Uyikhuthaza njani intetho ebantwaneni

Xa abantwana beqala ukuthetha bahluka kakhulu ukusuka emntwaneni ukuya emntwaneni. Njengalo naliphi na elinye inyathelo lokuzivelela kwezinto nganye inesingqi sayo. Abanye banokuthetha amagama abo okuqala ngaphambi konyaka, kwaye abanye banokuba neminyaka emi-3 ubudala kwaye bathethe nje amagama ambalwa. Yiyo loo nto abazali bexhalabile kakhulu ngendlela yokukhuthaza intetho ebantwaneni, ngakumbi xa ilixesha lokubahambisa esikolweni.

Abazali banokudlala indima yokuququzelela kulo msebenzi ngendlela eyonwabisayo eya kuthi idale ukuvumelana kunye nokudibana kunye nabo. Apha uya kufumana iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo zokukunceda ukhuthaze abantwana bakho ukuba bathethe kancinci kwaye ngesantya sabo.

Ukususela esiswini

Kuyangqinwa ukuba abantwana ukusukela kwinyanga yesithandathu bayaliva ilizwi likamama ngokusebenzisa ukungcangcazela ngomqolo kunye nokuziva ingxolo evela ngaphandle. Ungaqala ukusukela ngalamzuzu ukuba uthethe naye, umxelele izinto ozenzayo kunye nendlela onomdla ngayo kuye.

Ukususela ekuzalweni ukuya kwiinyanga ezi-3

Ukufika kweli hlabathi kunokuba nzima ngenxa yolwazi oluninzi abalufumanayo. Bayisasaza ngokulila. Kolu qhakamshelwano lokuqala ungathetha naye ngobunono (ukuva kwakhe kubuthathaka) kwaye umjonge emehlweni ukuze uqhagamshele. Unga beka izandla zabo ezincinane emlonyeni wakho okanye entanyeni ukuze bave ukungcangcazela xa bethetha.

Ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-6

Kweli nqanaba uba nobudlelane ngakumbi, ujonge kuwe, abe novakalelo ngakumbi, abambe ongezantsi kwaye aqale ukuhleka.

Unako xelisa intetho yabo umxelele imvakalelo ngamagama, thetha naye usuka kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo ukuze ajike ajonge apho ukhoyo (ukuze badibanise ukuva nokubona) nanjengoko yena hlola umhlaba mnike izinto zokusebenzisa kwaye uthethe naye ngaye.

Ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-6 ukuya kwezi-9

Malunga neenyanga ezili-9 sele benxibelelana nokusingqongileyo ngokugragrama nokubhuza. Baqala ukutshatisa izandi, nangona bengekakwazi ukuthetha okwangoku sele eyiqonda. Okwangoku ungambonisa imifanekiso kwaye uyiqambe igama, thetha naye, imidlalo ye-effect-effect (ukuba uyayichukumisa iyavakala, ukuba ucofa iqhosha bathetha…).

Ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-9 ukuya kwezi-12

Kweli nqanaba ufunda into entsha yonke imihla. Banokuzibiza ngegama ngegama, kwaye bayazibona izinto ezisetyenziswa ngokuxhaphakileyo (pacifier, bottle ...). Ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokubafundisa Ukubetha kwesingqi ngesandla (umzekelo iingcuka ezintlanu), ukuba kuthi ndlela-ntle, mfundise ukulinganisa izandi (izilwanyana, iimoto ...). Yindawo elungileyo etyebileyo kodwa engakoyisi.

Iminyaka 1-3

Emva kweenyanga zokuqonda, kuza i Inqanaba lentetho. Ukujikeleza unyaka baqala ukuthetha amagama abo okuqala, kwaye baqale ukunxibelelana ngolwimi lwabo. Unokunxibelelana ngokulula kunye nabo. Siza kukushiyela iingcebiso malunga nento omawuyenze kwaye ungayenzi:

