Ukukhula kwezivamvo kubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni komntwana kuba zenza isithuthi apho umntwana adibana khona nelizwe langaphandle, alazi kwaye, ngenxa yoko, aguquke ekufundeni kwakhe. Asimele silibale ukuba ngenxa yeemvakalelo esinxibelelana ngazo nabanye abantu kwaye siseka ubudlelwane obunothando kunye nabo.
Ukuchukumisa
Yingqiqo yokuqala usana olusanda kuzalwa lufunda ukuyisebenzisa. Kuze kube yinyanga yesithathu yobomi, i-tactile sensitivity yomntwana igxininiswe kakhulu entloko, emlonyeni kunye ne-trunk. Umncinci uphendula uxinzelelo, ukuthungwa, ubushushu, ukusondela kunye neentlungu. Kungoko ukubaluleka kokuncancisa (umzuzu wonxibelelwano ngokugqwesa phakathi kukamama nomntwana), ukuphululwa, ukwanga kunye nokuhlamba. Ukuphulula umzimba kwakhona kunendima ebalulekileyo ekukhuleni komntwana. Ukongezelela ekudluliseleni uthando ngoqhagamshelwano lwesikhumba, bavumela ukuphumla kunye nokuphila kakuhle.
Phakathi kweenyanga ezintandathu kunye nesithoba zobomi, omncinci uqala ukuhlola ihlabathi elimngqongileyo. Isiqu sakho, iingalo, imilenze, izandla kunye neminwe iba zezona zixhobo zokuhlola ezifanelekileyo. Eli lixesha lokumyeka azame ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo zokuthungwa, amaqondo obushushu kunye neemilo. Ekubeni engakwazi ukuhambahamba okwangoku kwaye ethanda ukubeka yonke into emlonyeni wakhe, ukusetyenziswa kweendawo zokuzivocavoca zabantwana ezinezinto ezineempawu ezahlukeneyo sisixhobo esihle kakhulu sokuvuselela.
Njengoko umntwana ekhula kwaye imvakalelo yakhe yokuchukumisa ikhula, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba aqalise ukucwangcisa kwaye anxulumanise ulwazi olunikezwa ngamava. Umdlalo okholisa ukuhlekisa kakhulu abantwana ubandakanya ukufaka izandla zabo kwiibhokisi zekhadibhodi ezahlukeneyo, ngaphakathi apho izinto ezinobungakanani obahlukeneyo, iimilo kunye nokuthungwa bezicwangcisiwe ngaphambili. Ukuthelekelela ukuba yintoni le nto bayichukumisileyo emva kokuchaza iimpawu zayo kuba ngumngeni omkhulu.
