Iindlela zokudibanisa umsebenzi kunye nokuba ngumama ngempumelelo

Umama usebenza ekhaya nosana

Ndiboleka amagama kumhlobo wam uMarie Thepaut, kwinkcazo-ntetho yakhe eseleyo kubomi bomsebenzi kumsitho we-eWoman: "Indawo yedijithali, eyona nto iphambili ekuzuzeni ukulingana." Apho bahlangana khona abafazi aba-5 kwicandelo labo, bathetha ngokulingana kunye nomsebenzi-wobomi obulungeleleneyo.

UMarie uthi Esinye sezihluthulelo zokufezekisa umsebenzi wobomi bokwenyani kumama kukusebenzisana. Oku kubalulekile ukuba umama akwazi ukusebenza ngaphandle, nokuba kukwisikhundla solawulo, ekwabelaneni ngoxanduva malunga nokukhathalela abantwana.

Buyintoni ubugosa?

Oku, akukho ngaphezulu okanye ngaphantsi, kunokwabelana ngoxanduva ngokubhekisele ebantwaneni. Kuyinyani ukuba asisoze siyeke ukuba ngoonina. Kuya kubakho izinto ekungekho mntu unokusenzela zona, njengokuncancisa. Nangona kunjalo, sifuna umntu oza kusinceda sithwale uxanduva lokukhulisa umntwana.

uyihlo nendodana

Olu xanduva aluphelelanga kumoya wezoqoqosho, kuba sithetha ngomsebenzi wobomi. Kungenzeka ukuba ufumane ngaphezulu kuneqabane lakho kwaye awudingi nto. Endaweni yokuba, ukuba umntwana wakho kufuneka aye kwagqirha, kukho umntu onokuthi amkhathalele ngelixa usebenza, xa kunokwenzeka ungaphoswa sisikhundla sakho.

Ezinye izitshixo zoxolelwaniso

La ukulungelelanisa iishedyuli, ukuzenzela umsebenzi okanye umnxeba, Sinike amathuba ahlukeneyo angaziwayo kude kube ngoku. Akusekho mfuneko yokuba ube neshedyuli emiselweyo, ekufuneka uye kuyo yonke imihla, uzenzele indlela yesiqhelo. Kukho imisebenzi apho unokuvumelana ngeshedyuli yakho nomphathi wakho okanye oogxa bakho, uhlengahlengise uxanduva lwakho njengomama.

Umama kunye nentombi phambi kwelaptop

Kukho ukubanakho ukusebenzela ekhaya, ukubanakho ukusebenzisa ixesha elishiywe ngumsebenzi wasekhaya okanye umsebenzi kamama wakho ukuqhubela phambili umsebenzi. Ngaphandle kokulibala oko Naluphi na uhlobo lomsebenzi owuthathayo luya kufuna uxanduva kunye omnye umzali okanye umntu okhethe ukukhathalela abantwana bakho ungekho.

Indima yeenkampani kuxolelwaniso losapho

Okwangoku, zimbalwa iinkampani ezithatha isigqibo sokuqesha abantu basetyhini. Kungenxa yokuba Ngokwenkcubeko bahlala benikwa uxanduva olupheleleyo nabantwana babo. Akukho mntu uzibuzayo ukuba umphathi okanye umthuthi uyaphoswa ngabo kuhambo lwabo olude. Kodwa abaqeshi abaninzi bacinga ukuba ukuba umqeshwa ukhulelwe, kuya kufuneka athathe ikhefu lokuya kubeleka. Bakholelwa ukuba kamva ayizukusebenza kakuhle ukuba noxanduva lomama. Bambalwa abonakala bekhumbula ukuba amadoda anikwa nekhefu lokuba ngutata kwaye anoxanduva kubantwana babo.

msebenzi

Olunye uhlobo kwingqesho ehlawulelwayo kukuzenzela ngokwakho. Umzekelo, kukho oomama abathatha isigqibo sokuqalisa ishishini elitsha ekhaya. Njengoko besesitshilo, ukukhangela izikhewu phakathi koxanduva lwakhe njengomama, ukuzilungelelanisa. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ukulinganisa umsebenzi kunye noxanduva loomama, kuba zombini zibalulekile kubantwana bethu.


Ukubaluleka kokuxolelanisa umsebenzi kunye nokuba ngumama

Ukuxolelanisa ayingomsebenzi olula, kodwa kubalulekile ukuba abantwana bakho bakubone usebenza. Kusempilweni kakhulu kubo ukuba bakhule benomzekelo womama osebenzayo ekhaya nakwamanye amazwe. Yiva njalo, umzekelo, ukuba kufuneka usebenze nzima yonke imihla ukufezekisa yonke into ebomini.

Impumelelo ayizukuwa esibhakabhakeni kwaye ngenxa yoko Kufuneka babone ukuba umama wabo ubabonisa yonke imihla ukuba mabenze ntoni ukuyiphumeza. Ayinamsebenzi ukuba umsebenzi wakho njengomphathi olawulayo okanye njengomcoci esikolweni, impumelelo ayiqulathanga kuloo nto. Uhlala ukhetha eyakho impumelelo, kuba eyona mpumelelo yakho inkulu kukuba neshedyuli ekuvumela ukuba ubone abantwana bakho iiyure eziyimfuneko.

unina osebenzayo

Kukho esona sitshixo sokusebenza kunye noxolelwaniso losapho. Kuphela Ngumba wokukhangela umsebenzi olungele iimfuno zakho, iinjongo kunye neemeko. Ukwazi isidingo sokugubungela uxanduva nabantwana bakho, sebenza kwaye kunjalo iinjongo zakho zobuqu.

Umama akekho ngaphantsi komama wokuba namaphupha, afune ukuba ngumntu kwaye azalisekise iinjongo zakhe. Wonke umntwana ufuna umama obakhuthazayo ukuba benze kanye loo nto. Shumayela ngomzekelo.


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