Usana lwam lufuna ukuchukumisa yonke into

Ukuphonononga umntwana

Ngubani ongazange ave okanye athethe emntwaneni ibinzana eliqhekekileyo "Ayichukumiseki leyo"?

Bonke abantwana banexesha labo lokufuna ukuchukumisa yonke into. Iithoyi zabo okanye umgama kude kumabonakude, amaqhosha ... nantoni na ebatsala. Nokuba yintoni, ayinabungozi, ibuthathaka, izinto eziyingozi ...

Yintoni esinokuyenza? Ngaba kufuneka sisoloko sisithi ayichukunyiswa le? Okanye ngokuchaseneyo, mababambe yonke into abayifunayo, nokuba zizinto eziyingozi?

Ngaphambi kokuba uphendule le mibuzo, kuya kufuneka uyazi kutheni bafuna ukuyichukumisa yonke.

Masikhumbule ukuba kosana okanye umntwana, umhlaba uyindawo enomdla nengakhange ihlolwe. Kuya kufuneka bayifumanise kwaye oku kunokwenzeka kuphela ngamava.

Ngeentsana nabantwana Iingcaciso zethiyori azisebenzi, kufuneka babe namava ehlabathiNdiyifumane. Ukuziphatha kwabo okuqhubekayo okuqhubekayo akuphenduli kwi-whim kodwa kuyimfuneko yomyalelo wokuqala, kubalulekile ekuphuhlisweni kwabo ngokuchanekileyo njengokutya okanye ukuphumla.

Nantoni na inomdla, hayi kuphela eyenzelwe iintsana, iithoyi zabantwana, kodwa nezinto ezibuthathaka okanye ezo zinokumela ingozi kukhuseleko lwazo.

Wenza njani xa ufuna ukuchukumisa yonke into?

Indima yethu njengabantu abadala abanoxanduva kukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwabo kodwa ngaphandle kokuthintela iimfuno zabo zokuhlola.

Ukuthi "oko kungachukunyiswanga" ukongeza ekubeni kuyadinisa, kunokuba yinto engeloncedo. Usana, ngenxa yokungakhuli, alunakuphulaphula iinkcazo okanye luqonde ukuqonda kwethu kwabantu abadala. Ukuba ufumana ukwaliwa okuninzi, isidingo sakho sokuphononongwa siza kuphazamiseka. Xa izinto ezingathandekiyo zigqithile, umntwana unokusabela ngeendlela ezimbini. Inokuphelisa ukuyeka ukuhlola, ukuzibamba, okanye inokukutyeshela oko sikuthethayo kwaye ibe "yimvukelo."

Isitshixo siya kufumaneka kuthintelo. Singalinciphisa inani lokwala kwaye sinciphise ukungavisisani kwabo ngokubasusa kwindawo yabo yombono zonke ezo zinto singafuni kuzichukumisa kakuhle kuba ziyingozi, kuba zibuthathaka okanye ngenxa yokuba sinesidima kuzo. Ukuba awuyiboni, ayizukufumana ngqalelo kwaye awuyi kuyicela.


Ikwangumbono olungileyo ukuzama ukugcina a ukuhambelana kwindlela esiziphatha ngayo. Ukuba ngenye imini sibashiyela izitshixo zemoto, akukho ngqiqweni ukubakhanyela ngolunye usuku. Ukuba asifuni ukuba abaphathe, masingabashiyi kuye.

Kungenzeka ukuba ekungakhathaleli kwabantu abadala, baphele bekhetha into esingafuni bayichukumise. Zama ukwenza ifayile ye- utshintshiselwano ngoxolo Ukubonelela ngento enomtsalane yindlela elungileyo yokusombulula imeko ngaphandle kwengxabano.


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