Iingcebiso zokukhuthaza iNtetho yaBantwana

• Thetha nabo: Thetha ngemini yabo yemihla ngemihla (kubo yonke imihla kukufumanisa), malunga nezinto abazenzileyo kunye noko bakubonileyo namhlanje, abathe bathetha nabo… kwaye ubabuze imibuzo ethile malunga neenkcukacha ukubakhuthaza ukuba bazivakalise. Ewe ayisiyo monologue. Umnqweno wakho wokuthetha uvela ngokufuna ukunxibelelana nathi. Ukuba baziva bengavumelekanga ukuba bathethe, abayi kwenza mgudu.
• Mfundele amabaliUmzuzu wokudibana nomntwana wakho oya kuthi umncede aphonononge ilizwe. Ungalitshintsha ibinzana lomntu ukwenza ulonwabo ngakumbi kwaye ungasoloko ufunda ngokufanayo. Emva kwethutyana bayaphela ukuyazi ngentloko, singanqumama ukuze umntwana aqhubeke nebali okanye simnike umkhondo. Ngale ndlela uya kuziqhelanisa namagama amatsha.
• Imidlalo yamagamaImidlalo elula ngokolwazi lwakho ukuze unike igama izinto ezikwindawo ethile. Abantwana bafunda ngokukhawuleza ngelixa udlala. Ukubeka amagama amatsha, sebeza endlebeni yakhe ukuze awaphinde.
• Ngqo ukumlungisa: Ukuba uthetha igama elingalunganga, uphendulwa ngegama elithethwe kakuhle kodwa ngaphandle kokumxelela ukuba ulithethile kakubi. Umzekelo ukuba umntwana uthi "inkwenkwe" ngalo lonke ixesha ebona imoto yamapolisa athi "Ewe, yimoto yamapolisa".
• Bakhuthaze ukuba bathethe emnxebeni: kuba abanakho ukuzithetha ngenye indlela, abanandlela yimbi ngaphandle kokuthetha ukuze banxibelelane. Ukuba uyabona ukuba ukhathazekile, ungamnceda.
• Bancome ngempumelelo yabo-Mvuyisane naye ngempumelelo yakhe encinci, iya kumnika ukuzithemba kunye nokukhuseleka, kwaye uya kufuna ukufunda ngakumbi.

Iingcebiso malunga nokungakwenzi

• Ungamniki ulwimi lwezandla: abantwana abaninzi banxibelelana nezimbo zomzimba kuba kulula kakhulu kubo. Ukuba walatha kwi-pacifier, into yokudlala, musa ukumbuza ukuba uyayifuna na. Makazame ukuveza izimvo zakhe ukumkhuthaza ukuba athethe. Lihloniphe ixesha labo.
• Sukusebenzisa kakubi umnxeba, umabonwakude kunye nethebhulethi: Itekhnoloji ilungile kodwa ngendlela elawulwayo. Ngale ndlela bafumana ulwazi oluninzi kodwa ngendlela engacacanga, kwaye amaxesha amaninzi asetyenziswa ngabazali ukubagcina bethule kwaye bezolile. Ngokufanelekileyo, ukususela kwiminyaka emincinci kakhulu, khuthaza ukufunda ukukhuthaza ukucinga kwabo kunye nobuchule bokuyila.
• Sukusebenzisa ulwimi lwakhe naye: Iyahlekisa njengoko inokubonakala ngathi, sukusebenzisa ulwimi lwabo okanye ayizukuqhubela phambili. Thetha kuye ngolwimi olulula kodwa oluchanekileyo ngokobudala bakhe. Abantwana baxelisa abadala babo, kwaye xa ungalindelanga, ulwimi lwabo luya kuphucuka.
• Sukuphendula endaweni yoko: Oku kwenziwa kakhulu ngabazali, umntu omdala ubabuza okuthile kwaye siphendule endaweni yoko. Mnike ixesha kwaye ukuba akathethi nto, akukho nto yenzekayo.

Kwaye ngezi ngcebiso, abazali banokuziva bonelisekile ngokuba babandakanyekile kwaye bancediswa ekuphuhliseni ulwimi ebantwaneni bethu ngendlela yendalo, ngaphandle koxinzelelo kunye nokuqonda okuninzi.

Kuba khumbula ... umntwana ngamnye wahlukile kwaye uyamangalisa. Masikuphephe ukuthelekisa!