Izilwanyana zasekhaya kunye nabantwana, yintoni esifanele sahlule?

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Kwiintsapho ezininzi izilwanyana zasekhaya zijongwa njengabantwana, ngandlel’ ithile zinoboya obuninzi.

Izilwanyana: uthando ekuqaleni kokubona oluphindaphinda yonke imihla

"Namhlanje i-80% yabantu abahlala nesilwanyana ekhaya bayavuma ukuba bayijonga ngolo hlobo, njengomntwana", utsho uGuido Guerzoni, uNjingalwazi woLawulo lweMyuziyam eBocconi kunye nombhali we "Izilwanyana zasekhaya. Izilwanyana zasekhaya ziye zahlasela njani ubomi bethu kunye neentliziyo zethu ".

Masithi sisiqhamo esincinane saloo nto inkqubo humanization yezilwanyana oko kusenzeka malunga neminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu. Iintshukumisa? Zahlukile, kodwa umbhali ubamba impembelelo yengqondo ekusenokwenzeka ukuba isembindini wale nto kwaye kufuneka isenze sibonakalise.

"Ehlabathini apho ubudlelwane bothando buye buba bufutshane kwaye ubudlelwane nabanye buya buxhatshazwa yitekhnoloji, ezo zezilwanyana zasekhaya zibubukho obufudumeleyo, obungokwenyama, obuyinyani ..."Guerzoni izimvo. "Baye baba luhlobo lwe-ankile kuthi, ukuzinzisa ngokweemvakalelo. Ngabo kuphela abasoloko besondelelene nathi, bebonakalisa uthando lwabo suku ngalunye ngokungathi bebesoloko beqala ngqa.

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Ikati ayifani nenja

Los "Ukugqithisa" kobuntu Ngokuqhelekileyo zijonge kakhulu ezinjeni, ngakumbi ukuba zincinci. Eyona mpazamo ixhaphakileyo eyenziwe ngeekati kunokucinga ngazo ngokungathi zizinja. Akunjalo. Baneempawu ezahlukileyo kakhulu, kwaye indlela yabo yokunxibelelana yahlukile. Ukuba awuyihoyi, ubeka umngcipheko wokungaqondi kakuhle, nto leyo eyenza kube nzima ukuhlalisana.

Ukubawola akusoloko kungumbono olungileyo. Kukho iikati ezithandeka ngakumbi, ezinye zincinci. Ngokomgaqo, nangona kunjalo, ikati ibeka imida kwaye yenza ukuba uqonde into eyifunayo. Ukuba ngelixesha siyiphululayo, isinqanda ngenqipha layo okanye ngokuluma kancinci, ithi 'yiyeke'. Kungcono ukuva. Kufuneka sifundise abantwana bethu ukumamela ulwimi lwesilo-qabane sethu.

Ukudibana okugqithisileyo kunye "nokuhlala kunye" akulunganga nakwinja, nokuba le nja ibonisa ukuba iyayithanda. Ngokwenene idala imvakalelo eyomeleleyo yokuxhomekeka.. Isiphumo siya kuba yinja engakhuselekanga kwaye ayikwazi ukuhlala kude nomnini.

Ngeholide okanye ekhaya?

Xa intsapho iye ekhefini, okona kulungileyo kusenokubonakala hamba nomhlobo wakho onoboya: kodwa ukuba oku kuyilungele inja, ayilunganga kangako kwikati. Ukumkhupha kwintsimi yakhe, apho sele ephawule iindawo ezahlukeneyo zobomi bakhe bemihla ngemihla (apho adla khona, apho ahlambalaza khona, apho alala khona ...) kuthetha ukuvelisa ukungahambi kakuhle, ukumnyanzela ukuba enze yonke into kwakhona kunye namaxesha oxinzelelo. Eyona nto ibhetele ibiya kuba kukumshiya ekhaya yedwa, kukho ukutya okuninzi kunye nomntu othembekileyo ojonga yonke imihla ukuba yonke into ilungile na. Njengokuba abantwana bethu benyanzelisa ukuhamba nayo yonke indawo.

Kuphephe ukucaphuka ngokutya

Kubantwana bethu nakwizilwanyana, ukumkholisa kakhulu ngokutya kudala ukungalingani okunokukhokelela kwingqumbo. Musa ukunika isilwanyana into oyifunayo uze umthintele umntwana ngokwezinto ezinjani. Awuyi kuqonda ukuba kutheni isilwanyana sinako kwaye asikwazi.

Yintoni umngcipheko wokubamba ezandleni zakho?

Yimpazamo eyenziwa ngokukodwa ngezinja ezincinci, ezifana neChiwawas. Ngaloo ndlela sizibeka emngciphekweni wokupha igunya kakhulu kwaye udale kuye isimo sengqondo sokuba mkhulu. Umphumo usenokuba kukuba ifuna ukongamela umniniyo, imnyanzele ukuba enze unothanda. Kufuneka sibafundise abancinci bethu ukuba ngabo abakhokela isilwanyana sethu, hayi ngenye indlela.

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Ukulala ebhedini: ewe okanye hayi?

Kukhethwa ngumnini, ngaphandle kokuba kukho ukungaguquguquki. Ukumvumela ukuba alale ebhedini kuphela ngamaxesha athile akuncedi yaye kuyaphazamisa. Unokulala kunye nomncinci wethu ngaphandle kwengxaki, kodwa amaxesha ambalwa okuqala kuya kufuneka sibone indlela enza ngayo ukuze aphephe imikrwelo enokwenzeka okanye ukuba uphefumle ubuso bakhe.

Indlela yokujongana noloyiko lwakho

Ukuba injana iyoyika i-vacuum cleaner, kufuneka uqhelane nayo kancinci kancinci: bonisa kuqala umatshini, ngaphandle kokuwuhambisa, ngoko usebenze kude, njalo njalo. Nantsi ke into ekufuneka nabantwana bethu bayifunde, bafundiswe izinto ezintsha ezifika kancinci kancinci apha endlwini, ukuze baqhelane nazo. Enye into ekufuneka abantwana bethu bayifunde kukuba izilwanyana zasekhaya ngamanye amaxesha zizimela ngenxa yoloyiko, ngakumbi iikati, kwaye kufuneka sizishiye ngalo mzuzu, eso sithuba, ngaphandle kokuzoyisa. Ukuba bazola bahambe.

Inyaniso yeyokuba, ukuba nezilwanyana zasekhaya nabantwana kunceda abantwana bethu bafunde ukunxulumana nezilwanyana baze bazithande ngaphandle kokuzicinezela. Bafunda kwakhona ukuxabisa izinto, ukufundisa abanye (kungekhona nje ukuba bafunde) kwaye bazi indlela yokwenza ngothando, njl.


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