Khuthaza ubuchule ebantwaneni

Ukuyila yeyona ndlela ikhululekileyo esinokuthi siziveze ngayo. Obu buchule bunceda abantwana ukuba bajongane neemvakalelo zabo, ukukhuthaza ubukrelekrele babo kunye nokuzazi njengabantu abahlukileyo abaneempawu ezizodwa. Kungoko ukubaluleka kokukhuthaza ubuchule babantwana bethu. Nazi ezinye iingcebiso zokukunceda wenze ngempumelelo.

Ixesha lokuphola labantwana kunye nexesha lasimahla
Kuluntu oluphawulwe ngoxinzelelo, ukuhamba rhoqo kunye noxinzelelo lokuhlala usuku ngemisebenzi eluncedo kunye nemveliso, kuye kwavela isidingo esingenakuphepheka: ukufumana indawo zokuphumla kunye nokonwabela ixesha lasimahla.

Olu tshintsho aluchaphazeli nje ubomi babantu abadala. Kwasebuncinaneni, abantwana babona usuku lwabo lwesikolo lwandisiwe ngemisebenzi yokuncedisa, kwilinge labazali lokusombulula ukungangqinelani kwexesha okuchaphazela usukelo losapho.

Ngesi sizathu, ukufundisa ixesha lasimahla ngumsebenzi ofumana ukubaluleka kwemihla ngemihla. Abantwana baya kufunda besebancinci ukonwabela iindawo zabo zokuphumla ukuba bafundiswe ukuba kukho ixesha layo yonke into, ukuba ukuphazamiseka kunye nokuphumla kubalulekile njengemisebenzi ejolise ekuphuculeni ukukhula kwengqondo kunye nomzimba.

Ubudlelwane kunye nobuchule
Kubalulekile ukuba ukhumbule ukuba ulonwabo yimeko ebalulekileyo yokukhuthaza ukukhula kobuchule bokuyila. Kwimizuzu apho umntwana engacinezelwa zizikhokelo ezimiselweyo malunga nezinto ekufuneka ezenzile kunye nendlela ekufuneka ajongane nayo, uziva ekhululekile ukuveza izimvo zakhe, iimvakalelo, ukukhathazeka kunye neminqweno yakhe. Ke, ubuchule osebenza kubo buba bobakho.
Enye yeendlela ezibaluleke kakhulu kwimisebenzi yokuyila yabantwana kukudlala. Ngayo basebenzisa izixhobo eziqhelekileyo ngeendlela ezintsha okanye ezingaqhelekanga kwaye badlala iindima zokucinga. Umzekelo, xa usenza abalinganiswa kunye neemeko zemidlalo.

Oontanga abaninzi bakujongela phantsi ukubaluleka kokudlala kubomi babantwana babo. Kubonakala kubo ngathi bachitha ixesha labo kwinto engenamsebenzi. Bakhetha ukuba bakhulise eminye imisebenzi enjengokuzoba, ukupeyinta okanye ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo wasekhaya. Kwezo meko bayalibala ukuba imidlalo ikhuthaza ukukhula komzimba, kwengqondo kunye nentlalo yomntwana.

Isithukuthezi xa kuthelekiswa nokuzonwabisa rhoqo

Gcina ukhumbula ukuba ufunda ukusebenzisa ixesha lakho lasimahla. Uninzi lwabantwana luqhele abazali babo ukuba babapheleke kwimidlalo yabo okanye babaxelele ukuba mabenze ntoni okanye bahlale bonwabisa. Ke ngoko, ukuba sicela ukuba benze nantoni na abayifunayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba abazi ukuba mabenze ntoni okanye basixelele ukuba bayadikwa.

Ukusebenzisa inkululeko, ukwazi ukuba ufuna ntoni okanye yintoni ekunika okona konwaba, ngumsebenzi onzima kakhulu. Kodwa, kuba ukukhula koyilo kuxhomekeke ekubeni umntwana azivakalise ngokukhululekileyo, kubalulekile ukufundisa umntwana wethu ukuba ayisebenzise. Kule meko, isithukuthezi sinokuba sisikhuthazo emntwaneni sokuba aqale ukudala imidlalo evela kwingcinga yakhe, ukwakha amabali apho yena ngokwakhe engumntu ophambili okanye aziyilele iingoma zokuvakalisa izimvo zakhe.

