Kutheni abantwana bedlala amakhwenkwe

Abantwana abazenza amakhwenkwe

Abantwana baxelisa izimo zengqondo zabantu abadala, ukuba yindlela yabo yokufunda kunye nokuqonda ukuba isebenza kanjani indawo ebangqongileyo. Xa abantwana bezenza amasoka, baxelisa kuphela isimilo sabantu abadala, bayabona ukuba amasoka abamba izandla, banikela ingqalelo enkulu, bayakhathalelana kwaye bayamanga. Yiyo loo nto abantwana bayiqonda ngokuba ngamakhwenkwe, ukuthandana nokukhathalelana ngaphandle kwenye injongo.

Emdlalweni, abantwana baxelisa iindima zezibini ngendlela esisiseko, ngaphandle kokuba kubekho ubudlelwane obunomdla njengoko kunjalo kubudlelwane babantu abadala. Ke ngoko, xa kuziwa kubantwana abancinci, musa ukuyinika ukubaluleka kakhulu. Into eyahlukileyo inokwenzeka kuBantwana abaDala, kuba banokubonisa iimvakalelo ezinxulumene nokufikisa.

Eli linqanaba lokuqala le- ukufikisa kwaye iyahambelana nokukhula kwabantwana ngokwesondo. Ke ngoko, abantwana abazenza amakhwenkwe aphakathi kweminyaka esi-7 ukuya kweli-11 banokubonisa iimvakalelo zokwenene. Ke kubalulekile ukuba unake, kuba kule midlalo banako iindlela zokuziphatha ezingalunganga kunye neemeko ziyavela.

Abantwana abadlala amakhwenkwe

Ukudlala isoka

Ukufumana isizathu sokuba abantwana bazenze amakhwenkwe, kuya kufuneka ucinge ngokuziphatha kwabantu abadala kwesi sihloko. Xa abantwana bebudala obuthile, Kuqhelekile ukuba abantu abadala babuze ukuba sele benayo na inkwenkwe okanye intombi, okanye xa bethetha ngaye nawuphi na umhlobo bazama ukufumanisa ukuba ingaba ikwenye into na. Into engalunganga kwaphela kwaye ekufuneka ilawulwe.

Isizathu? Abantwana bayitolika gwenxa le mibuzo kwaye ukuba abantu abadala bayababuza ukuba sele benesithandwa okanye intombi, Bacinga ukuba yinto eqhelekileyo, into elindeleke kubo. Ngendlela yabo yokwanelisa abantu abadala ababangqongileyo, bahlengahlengisa iimeko ezingaqhelekanga kubo. Ngale ndlela, baqala ukubona abahlobo babo ngendlela eyahlukileyo, nangona bengazi ukuba kutheni.

Ukuba ubuza umntwana wakho oneminyaka emi-5 okanye emi-6 ukuba kuthetha ntoni kuye ukuba nentombi okanye isoka, ngokunokwenzeka akayazi indlela yokukunika impendulo. Nokuba uyayiqonda into yokuba ukuba sisoka ngabahlobo abasenyongweni. Kwaye kulapho ke kufuneka ugcine ubumsulwa, kuba ayilunganga into yokuba abantwana abancinci kangaka bakholelwe ukuba bangamakhwenkwe. Nangona iyinto eqhelekileyo, ayisiyiyo eyodlula indlela yokumakisha iindima zabantwana kunye nokwenza umahluko phakathi kwabo.

Ndenza ntoni xa inkwenkwana yam idlala amasoka?

Abantwana abancinci badlala ukuba ngamakhwenkwe

Ukuba ukhathazekile ngabantwana abadlala ukuthandana, kufuneka uqale uthathe imibuzo ethile ukuze ufumane indlela yokwenza. Ngaba bangaphantsi kweminyaka esi-8 ubudala? Ngaba uqhele ukubona izibini ekhaya, njengabantakwenu abadala kunye namanye amalungu osapho? Ngaba bangaphambi kolutsha? Le mibuzo iya kukunika izitshixo zokwenza. Kwimeko yabaphambi kwexesha lokufikisa, abantwana abaneminyaka eli-10 okanye eli-12 ubudala, incoko ebalulekileyo malunga nolwalamano olunomdla, ngothando kunye nemfundo yezesondo iyafuna.

Kubantwana abancinci, eyona nto ilula kunye nefanelekileyo ukuyenza kukuthoba umdlalo. Babuze ukuba baya kunye na kwimiboniso bhanyabhanya, ukuba bangaya esidlweni sodwa ngaphandle kwabazali babo, into eqhelekileyo kukuba bakuxelele ukuba bayahamba kunye kwikhefu. Chaza ukuba kwimeko enjalo, bangabahlobo abalungileyo kwaye Abahlobo bayathandana, bayakhathalelana kwaye bayakhuselana, nangona kungeyomfuneko ukuba ngamakhwenkwe Ngalo nto.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukwenza abantwana baqonde ukuba ubuhlobo linyathelo lokuqala lobudlelwane. Ayisiyiyo loo nto kuphela, kubo ilunge ngakumbi, kuba banokuba nabahlobo abaninzi, babathande bonke ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ukuba abanye abantwana banokuziva benzakele. Nangona kungafuneki unike ukubaluleka kakhulu ukuba bafuna ukudlala isoka, khumbula oko ayikho enye into ngaphandle kokulinganisa indlela yokuziphatha kwabantu abadala. Kwaye mhlawumbi, umntwana wakho ubona uthando ekhaya kwaye ufuna ukuluxelisa, indlela elungileyo yokufunda ngobudlelwane beemvakalelo.



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