngaphandle kokuyiqonda, kuphela nge uku-odola izimvo, Kwaye ukubonakalisa isisombululo seengxaki kuya kusondela. Uya kuba ukuguqula Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana afikise iimvakalelo zakhe kwaye azive ekhuselekile xa esenza izigqibo.

Ukumamela kakuhle kusetyenziswa kakuhle ivelisa ukuthembana, ukusondela kunye nokhuselekoNgaba ikhona into oyaziyo efuna ulutsha ngaphezulu koko? Ukongeza, umntu othetha naye, unyana wakho, uya kuziva ukuba xa uthetha, umhoyile kwaye umnike ukubaluleka. Oku kuya kukukhuthaza ukuba uvule kwaye uvule ngakumbi.


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