Imisebenzi ekhuthaza ubuchule bokuyila
Njengoko besitshilo, umdlalo yenye yemisebenzi evuselela ubuchule. Ukukhuthaza oku, nikeza umntwana wakho izixhobo anokuthetha ngokukhululekileyo ngazo, njengodongwe, intlama okanye iibhloko. Mvumele ukuba ayile kwaye enze ngokukhululekileyo, ngokuqhatha, ngaphandle kokuyeka okanye ukugxeka.

Imidlalo yedrama kunye nemiboniso yoonopopayi, imidaniso, izinxibo, indawo yokufihla, indlu yokudlala okanye indawo yokuhlala, zilungile kakhulu iindlela zokwenza iindima kunye nokuzonwabisa okwakho.

Ukuzoba, ukupeyinta, okanye imisebenzi yezandla ikwayimisebenzi emihle yoyilo. Vumela umntwana wakho ukuba aziveze emaphepheni amakhulu, ngaphandle kokukopa nayiphi na imizobo esetiweyo okanye ipateni. Nika umntwana izinto ezilahlwayo ukuze enze ezakhe izinto zokudlala. Unodoli onephepha, ilori enebhokisi yezihlangu, njl.

Ukuthetha ngokutyibilikayo kunye nesigama esifanelekileyo zizixhobo ezifanelekileyo zokuchaza ngcono izimvo kunye neemvakalelo zakho

Mkhuthaze ukuba athethe, athethe ngezinto ezimxhalabisayo okanye ezimvuyisayo. Kwelinye icala, khuthaza ukuba bhetyebhetye kwengcinga, umncede ukuba abone ukuba ingxaki inokuba nezisombululo ezininzi.

Amabali ayindlela ekhuthazwayo kakhulu yokuba abantwana bethu banike inkululeko yokucinga kunye nokucinga. Mxelele nokuba ibenye ngosuku kodwa mvumele angenelele ebalini, acebise ukuba liyaqhubeka okanye liphela njani ibali okanye enze umdlalo othile.

Ubuchule lutshaba yesiqhelo. Ke ngoko, kubalulekile ukwenza izicwangciso zokuzonwabisa kunye ukophula usuku olunye.

Uyenza njani imeko efanelekileyo yomntwana ngamnye?
Vumela umntwana wakho adlale okanye afunde apho ahlala khona lula. Ukuba ukhetha ukwenza imisebenzi elele phantsi okanye esofeni, sukunyanzelisa ukuba uhlale esitulweni uyenze. Unokufuna ukushiya ubuchule bakho kunokutshintsha indawo.

Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba umntwana wakho ujolise kumculo okanye ngengxolo yangasemva, sukuzama ukumqinisekisa ukuba ukuthula kungcono.

Chonga ngokujonga ngononophelo inkuthazo esebenza ngcono kumntwana wakho (ukuva, ukujonga, ukuphatha) kunye nokuzisebenzisa ukukhuthaza ubuchule.

Ukugcina engqondweni
Ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zabantwana bakho zokuyila kunye nokuthetha ngokukhululekileyo, qiniseka ukubonelela ngemisebenzi esekwe kwiminqweno nakwimbono zabo. Funda ukumamela ngononophelo kule nto bayithetha kuwe.
Zama ukungagwebi, ukuvavanya okanye ukuthelekisa intetho yokuyila yabantwana bakho.
Ivelisa ukuba omncinci afunde kwangethuba ukuzibeka kwindawo yabanye (abahlobo, abantakwabo, ootatomkhulu ...) kwaye uyazi ukuba zininzi iindlela zokujongana nengxaki.

Isikhokelo esincinci kunye noncedo kunokunceda, kodwa ulumke ungaphazamisi uphando lwabantwana bakho.

Bavumele ukuba benze iimpazamo, kungoko kuphela apho kuya kwenziwa ukufunda okutsha. Inkqubela phambili enkulu yezobuchwephesha kunye nokufumanisa kuye kwavela kwimizamo emininzi yangaphambili kunye neempazamo, kuba abantu bayile ukwenza njalo.

Nxibelelana nobuchule bakho. Ukuba asinabuganga bokucinga, ukuhamba, ukusebenzisa izakhono zethu zokudlala, ngekhe sikwazi ukuhambisa kubo ulonwabo lokudala. Ukufumana okungathintelwanga akukho lula, kodwa kufanelekile, iziphumo zibala ngaphezu komzamo.
Kubalulekile ukuba abantwana babe nenkululeko yokuveza iminqweno yabo ngokukhululekileyo, ukuze kamva bayithelekise nenyani. Kuya kufuneka bafunde ukuba yonke into inexesha layo, kwaye zombini zilungile.