Kunzima ukunika, kwaye kwakhona kungoqobo, kuba kubonakala ngathi amakhwenkwe kunye namantombazana banayo yonke into, kodwa unokufumana izipho zoqobo. Yile nto siyifunayo kweli nqaku, ikunike imikhondo yokwenza izipho ezizodwa, ngakumbi kwabo bantwana ubazi kakuhle kwaye uziva ukhethekile.
Ngamanye amaxesha siye sabuzwa ukuba yintoni enokunikwa umntwana, kwaye siphantse sithethe into enye: eyona imemori elungileyo, yesipho okanye yomzuzu wesipho. Kodwa gcina umntwana engqondweni, sukuhendeka ukuba unike into ongathanda ukuba nayo.
Izipho zoqobo kunye nezobuqu
Kule mizuzu uya kufumana okuninzi okunokwenzeka lungiselela isipho, Ukusuka kwiT-shirt ene-superhero okanye i-superheroine enobuso benkwenkwe okanye yentombazana, ukuya kwiikomityi ezinamagama abo, oobhaka, okanye iraki yengubo. Into ebalulekileyo kukuba umntwana ayive loo nto Sisipho kuye, okanye kuye, inaye kuphela.
Ubuninzi bokwenza ngokwezifiso, zezi amabali abhalelwe inkwenkwe okanye intombazana kuphela. Ukuba ubafumana ukuba bayicacise, umlinganiswa ophambili ujongeka njengomntwana, uya kuyithanda, ukuba angathanda ukufunda, kunjalo. Kukho ngaphezulu kwenkampani enye ukubhalela ingoma okanye amazwi, kunye nengoma yengoma ayithandayo umntwana apho kukho iinkcukacha ngobomi bakhe. Esi sisipho esinye esinye sabakwishumi elivisayo kwaye sinokuhamba nomnyhadala. Uya kumangaliswa kukukhangela kwi-intanethi kancinci kwaye ujonge izipho ezizezakho.
Ukuba unokubakho, isipho angasoze asilibale umntwana umbuliso ovela kwimbaleki oyithandayo, imvumi, okanye umlinganiswa. Ukusuka kwimifanekiso eqhelekileyo, into esasiyibiza ngokuba yi-autographs, kumyalezo weWhatsApp okanye ividiyo.
Izipho ezibandakanya ukwabelana
Ukuhamba kuhlala kusisipho sabantwana. Kukho abazali abanikezela ngezi iihambo okanye iihambo xa bedlula ekupheleni kwekhosi, kwindibano yabo yokuqala, ngomhla wokuzalwa okhethekileyo. Kuya kufuneka ulumke ukhethe indawo oya kuyo enomdla kubo kwaye bakwiminyaka efanelekileyo. Akukho sidingo sokukhathazeka ngokubasa epakini yomxholo ukuba awukuthandi ukukhwela ihashe. Mhlawumbi utyelelo kwipaki yendalo ukujonga iintaka kunokutsala umdla ongakumbi. Kungenxa yoko le nto kubaluleke kangaka ukwazi izinto ezithandwa ngumntwana.
Isipho esihle sinokuthatha inkwenkwe okanye intombazana ziqhelanise okanye ubukele imidlalo. Isenokuba kukubukela umdlalo weqela leemvakalelo zakho, ukwenza into engalindelwanga, njengokuya eludongeni olonyukayo. Ungamsa kwakhona ukuze abone umdlalo onomtsalane, onje ngombhoxo, i-motocross, i-trampoline yokutsiba. Yimidlalo emibalabala esebenza njengesipho santlandlolo.
Kwaye kukho iifayile ze- umculo, imiboniso, imidlalo, iopera yomntwana, kwaye zonke ezo zinto zingasinceda ukuba sichithe ixesha elihle kunye nomncinci.
Izipho zoqobo zokugqiba ukwenza
Kweli candelo sifuna ukuthetha ngezipho ezibonisa ukuba abo bafumana ezo zipho bagqiba ukubanika, ukuba kufuneka bangenelele. Unganika okuqhelekileyo iphazili, okanye ungamnika ifoto yeholide yokugqibela, engumfanekiso oza kwenziwa. Ubunzima buya kuxhomekeka kubudala bomntwana.
Kwinqanaba lemfundo, imidlalo emininzi kunye nezinto zokudlala ziyilelwe uku yenza iirobhothi kunye neemoto, ukuze bona ngokwabo banyuke. Kukho ikhithi yemoto encinci abanokuziqhelanisa nayo kunye neenkqubo zombane.
Ikwayintsusa kakhulu ukunika isipho iseti yokuthunga, nokuba yinkwenkwe okanye intombazana, ukwenza eyakho indalo okanye ukuguqula iimpahla zakho. Banike a izinto zasekhitshini, okoko nje begadwe ekhitshini ngumntu omdala okanye babanike igadi encinci, iterrarium, i-aquarium, kwaye yiyo loo nto bejonga izityalo kunye nezilwanyana ngelixa bethatha uxanduva lokhathalelo lwabo.