Kutheni ukuyeka icuba kusisipho sabantwana bakho

Yeka icuba

Ukuyeka icuba sisipho sabantwana bakho, yezempilo yakho yomzimba kwaye kunjalo, yeemvakalelo. Abantwana bakhula bekwazi ukuba liyingozi kangakanani icuba, balibona kumabonwakude, balimamela yonke imihla. Esi sizukulwana siyazi ngakumbi iingozi zecuba ngaphezu kwayo nayiphi na enye. Kwiminyaka eyadlulayo, kumashumi eminyaka nokuba, icuba yayiyeyona nto iyiyo yonke imihla, ukutshaya kwaqala phakathi kwinqanaba lokufikisa, nangaphambi koko.

Kwakungakhange kuhlanjululwe, kwakungekho ntetho ngomonakalo obangelwe sesi sikrelemnqa siyingozi, yayiyeyona nto inika ukhuseleko. Nangona kunjalo kwaye ngethamsanqa, iminyaka bekukho amaphulo okwazisa malunga nobungozi yecuba. Oko kuthetha ukuba abantwana baqhele le ngxaki ichaphazela izigidi ezininzi zabantu kwihlabathi liphela.

Ucinga ukuba abantwana bazi ntoni ukuba icuba liyingozi?

Yeka ukutshaya

Xa abantwana bebabona abazali babo betshaya, abakwazi ukuzibamba babone ukuba abona bantu babalulekileyo ebomini babo benza into eyingozi kwimpilo yabo. Abantwana bayazi ukuba icuba liyabulala, bayibona kwintengiso, bayiva esikolweniBade bammamele njengecebiso kubo. Ke ngoko, ukuva ukuba akufuneki batshaye kuba kuyingozi kwimpilo yabo, kodwa bebona indlela abazali babo abenza ngayo, ngumyalezo odidayo ngokupheleleyo kubantwana.

Ukuba unyana okanye intombi yakho ikucela ukuba ungatshayi, bakhathazekile, bayoyika kwaye bayoyika xa ufaka umdiza emlonyeni wabo, kangangokuba bade uyenza ngokufihlakeleyo ukuze bangakuboni, Umkhwa wakho usenokuba ufikelele kwinqanaba lokuphumla. Ootata noomama banakho ukubenzela nantoni na abantwana babo, nangona kunjalo, kwiimeko ezininzi ukuyeka icuba ayisiyiyo enye yezo zinto.

Ububi kunye noxinzelelo lokuyeka umkhwa ukogqitha uthando lwabantwana. Kubuhlungu oku njengoko kunjalo, umntu uhlala engafuni ukujamelana nobushushu benyani obuquka oko. Kodwa ayikaze ifike mva, Kule mihla kukho iindlela kunye nezixhobo ezingapheliyo ezandleni zakhe nabani na ukuba ayeke ukutshaya. Ukukhaba umkhwa sisipho sabantwana bakho, kodwa nawe.

Kubantwana bakho ungamandla, unesibindi kwaye babona kuwe oyena mntu ubalulekileyo emhlabeni. Ukuyeka icuba kuya kuba sisipho, umzekelo wokoyisa kwaye Isifundo esikhulu somandla oya kuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ubone umvuzo ebomini bakho bonke.


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