Njengonyaka ngamnye, namhlanje, nge-19 kaMatshi, Usuku lukaTata lubhiyozelwa kwaye nangona lo nyaka ungathathi ntweni ngenxa yemeko yokuvalelwa ngenxa yesifo secoronavirus, kubalulekile ukubhiyozela olu suku lukhethekileyo. Mhlawumbi ibaluleke ngakumbi kunanini na ngaphambili, ngenxa yeemeko ezinzima esihlangabezana nazo mihla le. Nabantwana abaninzi banokukwazi ukubhiyozela uSuku lukaTata kunye notata wabo ekhaya kulo nyaka, kuba uninzi lwethu luvalelwe kumakhaya ethu.
Kulo nyaka ngekhe ube nalo ixesha lokuphuma uyokufumana esona sipho sigqibeleleyo sabazali bosapho. Nangona kunjalo, namhlanje kunanini na ngaphambili kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba izipho ezenziwe ngesandla, iinkcukacha ezizodwa, zezona zixabisekileyo. Eyona nto ibaluleke ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na into onokuyithenga evenkileni. Ungaphoswa lithuba lokubhiyozela uSuku lukaTata okhethekileyo.
Indlela yokubhiyozela uSuku kaTata ngaphandle kokushiya ikhaya
Njengoko sele usazi, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba wonke umntu ahlale ekhaya ukuzama ukunqanda ukusasazeka kwentsholongwane ngokukhawuleza. Ke ngoko, kunqande ukuphuma uyokuthenga nantoni na yokwenza umbhiyozo woSuku lukaTata ekhaya. Endaweni yoko, setha ukucinga kwakho kunye nokucinga kwabantwana bakho kwisindululo kwaye Ukugquma malunga nendlu ngayo nantoni na enokusetyenziselwa ukwenza isipho kuTata.
Lelona xesha lilungileyo lokuhlala nabantwana kwaye wenze inkunkuma yokuyila, usenza ubugcisa ukuze abantwana bakwazi nika utata isipho kulo mhla. Ngokuqinisekileyo oko ekhaya unezinto onokuthi uzisebenzise, kwaye ke ufundisa abantwana ukuba nayiphi na into inokusetyenziswa okwahlukileyo kwaye iphinde iphinde isetyenziswe ukuze isebenze kwakhona, oko kuyimfuneko kule mihla.
Isipho esikhethekileyo
Ngokuqinisekileyo ukukhangela ekhaya uyakufumana inkuthazo oyifunayo, kodwa ukuba awazi ukuba uqale ngaphi, Apha sikushiya ezinye izimvo.
- Umzobo: Xa abantwana bezobe, bahlala njalo bavakalise iimvakalelo zabo ngendlela elula kakhulu. Lungisa indawo elungileyo, iphepha kunye neepeyinti onazo apha endlwini, kwaye vumela abantwana bakho ukuba bachithe ubuchule bokuyila kunye nengcinga.
- Ileta: Ukuba abantwana abasakwazi ukubhala, ungabanceda babhalele utata ileta echukumisayo. Ungabhala izimvo zabantwana. Ukuba unamaphephancwadi ekhaya, abantwana banako sika imifanekiso emele oko bafuna ukukuthetha kwaye ungeze ezo ziqhotyoshelweyo kwileta kunye neglue.
- Umsebenzi: Lungiselela nabantwana umdlalo womculo kwaye ngomzuzu okhethekileyo wosuku, wothusa utata ngokusebenza kwakhe, uya kuyonwabela ngakumbi kunangaphambili kwaye uya kuyithanda.
- Ikeyiki ekhethekileyo kutata: Akudingeki ukuba uthenge izithako ezizodwa lungisa iswiti eyenziwe ekhaya, kuba ngokuqinisekileyo kwi-pantry yakho uyakufumana into oyifunayo. Kule khonkco sikushiya ifayile ye- Iresiphi yekhekhe lekomityi Kulula kakhulu ukuyilungiselela, ukugqibelela ukuba abantwana babe nexesha elimnandi lokubhaka.
Yiba nombulelo ngamathuba ahlala notata wakho
Usuku lukaTata luhlala lukhethekileyo kuye wonke umntu, ngakumbi kubantu abaneminyaka ethile ababona abazali babo besaluphala nangaphezulu kwaye besoyika umzuzu wokuvalelisa. Kulo nyaka, iimeko zenza ukuba olu suku lukabawo lukhetheke ngakumbi, kuba abantu abaninzi abayi kuba nako ukwanga nokuncamisa utata wabo, hayi namhlanje okanye iintsuku ezininzi.
Ke ngoko, akufuneki uphoswe lithuba loku enkosi lonke ixesha lokuphila notata wakho kwaye ngaphezu kwako konke, mxelele. Ubuzali abuyondlela ilula, ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba sele uyijongile. Bonke abazali bayazenza iimpazamo, uya kuzenza ngaphandle kwamathandabuzo, kodwa into ongafanele uyilibale kukuba yonke into ihlala isenziwa ngothando olukhulu kunye nomzamo. Kuba kutata, akukho butyebi bungaphezulu kokwazi ukuzibona kubonakala kubantwana bakhe.