Wonke utata uyathanda ukuncamisa abantwana bakhe. Abanye babo bakufumanisa kuthambile ukuba ukwanga kusemilebeni yabantwana babo. Kodwa imiphumo yesi senzo ayaziwa ngokwenene. Okulandelayo siza kuchaza ukuba zeziphi iingxaki ezinokuvela.
Ngaba ukuncamisa umntwana akuyongozi?
Phantse wonke umzali uye wancamisa umntwana wakhe emlonyeni, enoba umntwana wayesemncinane kakhulu okanye uneminyaka nje embalwa ubudala. Abantwana, njengomgaqo jikelele, ngokuzithandela ukubuyisela loo kiss kunye nokudibanisa ngubani na ukuba bamnike emlonyeni okanye kunokuba bakhumbule ukuba ngubani ocelayo kuloo ndawo. Ngokubanzi inobunzima obungaphezulu uthando kakhulu kwaye ukubonakalisa uthando olusuka kuyise kunyana wakhe, ukuba iingozi eziqulethwe kule nyaniso, kwelinye icala, azaziwa omabini amaqela.
Ukuyishiya ecaleni intsingiselo yeemvakalelo kamama okanye utata, iingcali zempilo ziqinisekisa ukuba akufanelekanga ukuncamisa umntwana emlonyeni. Umngcipheko ophambili kunye ongaziwayo ochaphazela impilo yomzimba ukwanda amathuba imingxuma, herpes, okanye umonakalo kwiintsini Kweminye iminyaka. Iintsholongwane zabo bancamisayo zidluliselwa kusana okanye umntwana, oko kukuthi, iintsholongwane zinikwa ngabazali babo. Kwaye oku akuthethi ukuba abazali banokucoceka okungathandabuzekiyo, kodwa ukuba uqhagamshelwano olulula lwamathe emlonyeni womntwana sele lwenza ukuba kwenzeke.
Umonakalo wengqondo xa uphuza umntwana emlonyeni
Xa uphuza umntwana, uphuza a majoni omzimba engenziwanga ngokupheleleyo, ngoko kufuneka kuthathwe unonophelo olukhulu malunga nomba weebhaktheriya. Ukuba usana lunosulelo inokuba yingxaki enkulu xa kujongwa ubuncinci bayo. Kodwa umonakalo awunakwenzeka kuphela kwinqanaba lomzimba; kwinqanaba lezengqondo, ukwanga umntwana xa eneminyaka emi-2, 3, 4 okanye emi-5 ubudala kunokubonwa njengento engenabungozi. Nangona kunjalo Njengoko umntwana ekhula, ukuvezwa koluntu akukhuselekanga kwizigwebo zexabiso. kunye nemibuzo enzulu ngakumbi ngabanye. Kumntwana oko kuya kubangela ukungonwabi ngokweemvakalelo ekukhuleni kwakhe.
Umntwana uyakwazi ukubhidanisa iindima xa eqala ukuqonda into malunga isini kwaye ibalise ukwanga emilebeni ngothando olushushu. Kule minyaka, umdla uyamhlasela, nangona kunjalo kuyacetyiswa ukuba uchaze intsingiselo ye ukwanga emlonyeni wakhe. Kuya kuba yinto echaseneyo ukuba ubona njengento eqhelekileyo. Akufanele unxulumanise ukuncamisa nokunyamekela abantwana okanye ofunda nabo esikolweni okanye nabantu abasuka nje bakubulise. Kumntwana, kwaye kunokudideka kwaye kungaqondakali, kuya kufika imini xa abazali bakhe beyeka ukumphuza emlonyeni, kwaye unokuziva engabalulekanga kwaye kufuneka ahlolisise imvelaphi yale meko. Kungcono ukuphepha ukumanga umntwana wakho emlonyeni, ukumanga esidleleni kunexabiso elifanayo.